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The child's birthday, the mother's Good Friday

author:A time diary of two holes a week

Unconsciously, the child's seventh birthday has arrived, thinking for a few days in a row, what to prepare for the child's birthday, because of the epidemic, the restaurant can not go, can only be done at home, hot pot, stir-fry, barbecue? Finally the child chooses to grill, there is no doubt that the cake must have, buy ingredients, make everything ready, prepare the skewers, at noon the child a piece of cake, it is full, leaving a bunch of ingredients, prepared not done, and then eat at night. The child went to play with his little friend, and the birthday was over.

All busy after a look at the mobile phone, Zhengzhou is all low-risk areas, the last community has also been unsealed, it is really good news, the whole world celebrates, the evening must come again to eat delicious.

Originally planned to unseal, just take the child out of the way, for a long time did not go out, the result of the lunch break after a look, and then rained, the weather forecast is really accurate, a few days in a row are rainy days, suddenly thought of when the child was born, suddenly a storm, lightning thunder, wild storm, the delivery room hard to be born can not be born, the pain of trembling, several nurses around me, said hard, breathe, hard, and finally looked at the child next to one after another crying, only to find the clock facing the delivery bed, 20:05 minutes, lightning flashing and thundering outside the window, Wild storms, the ground is full of broken branches, thick and thin, horizontal and vertical, the experience of giving birth to a child is like that storm, rarely remember such a moment, because giving birth to a child is really painful, very uncomfortable. The child's birthday, the mother's Good Friday, such pain only the mother remembers. It was all worth it to see the child's smiling face.

A mother, a lifetime of responsibility, the first time to be a mother, very nervous, hard to do, but the child is still sick at every turn, the child is sick, a fever, I dare not sleep all night, afraid that he has a fever and faints I don't know, afraid of what he has at night, always ready. The child's father has to go to work, alone with the child, no experience, all the way groping. Watching the news, many kindergarten children were bullied, did not dare to let him go to a private kindergarten, afraid that he would not be able to speak when he was wronged and returned home, and insisted on sending him a public kindergarten. Although the child's father is not happy, he still insists on giving the child a very expensive lesson, and after three years, it is enough to buy a car, because I think that the child is really important before the age of seven. Looking at the piles of toys at home, I just want to say that mom really loves you, and for seven years, mom loves you carefully.

In the classic sentence of Long Yingtai's "Eye Sending", I slowly and slowly learned that the so-called parents and children only mean that your fate with him is that you and his fate are constantly watching his back in this life and this life. You stand at this end of the path and watch him fade away where the path turns, and, he tells you with his back that there is no need to chase. Watching the child grow up little by little, as a mother, also ready to let go a little bit, with you, everything is worth it.

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