"I intervene in every relationship of my son." This is what Zhu Yuchen's mother said in the show. This is true, now 42-year-old Zhu Yuchen is still single, perhaps because of her mother's extra foot.
Zhu Yuchen's first love is Tang Wei, the two met in an art exam, although there is no love at first sight, but the first meeting has left a good impression on each other.
Soon, the two met again on campus, secretly developed feelings in the relationship, and gradually developed a romantic relationship. At this time, it was the critical period of the college entrance examination, and the two people who were obsessed with love both fell off the list.
The following year, Zhu Yuchen was admitted as he wished, but Tang Wei lost again. Zhu Yuchen felt very disappointed by this, and Tang Wei said comfortingly: "I will accompany you to Beijing, you go to school, and I will prepare for the exam." ”
So the two came to Beijing together, in a cheap rental house, and lived a happy and warm cohabitation life. When Zhu Yuchen's mother learned of the news, she rushed to Beijing overnight.
When she saw that her precious son actually lived in such a dirty and messy environment, she was distressed and dissatisfied with Tang Wei.
Can't wash and cook, can't take care of housework, and looks so good, which is not a suitable daughter-in-law in the eyes of Zhu Yuchen's mother.
So she often advised her son to stay away from Tang Wei, at first Zhu Yuchen was still resigned to his mother's nagging, and after a long time, he, who had always been well-behaved and obedient, also began to waver.
In 2000, the two finally parted ways. Years later, Tang Wei became a hot actress in the show business circle, and Zhu Yuchen still had no idea about her career.
He said he wouldn't watch her movies because it would be sad.
Not only Tang Wei, Zhu Yuchen's delayed love affair can be more than this paragraph?
In 2013, when Zhu Yuchen went to Guangzhou to shoot a film, he met Jiang Yan.
Once, Zhu Yuchen took home a cucumber made by Jiang Yan and gave it to her mother to taste.
She felt that the taste was not bad, so she asked her son about Jiang Yan's information: "This girl is good, do you have a boyfriend?" He thought to himself: Such a good girl must have a boyfriend.
But even Zhu Yuchen himself did not expect that they were really in love. For this girlfriend, Zhu Yuchen took care of him in every way.
At another dinner, Jiang Yan roasted meat for everyone and was very busy.
Zhu Yuchen saw his girlfriend sweating and fed the lettuce wrapped meat in her hand into her mouth. Jiang Yan is also very considerate and lets her boyfriend eat first. Unexpectedly, Zhu Yuchen suddenly sprinkled a petite, which made Xie Nan, who was present, stunned.
Another time, Zhu Yuchen hid a necklace in a box of chocolates as a birthday gift for Jiang Yan. Originally, Zhu Yuchen was busy filming, but he was worried that the careless Jiang Yan did not find the mystery inside, so he stayed by her side and waited for her to finish eating.
Watching Jiang Yan eat chocolate while still brushing her mobile phone, Zhu Yuchen was anxious and simply took out the necklace for her to bring.
I thought this sweet love would last forever. Unexpectedly, Zhu Yuchen's mother appeared in the relationship between the two again. At first, she was very satisfied with Jiang Yan, but now she began to feel that her dress was too revealing, and she also stipulated that she could not wear short skirts, suspenders, etc.
These are all normal clothes, why can't they be worn? Over time, Jiang Yan couldn't bear it anymore and began to quarrel with Zhu Yuchen. In order not to let this relationship end here, he prevaricated every time and took the initiative to show weakness.
Jiang Yan doubted Zhu Yuchen's feelings: "You chase me, is it because I can cook and take care of people, or do you think we are suitable." Zhu Yuchen, who was questioned, hesitated, and his silent performance made Jiang Yan understand everything.
After a year of falling in love with Zhu Yuchen, Jiang Yan helplessly proposed to break up.
In her heart, Zhu Yuchen is a person who likes to keep things in her heart, and she is usually more melancholy. And what she wanted to find was someone who could make her look up to and worship, generous and open-minded, Zhu Yuchen was not.
Beautiful as Tang Wei, virtuous as Jiang Yan, these two excellent girls can't enter Zhu Yuchen's mother's eyes, so who else can do it?
Huo Siyan is one of them.
At that time, Zhu Yuchen and Huo Siyan were filming in the same crew. It was the heat of the summer, Zhu Yuchen's mother was distressed about her son, so she boiled a pot of Chinese medicine soup and sent it to the crew.
Zhu Yuchen poured a bowl for his partner Huo Siyan at that time. After the two of them drank, they both felt quite delicious.
Zhu Yuchen's mother saw that Huo Siyan liked to drink her own boiled soup, and she was very happy, so she prepared a Chinese medicine soup for two people and sent it to the crew every day.
She also hinted to her son many times that she had identified Huo Siyan as the candidate for her future daughter-in-law, and also "instigated" Zhu Yuchen to catch up as soon as possible.
As soon as Zhu Yuchen heard this, he began to pursue Huo Siyan, but he was rejected.
In fact, Huo Siyan had already seen through his mother's intentions and zhu Yuchen's personality. "I'm a big woman at heart, and I'm very fierce with my boyfriend." Huo Siyan thus rejected the other party's pursuit.
Not only that, in the interview, she also pointed out his mother's view of mate selection very sharply: "Marrying a bride, marrying a bride, is to find a new bride." ”
Tang Wei and Jiang Yan are both people That Zhu Yuchen likes, and they both end up breaking up. As for Huo Siyan, it was over before it had even begun. While everyone was condemning his mother, was he innocent?
But as long as he can stick to his own opinions and have the courage to resist, he will not miss a period of happiness. And his mother's influence on him is not only emotional, but also his career.
In 2002, Zhu Yuchen graduated from Chinese opera, and the starting point is not low. However, after graduation, he ran the dragon set for many years, and his acting career did not improve at all.
In 2007, Zhao Baogang was worried about finding an actor for "Struggle".
At that time, he was still on his knees to choose a carpet, and he heard that someone had brought an actor to the interview. Before he could get up, the actor introduced himself and said, "I am Zhu Yuchen." ”
This condescending posture made Zhao Baogang angry, but he still decided to let him try the play.
After trying the play, Zhao Baogang was overjoyed, and the role of "Huazi" was so decided. Zhu Yuchen did not disappoint the director, and played the image of outer gang and inner softness to the fullest. With this drama, Zhu Yuchen finally ended his dragon set career and began to become popular.
After that, the two cooperated many times, and Zhu Yuchen was gradually promoted to the fourth major student in the show business circle.
If he was like a kite at that time, then Zhao Baogang was the shareholder wind that sent him to the sky, but his mother tightly held the line of this kite in her hand, restraining Zhu Yuchen's yearning for the vast sky.
At that time, Zhu Yuchen had a bright future and could broaden a variety of drama paths. He wanted to try to make martial arts films, but was categorically rejected by his mother. Because she was worried that her son would be hurt while filming.
Just because of this "love", she will follow Zhu Yuchen wherever she goes. Zhu Yuchen filmed in the crew, and she helped her son take care of the housework. She proudly said: "I am treating my son with my whole life, and I am alone with two Filipino maids."
Mother Zhu is indeed doing her best to take care of her son's life, getting up at four o'clock in the morning to make breakfast, going back and forth between home and the crew, cooking and delivering water for her son, as a day for ten years.
She didn't trust her son to shoot alone, and even "moved" the kitchen to the crew. The staff was smiling at her on the surface, but in fact they were very dissatisfied with this kind of delay.
His mother's meticulous care made him feel suffocated at first, but because of his habit of filial piety, he could not refute it.
Later, celebrities became popular on Weibo and interacted with fans.
Zhu Yuchen was also very interested, and sometimes he would send some sad sentences on it.
Later, he was too busy at work for a few days, but his mother suddenly asked him what was wrong. Only then did he know that his mother had been paying attention to his Weibo, and even copied down his Weibo with a book.
Zhu Yuchen really couldn't stand it: "You don't copy it, I don't write it either." ”
He could no longer stand this "meticulous" love, but he could not show it, and could only let his mother pay less attention to him and be less restrained by giving up.
He also had resistance. When he was a child, he even wrote a suicide note for this purpose, and when he grew up, he left home to study and worked alone in Beijing. But he could never escape this heavy love.
For so many years, Zhu Yuchen's mother's standards for her daughter-in-law have not been relaxed.
In one show, she even claimed that a woman should be a good wife and mother, and since you married you into the door, you should take on this responsibility. It's stunning.
In a 2010 interview show "Super Visit", Zhu Yuchen admitted that her mother would interfere in her marriage: "Instead of picking for me, there is actually a part of it that is picking for her." Because she felt that with these qualities, she could rest assured. ”
In the show, Zhu Yuchen's mother said that she loves her son very much, so she will also love Wu and Wu, and if anyone can marry into her family, it is also her luck.
But the truth is that Zhu Yuchen has been overwhelmed by this meticulous maternal love, and he can't help but cry when chatting with his friends: "What's wrong?" Wouldn't any of them want to be around me? ”
Not only was Zhu Yuchen himself miserable, but when his sister saw what her mother had done to her brother, she also formed a great psychological shadow, and she was still alone in her forties.
Mother Zhu also woke up and believed that her heavy love had brought a heavy burden to her son and daughter.
The son chooses the object according to her standards, and the daughter is afraid of marriage because she is afraid of not being able to make such a generous dedication as her. But did this awakening come too late?
"Zhu Yuchen still lives in an ivory tower." As Li Weijia said, Zhu Yuchen, who is now 42 years old, is still being carefully cared for by her mother, which is shocking.
Love should not be a bondage, but a timely release. If Zhu Yuchen's mother had understood this very early, there might have been another ending.
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