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When a person is at home, he always feels like he has to write something, otherwise he can't help himself. Chatting with a friend that day, I said that I felt very empty recently, and I didn't even have the confidence to write an article, so the only way to alleviate it was to read a book, to read Zhang Xiaoxian's book. Zhang Xiaoxian, a very familiar name, her book has not really been read, this time inexplicably very attentive, and immediately liked the style of her words: relaxed and casual. Sometimes it's a sentence, an idea, a habit, or even some phenomenon she sees, she can put into the text. Friends said that in fact, only by constantly reading and accumulating, can there be contacts, and writing articles can accumulate thick and thin, in one go. Think about it is also Ha, read Zhang Xiaoxian's essay essay, feel a lot, share:
<b>Previous text: Do not change</b>, not because I think I wrote well in the past, but once I change, I am no longer the person I was then. No matter how immature the things he wrote at that time were, after all, they represented me at that time. People don't erase the clumsiness of the past, and there is no need to erase it.
I seriously agree with this, when did my writing start? It should start with consciously writing a diary in '89. At that time, his own words were covered and hidden, and they were never shared with others. Until 2005, when the unit joint report editor pestered me to make an appointment, he slowly chose some for him, but there was a condition: I was not allowed to move my text, and I always felt that the passive small text did not have my taste.
<b>When do girls feel sorry for the family? </b>That was when she was in love with a man. She is the darling of the family, and although her parents are not rich, they hurt her very much and accommodate her. At home, she definitely didn't need to do any housework, and her mother couldn't even let her brush the bowls. Such a big person, every morning, her mother called her to get up, and she still lay in bed to accuse her mother of nagging.
When the girl felt sorry for the family, this sentence really hit me like a stick. Indeed, I was once a delicate woman in the family, because of love, because of marriage, all the rebellions and separations, obstinately, after marriage, in dreams, often crying and kneeling in front of my father, begging for forgiveness, but in the end my father was indifferent, and the severity remained. When love, marriage and family are opposed, if you choose love, then when you dream back in the middle of the night, you will truly realize how sorry you are at home.
<b>When did the girl get closest to her mother</b>: it should be after she got married. In rebellious adolescence, girls feel that everything their mother says is wrong.
Once I was like that, I was working against my mother, ignoring my mother, tired of my mother, and when I came home, I would shut myself in the room and refuse my mother to come in. Even so, my mother still made a meal before going to work in the morning, whether I ate or not; I left work at nine o'clock in the evening, although there was a shuttle, my mother still stood at the intersection of the street and waited until she saw me get off the shuttle and turned to go home. To tell the truth, at that time, I wanted to apologize for my mother. It wasn't until I had a child later that I really realized my mother's worries and hardships. Think of yourself are very strange, at that time and my mother gambled angry, how can I suddenly turn 360 degrees, today I am so good-tempered and in a good mood to my mother, love and love? Perhaps, this is growth, understanding and maturity.
<b>To give is to take:</b> a wise woman, when she gives up, gets what she wants. The woman said, you ignore me, forget me. But men will not forget her; women say, you don't have to break up with her, I quit well, men will stay with her; women give men freedom, men are willing to be bound; women do not want to marry, men only propose; women do not want men's money, men will send money to the front------ the winner of the love field, often not those women who want everything, but those who are willing to give up certain things. In fact, the entanglement, struggle, pain, forbearance, helplessness, and sorrow of the house are as raw as scraping flesh with a knife. Only by breaking off a rotten relationship can a woman get the greatest dignity.
<b>Counting stinks</b>: What good does a woman, publicly count stinky ex-boyfriends, do this to her? The advantage may just be vented, but there are many disadvantages, in the end, it is also their own eyes and no pearls, when they meet people, women should remember that when you count a man's stink, you stink as much as him. However, in reality, women, especially women who have been hurt, it is really not easy to count the smells, according to normal psychology, she would like the whole world to know what kind of a scumbag she has encountered. Smiling indifferently, dusting off the past, living out oneself, is the real suddenness, and then turn around gracefully.
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Reading Zhang Xiaoxian's books, you will resonate, you will feel, you will understand, you will absorb; reading Zhang Xiaoxian's books, it is very relaxed, very comfortable, very beautiful, very insightful; reading Zhang Xiaoxian's books, you can't help but think of yourself, will give you a solution, will make you sudden, will enhance yourself.
Like such a night, by the bed, quiet alone Zhang Xiaoxian's book, literary beauty, quiet heart, ethereal thinking. It's nice that women fall in love with books and insist on being lonely!
Swallow December 23, 2018
Author: Swallow, a little girl who is low to the dust.
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