Text/Zheng Qingfang
2021/07/08 (29 may/7:40 pm
43 years ago today, another 25 minutes is the time when I broke through the ghost gate and my eldest son was about to be born.
Unexpectedly, in the blink of an eye, it has reached 43 years, the sun and the moon are like shuttles, and time is like an arrow. Since the age of my son now, and less than half a year later, on the thirteenth day of the winter month, he should have reached the age of marrying his daughter-in-law. (On New Year's Day on January 1, 1998, my son was less than 21 years old when he got married, and I was less than 44 years old, but now that my grandson is nearly 22 years old, I don't realize that he should be studying for graduate school this autumn.
People who have never been a mother, who have not given birth to children, especially in the hard days of our time, really do not know how much hardship I experienced from pregnancy to childbirth, how I survived the grind of life and death.
At that time, on the first six days of the 29th day of the lunar calendar in 1978, I still had a big belly, and under the hot and scorching sun of the hot summer, I was staying in the team to accompany the villagers, doing the agricultural work of harvesting the wheat in the wheat field in the summer.
It wasn't until I felt vague abdominal pain in the afternoon that I struggled to walk back to my unit from a distance of more than ten miles to give birth.
Remembering the beginning, I can't help but feel a pang of bitterness one by one, those unforgettable days...
That month, I wonder why the crops ripened so late? Why is the weather so hot, why is there always no wind and no rain; why is there no electricity and no water, why is the day always so difficult?!!! ay......
Subsequently, every day a black hairy fetus grew, and it was anxious and impatient in the mother's womb all day long, and I had to eat, live and work with the peasants constantly...
For the last 6 days and nights, I had to endure intermittent pain, a small pain, followed by a large burst of severe pain! At that time, they were all in their own dormitories, waiting for traditional production, which was really helpless and dead. I still feel afraid when I think about it! What a wonderful and fortunate birth date it would have been if the weather had been now. During this time, there has been a lot of rain, and the air conditioning appliances at home, the garage, the living water year, etc., should be available. What a blessing it was then!
Finally, after a harsh hot climate and a few days of difficult delivery, the obstetrician and gynecologist of the township medical hospital took over my current eldest son in the simple environment of my family. At that time, it was the first time in my life that I experienced a huge life-and-death juncture, and finally I came through and thanked God for giving us the life resurrection of our mother and child! Today, after the first mother's good friday, I have three generations in the 43rd anniversary, and I feel that I have lived a happy life again, and my mood has infinite and inexhaustible taste.
This man is always in a race against time, and the road of life is long and short.
Look at my long-white hair, old dragon 钟️, and my son has grown from a baby who fell to the ground to a big man of 1 meter 85, but he has gradually become a half-big old man with a thin head. This is the inevitable life on earth
This is the real shot of my enterprise labor, and the labor is both glorious and happy
I have a successful biography in my life, and I have not lived in vain in the next life
If it was always the student years, how good it would be
Ignorant and confused elementary school years
The deep sisterly friendship of the co-workers is photographed
A considerable amount of youth is remembered deeply, and the unforgettable beautiful era is now gone!