When it comes to Chinese classic love marriage dramas, although there are many excellent film and television works that make many viewers deeply touched, if you want to select ten classic love marriage stories of TV series, "Golden Marriage" and "Parental Love" are definitely the top two.
The same is to tell the love marriage story of the older generation, the same is the marriage process that spanned 50 years, "Golden Marriage" has been in front of the pearl, and it has been replayed for many years after broadcasting. When "Parental Love" was broadcast, seven years had passed since "Golden Marriage", but the audience did not have any aesthetic fatigue for this kind of subject, and when "Parental Love" was broadcast that year, the audience also gave a high evaluation.
Let's first look at the network ratings of the two dramas:
The TV series "Golden Wedding" was broadcast in 2007 with a total of 50 episodes, directed by Zheng Xiaolong, starring Zhang Guoli and Jiang Wenli. Douban score 8.5 points, the number of ratings: 50,000 people.
The TV series "Parental Love" was broadcast in 2014 with a total of 44 episodes, directed by Kong Sheng, starring Guo Tao and Mei Ting. Douban score 9.5, the number of ratings 23.24W.
These two dramas, whether from the director or the actors, are equal in strength, let's talk about the differences between the two plays.
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As can be seen from the titles of the two TV series, the focus of "Golden Marriage" is "marriage", and the focus of "Parental Love" is "love".
In "The Golden Marriage", Wen Li is a primary school teacher with a Beijing hukou, an intellectual, and a scholar from Xiangmendi. She likes to read popular novels, likes to watch movies, likes to wear beautiful Bragi, likes to dance, and shows petty bourgeoisie.
Tong Zhi is a young pacesetter technician in the machinery factory, Geng Zhi is straight and thick, although he does not understand romance, but he does have some talent.
Tong Zhi and Wen Li were free in love, and in the first two years of marriage, Tong Zhi did pet Wen Li as a princess. However, with the embarrassment of the two people's lives, the increase in housework, and the escalation of the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the two constantly quarreled over the trivial matters of life, and although Tong Zhi said that he went to work in other places, he obviously had the meaning of escaping reality. With the emergence of "Li Tianjiao", the marriage of the two once had a crisis.
All kinds of indifference to his wife, but for Li Tianjiao, Tong Zhi's attitude is a three-hundred-and-sixty-degree turn.
The most heartfelt scene in the "Golden Marriage" drama is that when Tong Zhi's mother died, Wen Li was alone in the hospital with heartache and helplessness, but Tong Zhi and Li Tianjiao, a confidant of the red face, "spiritual derailment", the two leisurely drank coffee and exchanged heartfelt feelings.
When Wen Li learned of Tong Zhi's "spiritual derailment", he also avoided the weight and lightly excused himself, saying that "he had never even touched his hand", which could not be regarded as derailment.
Ke Wenli's rebuttal made Tong Zhi lose his voice: "You haven't touched her hand, but you touched her heart."
The tense relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the problem of food and clothing, and the quarrels between husband and wife in the play can make the audience have great empathy.
For the audience who do not like "Golden Marriage", the appearance of Li Tianjiao is one of the failures, which has also become a thorn in Wen Li's heart, and she cannot let go of it until she is old. The "spiritual derailment" paragraph seems to tarnish the significance of the play "Golden Marriage", but for countless adults in the world, this is the key to "Golden Marriage" surpassing "Parental Love".
In contrast, the marriage of Anjie and Jiang Defu has no troubles of housework, no complicated mother-in-law relationship, and a certain material life foundation, so the marriage of Anjie and Jiang Defu is much more harmonious.
The feeling of "Parental Love" is "you have me, I have you", two people support each other and become the best in each other's minds. But in contrast, "Golden Wedding" is bumpy and real, in line with the lives of most ordinary people.
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When Miss Capitalist Anjie first moved to the island, she used the public dry toilets in the countryside, and Jiang Defu, as a husband, complained: "I knew that you had so many problems, and I didn't marry you for a lifetime," but after all, he turned around and built a new toilet for Anjie in his yard.
On the other hand, Tong Zhi, Wen Li took care of her children alone, took care of her mother-in-law, and had to go to work. However, he chose to leave the family in the upper and lower levels, and he chose to leave the family, which was ostensibly a business affair, but he was not without the suspicion of escape.
Anjie has always retained the habit of drinking coffee, thanks to Jiang Defu. Jiang Defu himself was very unaccustomed to coffee, but in that difficult era, he bought Anjie coffee for a lifetime, and she respected and supported Anjie's "life of drinking water cups, drinking tea cups, and drinking coffee cups." However, Tong Zhi no longer likes the beautiful and amorous Wenli in the life of chai rice oil and salt and chicken feathers, but hopes that she will become the sister-in-law next door.
When Anjie's sister-in-law Jiang Dehua first came, Anjie and his sister-in-law also had irreconcilable contradictions, Jiang Defu sandwiched between his sister and his wife, but gradually learned to be with the mud, and later took the initiative to solve the problem, and the family's feelings became deeper and deeper. And Tong Zhi is indifferent in the face of the tense relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and every time he sees the contradiction between his mother and daughter-in-law, he becomes more and more fierce, but he chooses to leave home to hide quietly and passively escape.
Jiang Defu's reconciliation of the contradictions between Jiang Dehua and Anjie is simply exemplary and worth learning. On the other hand, Tong Zhi is really average, but such a plot is also real.
It's like two pieces of dry mud, and Jiang Defu is water, soaking them and kneading them together. Tong Zhi is a big mallet, directly knocked into ashes, and then piled up again.
Although "Parental Love" has some ideals, it can feel a husband's respect and concern for his wife. Jiang Defu, who seems to have a big grin and a rough man, is the most delicate and warm one.
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Every woman wants to be Anjie, but most women live to become Wenli.
The male and female protagonists of the two dramas "Golden Marriage" and "Parental Love" are free love, both are married for 50 years, and the heroines Wen Li and Anjie are literary, simple, good-looking, well-born, and pampered at home. Why is it that Wen Li lived a bitter and tired life after marriage, but Anjie was happy and sweet?
Anjie, she is arrogant, she loves people, she has to be unforgiving, but she understands fun and understands the general body. For Jiang Defu, she can put away her favorite high heels and cheongsam.
After marriage, Wen Li paid too much attention to material enjoyment, did not have a little sense of financial management, and paid her salary to watch movies, eat Western food, buy clothes, and perm her hair. Next door, the big Zhuang family only has one person to earn money, but the family Zhuang sister-in-law is diligent and thrifty, in that difficult era can still have meat to eat, their family, Tong Zhi and Wen Li have two people to earn money, but most of the time every month, the family can only boil noodles in white water.
Tong Zhi and Wen Li have four children, but Wen Li prefers sons to daughters, and this idea of preferring sons to daughters is a big mistake in Wen Li's life. After having children, the emotional communication with Tong Zhi has obviously become less, and these children have not been well educated, after having Dabao, Wen Li poured most of her efforts into him, and finally caused the tragedy of Dabao.
Out of the mix, sooner or later it is necessary to pay back. It can be seen that the two of them also broke their hearts for their children in their later years.
Anjie and Jiang Defu have five children, although the two are also very busy, but Jiang Defu's sister has worked hard to bring them children, so that they have a lot less worries. After having children, Anjie did not put all the focus of life on the children, but "husband and wife both returned home", and the two respected each other and supported each other throughout their lives.
"Parental Love" family portrait
The couple in "Golden Wedding" quarreled and quarreled for a lifetime, and finally walked through 50 years of ups and downs hand in hand. In the last episode, two white-haired old men, trembling, one foot deep and one foot shallow, walking in the snow with their arms in hand, their backs getting farther and farther away, I think that is the warmest moment in the whole series.
"Golden Wedding" family portrait
The young Wen Li in the narrator playfully read the letter of guarantee, at this time suddenly found that the original Tong Zhi's guarantee in this life had not been done, but in the end the two were also white-headed and old, this kind of sad romance, the consummation of the ruin, is still quite regrettable.
Overall, "Golden Wedding" is a stuffy drama, while "Parental Love" is a cool drama. However, "Parental Love" may not really exist, and "Golden Marriage" cannot show that the real married life is a chicken feather.
"Golden Marriage" has reached the peak of marital life drama in terms of spread and influence, while "Parental Love" has reached the peak of marital love ideologically. In terms of the quality of the TV series, the performances of the actors of the two dramas are not a little pretentious, the expressions and lines are natural, natural and smooth, and the look and feel is particularly comfortable. If you want to get more deep thinking and enlightenment about love and marriage, I think both dramas are worth going into, and both are worth our repeated tastes.
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