In the pursuit of love on the road is always bumpy, everyone will meet different people, experience different things, but what is love? Is it material giving and satisfying? Or the companionship and care of getting along day and night? Is it to pursue without hesitation? Or a fresh start after a timely stop loss?
Everyone's understanding of love is different, but one thing we can be sure of is that love is sacred, and love is able to make people feel happy and feel happy every day.
And in today's dazzling and fast-paced life, it seems that love has become a "luxury", everyone is pursuing exclusive love, but for various reasons, meeting people, experiencing things, and again and again the wrong experience as love, received a fan cry: "I have been a lover of two people, but what I pursue is my love"
The real experience of 32-year-old Xiaoqing (pseudonym):
Xiaoqing entered the society very early, in order to make money to support herself has also done a lot of work, and now in a counter to do sales, her two emotional experiences but she is very sad, because she was the lover of two men before.
Xiao Qing fell in love with a man with a family at the age of 25, the two people's understanding was casually chatted, because at the beginning Xiao Qing knew that the other party had become a family, but it produced feelings in the chat again and again, and the mature temperament of the other party made Xiao Qing love very deeply, and finally the two people also came together and became lovers, in this two-year "underground love", the man has also been telling Xiao Qing that he will divorce, and after the divorce, he will marry Xiao Qing, and Xiao Qing is also convinced of the man's words. However, there was no result, and the two people quarreled many times and finally broke off contact.
If the first relationship made Xiaoqing hurt and cheated, but the second time to be someone else's lover, she took the initiative, because she loved the other party very much, or the other party satisfied everything for her.
Later Xiaoqing met another married man, the other party is a more successful man, gave Xiaoqing enough material needs, and Xiaoqing also has a special appreciation, especially like this kind of successful man similar to the "domineering president", so when they are together, the two people are also very sweet, the man has also promised Xiaoqing that he will marry Xiaoqing in the future, and will always be very good to Xiaoqing, because of the existence of the man, but also let Xiaoqing make money, so that Xiaoqing's quality of life has improved by a stage. So in Xiaoqing's heart, she is very appreciative of this man, and she also likes it very much, and she feels that this is love, and she is willing to wait for this man to divorce, even if Xiaoqing sometimes can only see each other several times a month, she also feels that it is enough, because in her heart she wants to live later.
Of course, the second relationship also ended in failure, and the two people were not together, but for Xiaoqing, she could not let go of this person in her heart.
Today's Xiaoqing is single, but also wants to talk about a formal love, rushing to get married, she also kissed several men, but also met several men, but has always felt that there is no good conditions for knowing before, so in her heart has never been able to love another person, and often because of the previous two loves and sad, sad.
And when asked why she was a lover, she said:
"I made two lovers, but what I pursued was my love"
Such words make people a little confused about how to answer, because it is only one-sided love, if the man loves her, how can it end in failure? She is pursuing her own love, but she is also hurting someone else's family, hurting another woman.
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The most important thing in love is trust and responsibility, is loyal to companionship, love has principles and bottom lines, if you ignore it for love, to hurt others, to do things that violate the bottom line, then this is not true love!
Everyone has the right to pursue love, but also hope to recognize the reality, rather than for love to hurt others, if a person wants to be pampered in love, to be pampered, then it is generous to find single men, to pay, to experience, to run in, so that you can get better love!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > today's topic:</h1>
Can an extramarital affair be called love?