I became a shadow My wife saw me as a stand-in for my ex-boyfriend

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When I fell in love with Xiaoyu at first sight, I began a crazy pursuit. At first, she desperately refused me, but I took out my own perseverance and never gave up, and finally she agreed to me. After half a year of getting along, I gradually learned that although her personality was a little cold, she still cared about my thoughts. We agreed that after some time we would get married.

On my first visit to her house, her mother was very enthusiastic about me and prepared a sumptuous dinner. Xiaoyu is a single-parent family who grew up with her mother. Her mother was very dependent on her and had to discuss everything with her. I know that mother and daughter are not easy, so I have great respect for her mother. I was very independent from a young age, and although my parents were alive, I started living alone very early. After I explained that I wanted to move home to honor my parents after I married Xiao Yu, Xiao Yu's mother's face darkened. I understood her mother's thoughts, but pretended not to see it. After that, I discussed with Xiao Yu that after marriage, I would often return to her mother's house to visit her mother. Xiao Yu was very sensible and did not refute my opinion.

After marriage, Xiao Yu and I had a very happy life, and my mother-in-law did not bother us too much, just so that we could enjoy the sweetness of the new marriage. In life, I listened to Xiao Yu's words and felt that she had given up a lot for me, and I should be kind to Xiao Yu. Because of my work relationship, I used to wear very regular clothes, always suits and shirts, and after marrying her, she bought me almost all casual clothes, which she said looked young. I used to love meat, but now I've changed to a vegetarian diet because she says it's good to be vegetarian and can prevent a lot of diseases. I listened to her for everything, as long as she said it, whether it was right or wrong, I almost never refuted it.

But the other day, I learned everything was in the past, which made me start to wonder if her feelings for me were real. She had talked about a boyfriend before, and the two were almost about to talk about marriage, but because of her mother-in-law's objections, they did not end up together. My name was different from his, only the last word, so at first she thought I was familiar because our names were so similar. Xiao Yu loved her ex-boyfriend so much that she wanted to remember this man in this way.

I gradually became aware that whatever clothes she asked me to wear and eat was modeled on her ex-boyfriend's habits. I felt hurt and felt like a stand-in for her ex-boyfriend. Now if I break up with her, I can't bear it, and if I don't break up, I feel too wronged. There was no way I could continue to live with her as if nothing had happened. If this matter is not explained clearly, it will be a "cancer" forever. What am I going to do?

Editor-in-charge: Xiao Dong

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