His wife was one of the "Top Ten People Who Moved China" in 2004.
During his three years as the director of the public security bureau in Dengfeng City, Henan Province, his wife arrested 2,784 lawbreakers and criminals of all kinds, destroyed 185 criminal gangs, and won countless honorary titles.
His wife was only 40 years old when she died in the line of duty.
It is said that it is not easy to be a military sister-in-law, and as the husband of the radiant female police chief, he is not easy.
He is not only a man behind the "strong woman", but also a good husband who is like-minded with his wife.
His name is Wei Chunxiao, the husband of the role model Ren Changxia, and a good lawyer who is dedicated to the people.
He died in 2008 and was buried with his wife, who was only 45 years old.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" >, dark night</h1>
Changxia, you didn't go,
The green mountains are clinging to it, and the green water is long flowing,
If there is affection in heaven, heaven blesses,
You live forever in our hearts, forever, forever
- "Changxia, Don't Go"
Ren Changxia
This is the last paragraph of a long poem written by Wei Chunxiao after the death of his wife Ren Changxia. The so-called "ten years of life and death are vast, not thinking, unforgettable, thousands of miles of lonely graves, nowhere to say desolate", the poem is full of his endless thoughts about his wife.
11 April at 11 p.m.
Wei Chunxiao's family was ready to discuss things with his wife, so he called his wife, who had not returned home for many days.
The phone was quickly connected, but Chang Xia only hurriedly said, "I'm in a meeting." ”
Wei Chunxiao had to reply as usual, "Ah, well," and quickly hung up the phone.
For such a conversation, Wei Chunxiao had long been accustomed to it, and would return to him when his wife was free, but this time he never expected that this would actually become the last call between him and his wife Ren Changxia, because three days later, Ren Changxia would die.
Wei Chunxiao always remembered that dark night, the last side with his wife.
14 April 2004. Drowsy, Ren Changxia struggled to get up from the bed in the office and bedroom.
On this day, she rushed to Zhengzhou to report to the leaders of the Zhengzhou Municipal Bureau on the investigation of a major murder case - what made Ren Changxia anxious was the "1.30" case that had few clues for more than two months - the murder of a 6-year-old girl.
In order to be busy, she did not even have time to eat breakfast, or her colleagues wrapped two steamed buns and a cucumber stuffed for her, who ever thought that this would become her last meal.
Throughout that day, Ren Changxia was too busy to eat lunch and dinner.
At just eight o'clock in the evening, she was preparing to rush back from Zhengzhou to The High Speed of Dengfeng, 190 meters east of the 150 Bridge of the Zhengshao Expressway, the Honda sedan she was riding in collided with the left rear of the large truck traveling in the same direction due to its excessive speed.
Ren Changxia, who was sitting in the back seat, suffered an instant severe injury to her cervical and thoracic vertebrae, and although she was immediately sent to Zhengzhou Central Hospital, the doctors did not work after several efforts.
Receiving the news, Wei Chunxiao rushed to the hospital and rushed into the rescue room, saw his wife who was rescued on the operating table, his whole brain was wooden, and the sudden bad news shocked him that he would not cry.
While waiting at the door of the operating room, he smoked one cigarette after another.
He could understand his wife's work, he could fully support her, and settle the rear of the house for her, because he knew that when his wife was there, the home was meaningful and could be considered happy, but suddenly something went wrong, even if it was a strong boy, he was very afraid.
The doctor in the operating room asked him, "Do you want to open your chest?" If you open your chest, even if you can save your life, the best situation can only be a vegetative person. ”
Wei Chunxiao said without hesitation: "Kai, even if it is a vegetative person, I will raise her." ”
After signing, he waited in the corridor again, time was infinitely stretched at this moment, really living like a year, every minute and second made his heart like a knife.
Until 1:00 a.m. on the 15th, the operating bed was pushed out, and Changxia's face was covered with a white cloth sheet, and the doctors tried their best to save Ren Changxia.
Wei Chunxiao supported the edge of the bed, unable to control his emotions any longer, tears could not stop flowing, he kept shouting at his wife who could no longer wake up, unable to accept this cruel reality.
After everyone's discussion, Ren Changxia was the director of the Dengfeng Bureau, and she was gone, so she was still sent back to Dengfeng.
Before sending it back, Changxia should be changed into clean clothes, and according to local customs, the family cannot change the clothes of the deceased.
But Wei Chunxiao couldn't take care of this, he had too much reluctance in his heart, he didn't want others to do it, he personally changed his wife's clothes lightly and put on a clean police uniform for her.
In the early morning of April 15, escorted by a police car, colleagues and relatives sent Ren Changxia back to Dengfeng, and Wei Chunxiao in the car kept holding his wife's hand and kept asking if it was impossible to answer his wife:
"Chang Xia, what's going on?" What's going on with you? ”
This year, Ren Changxia has been a police officer for 21 years, but she is only 40 years old.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="41" > two, like-minded</h1>
The most cruel thing in the world is that two people who are deeply affectionate are separated by yin and yang.
In the eyes of outsiders, Ren Changxia is a heroic female police officer, and in Wei Chunxiao's eyes, she is just a wife who is in love with herself, lively and beautiful.
After Changxia left, Wei Chunxiao began to have a smoking addiction, and his son Wei Chenyao often saw him smoking silently, one after another, and the lit smoke burned the sorrow in his heart.
Wei Chenyao
Wei Chunxiao had dreamed of her countless times, dreaming that he was busy cooking for his son, but Changxia was rarely at home, she watched from the side, watching, as if she couldn't get her hands on it...
Now that Changxia is gone, Wei Chunxiao has the opportunity to calmly stay quietly with his wife for a while...
Every day after work, he would sit in front of his wife's portrait for a while, talking to her about what he had experienced that day, and the people he met, even if she couldn't answer, he could listen quietly.
The quiet and colorful lilies, white roses and birds of paradise placed in front of the statue are also the favorites of his wife, and Wei Chunxiao has maintained fresh flowers for several years.
This is a moment that belongs only to their husband and wife- "Since there is no time to stay together before I was born, let me use the rest of the time to tell you slowly what I have been trying to say to you all these years..."
During this special "alone" time with his wife every day, Wei Chunxiao often recalls the good times of the years when they were just married:
In 1983, Wei Chunxiao, then 20 years old, was working in the security department of the Zhengzhou Bleaching and Dyeing Factory, and because of his work, he was transferred to the pre-trial section of the Zhongyuan Branch of the Zhengzhou Public Security Bureau to help, coincidentally, Changxia had just graduated from the police academy at that time and was assigned to the Zhongyuan Branch of the Zhengzhou Municipal Public Security Bureau.
The two have known each other since then.
When he was young, Wei Chunxiao looked beautiful, usually good at dancing and inking, at this time, in Changxia's eyes, he was a crepe scholar, but his writing was indeed beautiful, and everyone who saw him write admired it.
Once, the lively and cheerful Ren Changxia just made a joke with Wei Chunxiao and opened up in front of him, as if he wanted to compare with him.
In her impression, Sven's Wei Chunxiao must not have the strength to fight back, who knew that as soon as she made a move, her wrist was caught by Wei Chunxiao, making Changxia stunned on the spot, "How can you also do martial arts?" ”。
Perhaps it was this joke that made the two people start to have different feelings in their hearts, and began to find that the two had many similarities and common hobbies.
After that, the two began to date, and the grinning Ren Changxia asked a boy to attend an orchestral concert for the first time in his life.
When the weekend rest, Wei Chunxiao likes to stay in the dormitory to read books, write and write, Changxia often goes to him to rub rice, this crepe crepe student also makes a good dish, not only will do dishes, he also grows some mushrooms, shallots and the like in a limited space, Changxia will pick the vegetables he planted to fry for her to eat, the most commonly done is to fry mushrooms with meat foam.
Once, Wei Chunxiao fell on a bicycle and was lying on the bed, who had to be cared for.
As a result, when he woke up, he saw Chang Xia sitting next to him crying, crying very sadly, but Wei Chunxiao was very touched in his heart.
The years of youth are always too good to look back on.
Three years later, the two entered the halls of marriage. After marriage, Changxia, in addition to wearing police uniforms, she likes red clothes the most every day, and she is particularly smelly and beautiful at that time, she likes to wear various styles of red clothes, and also likes to take photos.
At this time, Wei Chunxiao was watching from the sidelines.
At that time, Changxia was always lost in life, and often could not find the key or pen, Wei Chunxiao said that she was still unconvinced.
However, in the eyes of a pair of people who love each other, no matter what shortcomings the other party has, it does not matter.
It is said that good partners appreciate each other and make progress together.
After marriage, Wei Chunxiao gradually developed the idea of wanting to be a lawyer, at that time Changxia's work was not so busy, very supportive of her husband's dream, when her son Wei Chenyao was 7 months old, Wei Chunxiao was far away from his hometown and went to the Southwest University of Political Science and Law to study, for a few months, he was already a father in a foreign country, naturally he was particularly homesick.
In those days, it was really bitter Changxia, she had to work and take the child, there was no mobile phone at that time, every time she called her husband, she was reluctant to hang up.
Later, Wei Chunxiao received a tape sent to him by Changxia, which recorded the recording of Changxia teaching his son to shout "Daddy", and the tape transmitted the scene of Changxia teaching his son to learn words over and over again: "Call Daddy, call Daddy." ”
Finally, the son childishly called out "Daddy", and at that moment, Wei Chunxiao's tears came out at once.
Since 1994, when she served as the deputy chief of the pre-trial section of the Zhongyuan Branch of the Zhengzhou Municipal Public Security Bureau, Changxia's work has become more and more busy, and the couple has begun to gather less and leave more.
She and her team cracked many major cases, because of the speed of cracking cases, sincerely listening to the voices of the masses, she was called "female Bao Gong" and "Ren Qingtian" by the masses.
After being transferred to the dengfeng city public security bureau in 2001, it was the norm in the couple's life to be too busy to go home, and Ren Changxia often could not go home for more than ten or twenty days, sometimes only once in several months.
Despite this, Wei Chunxiao was still very supportive of his wife's career and took on the responsibilities of the family without complaint.
In their family life, Wei Chunxiao is like a big brother, helping his wife to solve her problems when she is bored, and fully supporting her when her wife has no time to take care of her family.
Recalling the bits and pieces of Ren Changxia's life at home before his death, Wei Chunxiao was full of beautiful memories:
In his eyes, his wife also has a bird-like side, sometimes he leaves work early, sometimes Changxia leaves work early, they will pour each other a glass of water.
But later, with the change of work, Ren Changxia became busier and busier, and this warm moment became less and less at home.
As the burden on her shoulders gradually increased, these slowly disappeared, "three cares for the door and did not enter" is Changxia's normal work, "she occasionally goes home, but also keeps calling to say work, or fall asleep upside down, screaming can not wake up." ”
She also said to her husband apologetically: "Chunxiao, our old husband and wife, I am really too tired to take care of the family, you have to take care of more." ”
Speaking of this, the strong Wei lawyer had tears in his eyes.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="82" > three, eternal companionship</h1>
After the death of his wife Ren Changxia, Wei Chunxiao devoted most of his energy to work.
Although Ren Changxia died, but her "female Bao Gong" image is deeply imprinted in the hearts of the masses, many poor people still come to look for her, knowing that she is no longer just like Wei Chunxiao asked for help, most of them have no money to fight lawsuits, can only come to find "eternal Changxia".
Although his career as a lawyer did not make money, Wei Chunxiao decided to help these people fight lawsuits for free.
At that time, Wei Chunxiao was already an excellent lawyer at The State Foundation Law Firm in Henan Province, with quite strong professional skills, and everyone knew that some gold-medal lawyers fought lawsuits to see the target, and at a certain stage, only accepted those big lawsuits.
However, Lawyer Wei has obviously become a gold medal lawyer, but he began to represent the masses in lawsuits for free, that is, to fight lawsuits for the masses for free without charge.
Even if it is a free lawsuit, he is dedicated to helping these ordinary people get justice.
He did this for no other reason than to continue to complete his wife's unfinished business from the bottom of his heart, and he believed that if his wife was alive, he would definitely support his approach, and many cases were properly handled under the efforts of Wei Chunxiao.
Over the years, many people have been grateful for the pro bono legal services that Chunxiao has done for them.
In the face of outsiders, he has always been smiling, gentle and thoughtful, but only acquaintances and family members know that since Ren Changxia's death, Wei Chunxiao has an unspeakable loneliness in his eyes, and occasionally when others talk about his wife, he can't help but cry.
Heavy work can make him temporarily forget the grief of losing his wife, but after a long period of fatigue and mourning, Wei Chunxiao finally fell ill.
In 2008, only four years after Ren Changxia's death, Wei Chunxiao suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage at home, and his son Wei Chenyao hurriedly dialed 120, but when he was sent to the hospital, Wei Chunxiao died not long after.
Colleagues recalled that the day before, Wei Chunxiao was still normal, perhaps overworked, Wei Chunxiao died at the age of 45, after his death, according to his last wishes, his family buried him with his wife Ren Changxia in Zhengzhou Beiqi Cemetery.
Before they died, they were a couple who agreed to each other, but unfortunately, the day did not go according to people's wishes, after which the couple could sleep together and rest in peace, and be together forever. Although the couple has been dead for many years, their stories still remain in the hearts of the local people.