Dad and son

My son ran to me again and complained, "Mommy, Daddy is bullying me again!" “

Looking at his tearful and curved little appearance, I really wanted to step on the child's father in the past, I don't know how many times this has happened, his father is always like a child, he doesn't know how to let his son go.

This father-son relationship is really very delicate. When it is good, it feels like two people are in love with each other, just like friends and brothers, and when it is bad, they are like enemies, always like to work against each other, so that each other becomes unhappy, and they are happy. As an intermediary, I really can't stand it, sometimes I can only turn a blind eye and face my son to complain, I can only play a haha and fool the past, and when my son sleeps at night, I have the opportunity to slowly "educate" this old child.

I told the child that as a father, we must have the appearance of a father, we should take good care of the child, accompany the child, the child is happy, and we as parents are happy. You can't always make your children unhappy, especially my children, who are sweating profusely when they cry, and crying for a long time in the winter is also prone to colds. For this reason, I also quarreled with his dad a lot.

But in fact, I've been playing the piano to the ox all along. My bitter mouth in front of their father and son is completely equal to, it is still good when it is good, and no one will let anyone when it is angry. Unless I get angry and count them down one by one, they know that there is no good end to this, and maybe they will converge a little in a short period of time.

The way father and son get along is completely different from mother and son, and the feeling that this child in my family is more like a child's friend, the two people play and make trouble, and it will pass. However, I still hope that as a father and friend, he can also be a teacher of the child and play a role in solving the puzzle in the child's life and learning. Therefore, sometimes the child asks me some strange questions, I always like to ask his father, and then ask his father to explain to him, so that the son can also increase the intimacy between father and son, saving the son from sometimes hoping that his father will travel quickly and not stay at home.

My son grows up day by day, his own ideas are more and more, I don't want most of his memory to be his father teasing him, joking with him to make him cry or play games to make him lose the memory of crying, I hope that his father can appear in his memory as a loving, great image, so I have also been communicating with his son and his father, hoping that his father can hug his son more, and say more to the child "I love you" Three words, so that the son can clearly remember the feeling in the arms of the father and mother, Let him know that we love his heart. When you grow up in the future, when you have become embarrassed to hug each other, at least there is still such a good feeling in your heart, if everyone is unhappy, these memories can also make each other's hearts warm, and then freeze the previous suspicions.

As parents, we can love our children very much, but we can not spoil the children too much, in the early stage of the child's life path, we must not only be parents, but also be the child's friend, teacher, to guide the child in the right direction, to relieve the doubts in the heart, so that the child grows up happily and healthily. Do you say yes or no?