I
Father
My father, my son
target
Son
"If a person wants to go, no one can stop him"
I recommend this film to N individuals, especially my fellow men. Personally, I think this is a must-see movie for fellow men. And a movie worth watching repeatedly. When you are a son, when you are a father, when you are a grandfather. Every time you change your identity, you will have a new understanding.
The first time I saw this movie was in college, I remember that night at 12 o'clock, I was still watching this movie, and then I cried a mess, and I still remember that I threw a pack of tissues on the bunk, a pack of tissues in the night. Later, there was another training in Tai'an, which should be around Father's Day, listening to the whistling mountain wind and watching this movie. I don't remember how many people I recommended this movie to. Born as a son, as a son, the relationship between father and son has always been a hot topic in many film and television works.
My Father, My Son Synopsis · · · · ·
Anarchist journalist Sadik (Fikret Kuskan) dies on the day of a military coup because he was unable to take his wife to the hospital in time, resulting in excessive blood loss. As soon as his son Deniz was born, he was sent to prison and tortured. Not long after his release from prison, Sadik's new life did not take long, and for his son, he returned to his parents' home with a secret that had long since severed ties. His father, Huseyin (Çetin Tekindor), cannot forgive Sadik for not listening to him when he studied agriculture. The mother did her best to repair the relationship between father and son. Just as the family is about to see the dawn, Sadik's secret is like a thunderbolt on a sunny day that once again brings up a quiet life. (Source Douban, invasion and deletion)
Background: In 1980, the Turkish military staged a coup d'état, deposing the government and dissolving parliament.
1. Sadik and his father
Forgive me for indulging in the love of freedom in my life--- rebellion, and challenging patriarchy. Sadik, in order to pursue his own freedom, for his own ideals, and perhaps even more because of rebellion, in order to rebel against his father's arrangement for him, refused to go to the Agricultural University to study, with the ideal of changing the world and making the world a better place. At the beginning, Sadik did not hesitate to run away from home, for her own ideals, here also corresponds to the reflection of the mother and father later in the film on this matter.
When Sadik returned home in order to give his son a free space, the father did not understand him, he turned his head again and left, but thought of his son still turned back, at this time his mother said you go this time, I will go with you, I will not let you leave alone, "you have left once, don't want to go again." Later, Sadik died, and his father returned to his hometown with his body, standing at the intersection, suddenly shouting loudly with excitement, crying bitterly, shouting, regretting that he had not stopped him and hugged him at that time. Sadik blamed herself for being embarrassed, when Sadik's aunt had his other son run to his father and knocked him down, and told him, "No one can stop him if he wants to go."
Because of his father's strength, Sadik did not understand his father, and his father believed that going to the agricultural university, marrying a village girl, and inheriting the family farm was a very natural life. Then in the hospital room, the father told Sadik that he was not good at expressing, "You are my son, you are my everything." The father always thinks that the son has not grown up, always wants to control the son, but he does not know that the son has grown up, and every time the father's control is basically out of control because of love, and the son is taken away.
You want to control our way of life so much, but I want my own life, my school, everything I choose, do you know that I hate this, Dad? "Dad, you said I left, but I didn't, I can't go, I can't stay. I don't recognize where it is my home. You've been guiding me somewhere in my head, do you know what it's like to be homeless? "Do you know why I'm back?" Dad, in order to give Deniz a room, let him grow up healthy, let him have a home. ”
Fathers who are not good at expressing themselves always give in to their sons because of love, and the sons do not understand. Just like in the Lion King, because of Simba, Mufasa had a soft rib and knew to be afraid.
For most of us, when we were young, if we had a very strong father, we might have a kind of rebellion in our hearts, and the adults said that we should go east to west, and it seemed that this kind of rebellion of mine came very late. When I was a child, my father was very gentle with me, basically free range, and did not interfere too much with me, including when I went to college to choose a major to work, but I did not have much intervention. When I was tired of work and wanted to resign and jump ship, my father still did not say anything, has been silently supporting, and later married, thinking about the so-called freedom I pursued for myself over the years, it is very irresponsible for family affection, a father who silently pays for you behind my back, and I make a forced choice again and again for my own freedom, that is, selfishness, again and again let him make a forced choice - no reason to support. The concessions of affection, the compromise of our fathers, support our freedom.
The reconciliation between father and son in the play comes from a conversation in the courtyard, and the father says to his son: You know the difficulty of raising a son. And when Sadik says, "Life goes on." Someone can write a new book, but he can't read it. Someone would make a new movie, but he couldn't see it. He wanted to listen to his favorite song again, but he couldn't. It may also be easy to get used to. He grew up slowly, but he wasn't around him, and he couldn't see his girlfriend anymore. "Dad, my heart seems to be burning. It was the burning sensation of unfinished business behind me. Dad, give him a home and let him come and go freely. Sadik fell, the camera turned, and the picture rotated, which also meant that father and son had finally reconciled. This is also a particularly tear-jerking place in the play, and it is also the climax of the plot. Sadik knew that he could not see his son grow up, and the pain made him feel a burning sensation, and he grew up with his son, but he didn't have much time.
2. Sadik and his son
At the beginning of the plot, Sadik and his wife happily fantasize about the future life of having children, and practice with a pillow, but this kind of day changes with a coup d'état in Turkey, when his wife gives birth to a child, because the coup can not find an ambulance, and dies after giving birth to a child on the side of the road. In the early hours of the morning, Sadik hugged her son and greeted a devastated morning. Before and after comparison. A life twist begins. With the subsequent Reckoning, Sadik was taken to prison and tortured, which is why he later fell ill and died as a result. (There is also a tear point here, and at night Sadik and his wife run on the road, the music starts, and the tears come.) ）
Sadik entrusted his son to a kind fat mother, and when he was released from prison, Sadik returned to his son, and the education of his son was also to give his child full freedom, let his child read all kinds of books, because his son especially likes fantasy, and he also cooperates with his children. I just want to cultivate my child's ability to think independently and give my child a free space.
When Sadik returns to his hometown in the country with his son, the child goes to his father's bed at night, Sadik pushes his son away in pain, and the son asks his father: Don't you love me? Where is not love, in fact, the father knows that he does not have much time, wants to let the child be independent, do not rely on the father.
When Sadik finally died, his son was sullen and unhappy until school was about to start, and the son broke down and said that he missed his father. Then the grandfather took the grandson to his secret room, took the grandson to see the influence of his father when he was young, the son smiled happily, perhaps the father has become superman, watching him in heaven.
3. Sadik and friends
Sadik came home to dinner with friends, and when the dinner was over, one of the people who wanted to leave his hometown and didn't leave asked after so much, if you had a choice, would you leave? Sadik replied: "I guess I'll take all of it here and bring it all back." Sadik still has her own ideals, still wants to work hard for her ideals, and strives.
4. Sadik and love
It seems that out of love has always been in love with Sadik, Sadik left his hometown for the ideal, left his lover, but after hearing that Sadik returned, out of love carefully dressed up and waited for Sadik at the door, when Sadik appeared in front of her, she closed the door directly, carefully dressed, and closed the door after encountering it, love and hate.
Later, Sadik's father found his first love and told her that Sadik was not toxic, that his first love was carrying cookies, that his first love was snuggling up to him and crying, and that the sky was getting darker, as if to hint at the end of fate.
Male compatriots, look at this movie, different ages, different identities will always have different feelings!
Find reporters, reports, ask for help, major application markets download "Qilu OnePoint" APP or search weChat Mini Program "OnePoint Intelligence Station", more than 600 mainstream media reporters in the province are waiting for you to report online! I'm going to report it