Happy families are very similar, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes.
The TV series "All Is Good" is supposed to say that the Su family has two men and one daughter, and the daughter should be very spoiled. But Mother Su treated her son like an emperor and her daughter as a slave. When her son wanted to study abroad, Su's mother sold Mingyu's room to let the 18-year-old Mingyu squeeze into a room with them, and she thought it would be nice to be able to provide Mingyu with food and clothing. The daughter obviously can pass the Qinghua examination, but only let her study teacher training, just to save money for the second son. Mingyu lived in this patriarchal family for 18 years.
She didn't blame herself, she was lucky, and that luck came from her foresight. In school, she learned the truth that knowledge changes fate, Mingyu went to Normal University, strengthened her master when she was working outside, and immediately made up her mind to do sales with her master, ending her studies. After several years of hard work in the mall, I earned money and social status.
Although Mingyu looks strong on the outside, he is a little girl in front of Boss Shi, her heart is more eager for affection and love than anyone, perhaps it is Xiaomi's aunt who melted her cold appearance, although she said that she broke off relations with the Su family, but when Mingzhe lost her job, she secretly helped Mingzhe arrange work. Mingyu also treats Su Daqiang like this, often sneering on the surface but willing to contribute money and efforts in his heart.
A happy childhood can cure a lifetime, but an unhappy childhood must be cured with a lifetime.
Not every girl can become her own backer like a strong woman like Su Mingyu in the unfortunate childhood, and most of them are Still Fan Shengmei in real life. Fan mother's son preference, Fan Shengmei's ordinary education in Shanghai every month more than 10,000 salary to raise her brother and family of three and parents every month, she can only share with her roommate who just graduated, but his own life is very frugal, in order to support her family, she has become vain, carrying a fake bag to walk the upper class, being looked at by rich men to send some bags shopping cards, she turned back to sell and cash, Qu Xiaoxiu said that she is just a plate of dishes on the table of those men, she is eager to find a rich second generation or long-term meal ticket to help her solve the dilemma of life.
She wanted a home of her own, even if it was small. You can see her vulnerability, she longs to have a family and be loved, so when Wang Baichuan bought a house without adding her name, she completely collapsed. Because she regards Wang Baichuan as her own life-saving straw, she is also selfish in love, not only to help Wang Baichuan help her raise her brother's family together but also to move to Wang Baichuan's parents, which is probably the appearance of most unfortunate girls, facing the helplessness of life and longing for someone to help someone hurt.
Su Mingyu and Fan Shengmei both have unfortunate childhood experiences, they have common characteristics, their hearts are particularly sensitive and fragile, they are cautious in the face of love, they long for love and care from family affection. The difference between them is that Su Mingyu changes her fate through her own efforts, while Fan Shengmei solves the troubles of life because she wants to rely on men to work and live a life, just how to find long-term meal tickets
Do you think Su Mingyu and Fan Shengmei are also girls with unfortunate childhood experiences, which one do you prefer?