Be a woman with a "flower heart", the man will be like a piece of brown candy that cannot be shaken off, and understand that love has always been an exchange of benefits.
Seventeen or eighteen-year-old, early twenties girls are always afraid and sad for love all day, and it seems that the boys who have lost their favorite on the Internet platform can't go on, and they are full of negative energy all day.
It is not uncommon to see drunken girls on the streets late at night, girls who cry and shout in bars that want the whole world to know the pain of their lost love, locked up in the decadence of life at home, and more loveless girls who commit suicide.
There will always be someone to teach you to grow up in this life, but the way is never worth thanking.
I was born in the countryside, there are three brothers and sisters in the family, as well as a disabled grandparent, my father is a son-in-law (specifically you can see the previous article), I am 23 years old, studying and reading two years after graduating from early college, can you experience high school wearing more than ten dollars of cloth shoes to school, eat instant noodles every day, ask for money and dare not open your mouth to your parents?
I was also afraid to study, but my grades were good, because that was my only way out, but I wanted to go out and make money, the family's foreign debt, and the expenses of my younger siblings, and I also felt sorry for my parents.
In college, I ran home for a week and told my parents that I didn't study, and I had decided that no one would persuade me to move, knowing that my father said a word to me: "You don't study now and go out to work, your circle is full of workers, you can only marry workers in the future, and your children will be like you." But if you go out to study, at least you will have a formal job, and your circle will not be much worse. Because of this sentence I went back to school.
So maybe in the days to come, love will account for a small proportion of my life, I am a normal girl, I will also be sad for love, and there are many regrets in my emotional world. But what about my family, compared to my parents losing a loved one? These are nothing compared to the situation where I was powerless to take care of my parents and was powerless in the face of reality.
I have also loved with all my strength, and I have tried and been brave in spite of myself. I'm okay looking, but I've never gotten the love I wanted, and it comes down to the fact that I'm not good enough and my worth can't keep the guy I want.
So I started to keep trying to be a flower person.
Insist on exercising every day, keep in shape, and keep your mood; enroll in a variety of training courses to improve your inner self and let yourself know a little about everything; contact different circles and learn different official languages; use the time between work breaks to learn photography, write articles, and learn copywriting; take all kinds of different certificates to make yourself a valuable woman and a woman who will make money.
If you put a lot of time and energy on hard work, on desperately making money, on making yourself excellent, where do you still have the heart to care about the damn love and which man left, how do you want to keep him, how sad your life is, wake up, child.
When a girl has an outside and an inside, has enough value, she will not be abandoned, and even will be treated kindly. When you get married you won't marry a man who is incompetent and has no intrinsic worth, that's because he's worthless to you, and so are men, and he's not going to marry a woman who is stupid and doesn't pull.
Love has always been an exchange of benefits, but most people are not willing to admit that the love that is taken apart by parents is because parents see clearly that the other party is useless, no money, and it is not good for you.
If you are good enough, you will be confident enough, and you are not afraid of being abandoned because you have the confidence. Your husband does not dare to lose you, your in-laws will hold you because of your value, this is what a woman should look like, instead of washing her face with tears all day, like a resentful woman.
So girls, please learn to "spend your heart" to learn to please yourself, take a long-term view, enlarge the pattern a little, exercise, learn, make money, examine... Everything you learn will not fail you.