Zhang Xiaoxian said in "Embrace": What can best reflect a woman's taste is not her clothes and hobbies, nor the cars she drives, the books she reads, and the decorations at home, but what kind of man she falls in love with, even if she has elegant taste in other aspects, if she falls in love with a bad man, she will fall short.
Oh, yes! Many times we all misunderstand women's taste, always think that good taste is to wear clothes, will dress themselves, but these actually depend on a certain economic basis, and a woman's real taste, look at the men she likes.
For example, she likes a very responsible, very good man, then her taste is naturally good, if she likes a man who is not responsible, not excellent at all, and even considered a scumbag, then the taste really dare not imagine, even if you wear good clothes can not hide.
Just like Zhang Yuqi, she is very beautiful and a very domineering woman, but the only bad thing is that she can't look at men's eyes.
Even Zhang Yuqi herself said: "I think our biggest problem is that we can't look at men's eyes." ”
Shortly after she married her first husband, she divorced her second husband after divorcing because her husband was messing around, but soon after the marriage, the two fought and finally broke up.
And Zhang Yuqi herself is actually a very good-looking person, giving people a good feeling, only these two feelings, really dare not imagine, the important thing is that she not only looks at men who can't do it, but also looks good.
Sometimes we always think that to see how women are, we look at women's words and deeds, but in fact, it is more obvious than this that is the men around women.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" > women with bad tastes and bad men to choose</h1>
If a woman's taste is not good, then the taste of choosing a man must not be good.
Just like some women, the quality will only focus on clothing, such people may look more at men's clothing and economy when choosing men, but ignore the nature of men.
There is a saying that a person cares about what he cares about.
Just like women who pay attention to dressing, they also care about wearing, when choosing men, they care more about men's clothing, rather than nature, in their opinion, people who dress well are good, but they have never thought about the problem at a deep level.
And those who are virtuous will only be valued when they are in real contact.
So a lot of times, women with bad taste, the men they choose are not good either.
Just like Zhang Ailing, in fact, she is still a very good talented woman, she knows how to wear clothes, and she also loves beauty, but she can't see men's eyes, and when she and Hu Lancheng are together, they are almost deceived.
Because Hu Lancheng's love for her is not much, more is the use, such as Hu Lancheng wants to improve his life through Zhang Ailing, and wants to change his social status through Zhang Ailing.
Therefore, in order to achieve his goals, he and Zhang Ailing were together, but Zhang Ailing did not really feel love from him, some were just disappointed and sad.
Maybe Zhang Ailing seems to have good taste, but looking at men's eyes is not good, and after Zhang Ailing and Hu Lan's composition, there has been a big change.
Therefore, each of us women is actually the same, pay attention to what, what you want will care about what, but this does not necessarily show how a man is, and those women who really have bad taste, the choice of men must not be OK.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" Behind the poor selection > of men is that women's pursuit of life is too low</h1>
I can't help but wonder why some women obviously look excellent, but when choosing men, their tastes decline?
In fact, it is not that women's taste has declined, but because their own pursuit of life or the other half is not high, love is enough for them, and even they will feel that as long as they love, they can change each other and make each other become the excellent person.
I once had a colleague, such a person, she had a boyfriend, and she fell in love with her boyfriend, and the boyfriend was very good to her, but the boyfriend also disappointed her.
The boyfriend is an unmotivated person, always good at eating and lazy, when he has money, he desperately spends money, and when he has no money, he borrows money everywhere, but he is not willing to go to work.
For this reason, colleagues said many times boyfriend, boyfriend still no response, after seeing the boyfriend like this, colleagues do not know how to do and the money they earn, but also all spent with the boyfriend, their own penny of savings are not, looking at such a life, colleagues are very painful, we advised her to break up, but she was always reluctant.
In fact, in the face of such a boyfriend, it will only make yourself too painful, after all, no matter how much you pay, the other party feels that it is reasonable, and even feels that you are attractive.
The important thing is that such a person will not be motivated in the future, and now there is no pressure, if there is pressure to get married, the future life really dare not imagine.
In fact, many women will meet scumbags, the most fundamental reason for meeting scumbags is because women's requirements for their own lives are too low, always think that love is enough, the rest do not care about anything, whether it is a man's self-motivation, sense of responsibility, responsibility, or conduct, do not care about anything, and such a woman, in the end, will also pay the price.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" > for the rest of our lives, may we all choose a good man</h1>
For a woman, what kind of man to choose, what kind of life will be lived, if you choose a man with bad character, the future life will inevitably be not good.
It is important to be able to choose a man with bad character, a woman's taste must not be good, and a man who really has good taste will see how a man's character is, and will see what a man is like.
And when they choose men, they will choose really good men, because they know that men with bad character, no matter how good they look, are fake, bad on the inside, and it is useless to look good on the outside.
And such a woman is also a woman with real taste, that is, she can see the inside through the surface.
Such women know what they want, what kind of people can be together, so they will choose the person who is really suitable, and they will also choose the person who is really good, for them, such a man is together, there is security.
In fact, each of us has to be like this, no matter what, to see the essence of a man through their appearance, every move, and then choose a really good man.
May each of us, women, choose a truly good man for the rest of our lives.
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