Recently, the film "North and South" ushered in the finale, this TV series is well known to the audience because of its excitement and dog blood.
In the part that everyone thinks is that "Dai Xiaoyu" was "Xiao San" and "Feng Xi" was ordered to break up.
However, I did not expect that the surprising story was actually in the back, that is, the husband of "Si Meng" was "jumped by the immortals", and the husband of "Si Meng" was played by Zhu Yuchen.
Maybe you are not familiar with Zhu Yuchen's name, but you must know that the TV series "Struggle" that once spread all over the country, in which he played the "Huazi" who could be dashing and uninhibited.
How is he doing now, when his title of "Ma Bao Man" was gradually hidden?
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In the winter of 1979, a newborn in Shanghai fell to the ground, and on the day of heavy snowfall, the parents of the newborn looked at the "gift" given by the heavens and named it "Zhu Yuchen" with a smile.
Because of his parents, Zhu Yuchen has lived a good life since he was a child, and his mother is also extremely fond of him, which can be said to be held in his hand for fear of falling, and afraid of melting in his mouth.
It is precisely because of such excessive doting that Zhu Yuchen has lost his ability to judge and dare not resist his mother's request, and has developed a very cowardly character.
During his school days, Zhu Yuchen's mother was very strict with his dating standards, not allowing him to stay with unruly children, and he had never made good friends in his introverted personality.
Once the classmates were not accustomed to Zhu Yuchen's appearance and beat him up, in the beating Zhu Yuchen could only bear it silently, silently wiping his tears on the way home, trying to cover up his wounds.
Because he knew his mother's personality, Zhu Yuchen did not dare to say anything about his bullying.
But after returning home, his mother still found the bruises on his face and arms, and immediately asked with a serious expression: "Yuchen, tell your mother, what is going on?" ”
Zhu Yuchen did not dare to speak.
"Don't be afraid, tell your mother." Zhu Yuchen's mother added.
This was followed by a moment of silence.
"Well, you, now even your mother doesn't tell the truth, does she, huh?" Zhu Yuchen's mother was slightly angry, "Do you really want to say it?" Don't say I'm looking for your teacher! ”
Zhu Yuchen, who was suddenly frightened, described the events with his mother in tears.
Zhu Yuchen's mother, who was angry and demoralized, rushed to the school with Zhu Yuchen the next day and found the few students who bullied Zhu Yuchen to reprimand them.
Zhu Yuchen put up a posture of not giving up without beating them up, which made people afraid, and the more the matter became more and more noisy, the teacher rushed to deal with it.
In the end, under the teacher's adjustment, the students who bullied Zhu Yuchen apologized to Zhu Yuchen The farce ended, but because of this incident, Zhu Yuchen completely lost his "right to make friends" on campus.
Because of his "arrogant" mother, no classmate dared to say a word to him again.
Such days continued until Zhu Yuchen's high school years.
In the third year of high school, Zhu Yuchen had the idea of applying for the Central Academy of Drama, but he had no choice but to finally fall off the list, and he met Tang Wei, who also fell off the list outside the examination room.
At that time, they were strangers for the first time, perhaps because of the same experience they were attracted to each other and talked about.
In that year, they made a pact to re-read the "Heavy War In Drama" for one year.
In those difficult days, they encouraged each other to become each other's spiritual pillars, and the adolescent love also came strongly, and Zhu Yuchen, who was compatible with his peers for the first time, did not take long to confess to Tang Wei.
"Tang Wei, I have been deeply in love with you since the first time I saw you, I don't know if I have the honor to be your boyfriend?"
Excited to hear the news, Tang Wei agreed to his request almost immediately.
A year later, Zhu Yuchen was successfully admitted to the Central Academy of Drama and Deng Chao became a classmate, but Tang Wei still fell behind.
Tang Wei's parents advised her to give up applying for the Chinese opera examination and take the Zhejiang Academy of Fine Arts instead. But unwilling to be separated from Zhu Yuchen, she begged her parents to give her another chance.
Seeing that their daughter was so insistent, her parents had to promise her one last time.
In order to better prepare for the Chinese opera, Tang Wei moved to Beijing and rented a room near Zhu Yuchen's school, in addition to studying, he worked part-time to earn money to maintain his life.
Finally, Tang Wei was admitted to the Chinese opera and was able to get along with Zhu Yuchen for a long time.
At this time, Zhu Yuchen's mother also knew the news that he and Tang Wei were in love, and she was not at ease when she came to Beijing to prepare to "investigate" her son's girlfriend.
In the house rented by Tang Wei, Zhu Yuchen's mother looked around with disgust and asked, "Will you wash clothes and cook?" ”
This sudden question made Tang only stunned: "Sorry aunt, I won't." ”
"Then why are you with my son?" Do you deserve it? ”
Obviously, Tang Wei did not expect Zhu Yuchen's mother to say this about her, and a wave of grievances surged into his heart, and after telling Zhu Yuchen, Zhu Yuchen did not stand by her side, which made Tang Wei feel cold.
Because of the intervention of Zhu Yuchen's mother, Zhu Yuchen, who was originally determined, gradually wavered, and the contradictions between him and Tang Wei became more and more, and finally the two ended up breaking up.
When Zhu Yuchen talked about this relationship, he said with regret on his face: "At that time, it was too green and unrestrained. ”
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After entering the university campus, Zhu Yuchen entered the dormitory accompanied by his mother.
When Zhu Yuchen was about to start making the bed, his mother immediately stopped: "Son don't move, mother comes, mother comes." ”
Zhu Yuchen stopped the movement of his hands and stood expressionlessly to the side, after the bed was made, Zhu Yuchen's mother was worried about whether he could sleep peacefully when he slept, so she asked Zhu Yuchen's roommate one by one: "Do you snore when you sleep at night?" ”
The roommates looked at each other with an embarrassed look on their faces and said, "Auntie, no." ”
Listening, Zhu Yuchen's mother, who was supposed to be relieved, saw the climbing tigers all over the wall outside the window and was worried that these plants would find mosquitoes, so she decided to pick up the boiling water in the dormitory and wanted to burn them all to death.
Zhu Yuchen, who was aware of his mother's move, hurriedly stopped it, so that he did not become a "celebrity" in the school on the first day of school.
Zhu Yuchen, who adapted to university life, enjoyed a life free from his mother's control and lived a very comfortable life.
After graduating from college, Zhu Yuchen, who stepped into society for the first time, ran into walls without the help of his mother, he did not know what he could do, and for a long time, Zhu Yuchen was in a period of confusion.
Zhu Yuchen, who played the role of Dragon Set in several TV series, had a gloomy career until 2007, when he met Zhao Baogang, the director of "star-making".
At that time, the TV series "Struggle" was in preparation, and Zhao Baogang saw Zhu Yuchen's unbridled and uninhibited temperament at a glance, and thought that he was the best candidate to play "Huazi".
Facts have proved that Zhao Baogang's choice is correct, Zhu Yuchen opened his popularity because of "Struggle", ushering in the spring of his career.
Zhao Baogang, who was very satisfied with Zhu Yuchen's performance, found Zhu Yuchen and Wang Luodan to partner two years later to star in "Who Decides My Youth", and after learning this news, Zhu Yuchen's mother rushed to the crew to take care of her son's life.
During Zhu Yuchen's filming, his mother would get up at four o'clock every morning to prepare food and juice for him, and sometimes he would boil soup to supervise Zhu Yuchen to drink, even when his mother was filming, his mother would see him.
If he stopped his mother, he would make a big fuss about the crew until he saw Zhu Yuchen, which made the crew quite headache.
Because of her approach, the crew is often forced to extend the shooting time, but Zhu Yuchen's mother is unaware of this, still going her own way, Zhu Yuchen said: "Mom, you feed me like this again, I can't even drink water, and I can't shoot the scene." ”
But for such words, Zhu Yuchen's mother always ignored them. However, because of her approach, many directors dare not cooperate with Zhu Yuchen again, for fear that they will be delayed in the shooting progress.
His mother's pressure on Zhu Yuchen made him breathless for a while, and at first Zhu Yuchen loved to share his life on social platforms.
But one day he found out that his mother would take a thick notebook to record every dynamic he sent, and he reduced the number of times he sent it, he thought about resisting, but he lost the courage to resist.
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In 2009, at the scene of filming "Love Must Be Perfect to You", Zhu Yuchen shared the sugar water made by her mother with the same group of actors Huo Siyan, who drank it and said with her eyes shining: "Drink well, who makes this?" ”
Zhu Yuchen said, "It's delicious, my mother made it." ”
After learning that Huo Siyan also loved to drink sugar water, Zhu Yuchen's mother boiled two parts of sugar water every day to let Huo Siyan also supplement nutrition.
In the eyes of Zhu Yuchen's mother, Huo Siyan was very well-behaved and sensible, and the more she looked at it, the more she liked it, so she called out to let Huo Siyan be her daughter-in-law.
But Huo Siyan politely refused this request, lying: "I'm sorry Auntie, I have a boyfriend." Dispelling the idea of Zhu Yuchen's mother, Huo Siyan later said in an interview:
"His mother was deceived by my appearance, I am not so well-behaved, I am fierce to my boyfriend, she is looking for her son to find a thoughtful daughter-in-law, I am not suitable." 」
A few years later, Zhu Yuchen met Jiang Yan because of the TV series "Don't Call Me Brother", and the youthful and beautiful Jiang Yan immediately attracted Zhu Yuchen's attention.
In the process of getting along, Zhu Yuchen found that she is still a girl who loves to cook, and often cooks herself to improve the food for everyone in the crew.
Once, Zhu Yuchen took the cucumber made by Jiang Yan home to her mother to taste, and Zhu Yuchen's mother made a plan to let Zhu Yuchen pursue Jiang Yan as soon as she saw the knife work.
Under zhu Yuchen's unremitting efforts, Jiang Yan and he finally came together.
At first, Zhu Yuchen was very satisfied with Jiang Yan, who could take care of her son and cook, but because she soon found that she loved to wear beautiful clothes and pursue fashion.
Big Summer always shows her arms and legs, and she has quite a few words, concluding that Jiang Yan is not a good girl and wants to prevent the two from continuing to develop.
Zhu Yuchen was once again undecided between his mother and girlfriend. After an argument, Jiang Yan questioned Zhu Yuchen:
"Are you with me because you like me or does your mom like me?" Is it because I can cook and take care of people to find me as a girlfriend? ”
Zhu Yuchen was speechless for a while, and this relationship did not end well.
Because his mother's "step by step" made Zhu Yuchen's pressure double, gradually he stopped filming and disappeared in the entertainment industry, and when he came out again, the entertainment circle had undergone earth-shaking changes.
No one knows Zhu Yuchen anymore, and his "Huazi" only exists in the hearts of that generation of audiences.
Zhu Yuchen, who is of the right age, has also been single so far because of her mother's "high standards".
In the 2018 variety show "My Family's That Kid" hit, Zhu Yuchen was invited to participate in the recording, in the show he will be the pain of many years of fully out of the brain, in the show he collapsed and cried:
"How come no one wants to be by my side?"
In fact, not only Zhu Yuchen was not married, but his own sister did not, and the sister said:
"I can't devote myself to taking care of my children like a mother, I can't be a good wife and a good mother, so I don't want to get married."
Because of her mother's tough personality, in the Zhu family, only she said it, and Zhu Yuchen's father also dared to be angry.
However, such an approach is harmful to others and to oneself, not only letting oneself lose one's own life, but also letting the child lose oneself.
The child has never been an appendage of his own, he is an individual, obviously Zhu Yuchen's mother did not think so, all his life will be Zhu Yuchen tied to his side, Zhu Yuchen also got the label of "Ma Bao Man", single so far.
Today, Zhu Yuchen's face is full of acne marks, his skin is potholed, and he will never see the original young man again.
I only hope that in the days to come, both of them can recognize the meaning of their own existence, let go of each other, and let each other live well.