Difficult love is the moonlight, poetry, 365,000 roses, plus eternity; difficult marriage, is the account book, certificate, 365,000 quarrels, plus patience; the difficult life, is neither of the above. --Zhu Deyong
There are many people who enter marriage because of love, but not every marriage can harvest happy love. In the middle of the marriage, the red light is lit, the husband and wife may become resentful couples, old and dead do not interact with each other, and there are also husband and wife who are calm and peaceful as friends. But like Si Wen, it is rare in the world to be called a brother with her ex-husband after ending her marriage.
In the view of cartoonist Zhu Deyong, life without love and marriage is difficult, but Siwen has lived his own wonderful life.
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In 2020, the third season of "Talk Show Conference" was successfully broadcast, and SiWen, who has a high influence in the talk show industry, also participated in this competition. But before he could leave the classic lines, he scrawled off the game in the form of a withdrawal. Why Si Wen hastily left the scene has a lot to do with her broken marriage.
During the recording of the program, Si Wen and her ex-husband Cheng Lu chose to officially announce the divorce. In the official statement, the word "brother" was mentioned several times in an attempt to use it as the end of their marriage. In fact, divorce is really not a simple two words.
SiWen confessed that after the divorce, she was not as dashing as she thought, and she still needed time to face loneliness. But this does not mean that Siwen is not living well, on the contrary, she lives more freely.
Warm sunlight poured into the living room through the white veil, a wooden guitar was quietly in the corner, and two cats were jumping and playing, which was very beautiful. Walk to the balcony and you can easily see the Pudong three-piece set. All indications are that this house is worth a lot, and this is the house rented by the protagonist Siwen for 36,000 yuan in January.
The host who followed Si Wen into the house was stunned as soon as he entered the door, and involuntarily said "so big." In the living room, you can see the leisure area where Siwen places guitars and easels. In the open kitchen, you can see the details of Siwen's life.
Siwen said that he likes to cook and likes to invite friends as guests. Cooking in such a kitchen, being able to chat with friends, is not so lonely.
Of course, renting a house does not mean that Sven cannot afford to buy a house. After the divorce, Siwen bought a house in his hometown of Xi'an and his work city of Shanghai. When talking about buying a house in Xi'an, SiWen revealed a small detail, that is, she completed the purchase work within ten minutes, and she only felt happy at the moment when she paid the full amount.
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Although Sven now looks good, rich and single, it has become the dream of countless modern women. But in the traditional vision of marriage and love, most people want to ask Siwen why they divorced. Some people have said that the marriage of strong women and weak men is doomed to not last long, and Cheng Lu's "eating soft rice" may be the main reason, but this may not be the case.
First of all, the attack on Cheng Lu's "eating soft rice" was ineffective. As we all know, SiWen is a talk show actor signed by Xiaoguo Culture. But what everyone doesn't know is that in 2015, the priority signing object of Xiaoguo Company was Cheng Lu, and Siwen was signed as a "family member". The reason why Xiaoguo Company will sign Cheng Lu is because he is good enough.
Cheng Lu is an extremely talented male, both a stand-up comedian and the chief screenwriter of several talk shows. He always wears a pair of black-rimmed glasses, which is a little weak compared to Siwen's capable strong woman image, but Cheng Lu never timidly.
Despite his lack of fame as a stand-up comedian, he left behind a few classic quotes, including "True equality between men and women begins with allowing women to be better than men."
In addition to shining in front of the stage as a stand-up comedian, Cheng Lu has also served as the chief screenwriter of many talk shows, doing behind-the-scenes work, including the "Spit Conference" that the audience is most familiar with.
High-frequency and high-intensity work also makes it impossible for Cheng Lu to take care of her family at the same time. When SiWen was suffering from kidney stones, Cheng Lu was too busy to accompany her to the hospital for surgery, and finally arrived after the operation for 20 minutes before leaving. Not only was Cheng Lu busy, Si Wen was also busy.
Nowadays, the audience's acceptance of talk shows is getting higher and higher, and the scarcity of female talk show actors has brought SiWen the opportunity to impact her career, and she was once considered by the audience to be the "queen of talk shows". Therefore, although the two belong to the same company, they can only go farther and farther.
Later, Cheng Lu was promoted, and in addition to being a talk show actor, Si Wen also dabbled in many fields such as live streaming and jazz music.
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In today's society, people often think about the question of how profound the impact of the original family on the future life of the child is. Known social examples prove that the scars left by the original family will last a child's life. The marriage concept of the original family also affects Siwen's choice of marriage and makes it difficult for her to maintain marriage.
Si Wen's three female elders, Grandma, Mother and Aunt, were all divorced. Among them, my mother has experienced 5 divorces, my grandmother has experienced two divorces, and my aunt has been divorced. The divorce of the three female elders also makes Siwen's attitude towards marriage different.
Si Wen once jokingly said on a talk show that he could think of his husband as a brother who slept on his top bunk. But at that time, Siwen may not have imagined that he would actually say a word and end up with his husband in the name of "brother". Of course, for the two, such a result is the best, after all, after the divorce, there is still a need to contact at work.
The French psychologist Bavary Nix once said that marriage is a book, the first one is written in poetry, and the rest is bland prose. In the marriage relationship, the one who can really live a long life is the kind of couple who is willing to accommodate each other, grow each other, achieve each other and accompany each other. But very few people can actually do it.
In today's fast-paced society, modern men and women in the marriage relationship, itself less default stereotypes, and more casual and self-reliant. Different concepts also increase the possibility of marriage breakdown. After all, even a marriage as bland as water still needs to be managed.
From the difficulty of maintaining marriage to the dashing life after divorce, it is enough to see Siwen's attitude towards life. Perhaps today's life is also a right choice for her.
Although Si Wen and Cheng Lu are thriving in their career fields, when faced with the business science of marriage, they cannot be perfect, and can only end in a sloppy end. But no matter what, we all want them to have their own happiness.
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