My love true story

Takeo Buntsuma Happiness

——Wang Shuxia

People enjoy marriage every time they talk about it, and I want to talk about my married life.

I graduated from high school as a liberal arts student, and my husband is a primary school student who didn't even graduate in the fifth grade. Because there is a gap in the level of culture, such a combination is not interesting, that is strange.

When I first got married, I was proud of my talent and often asked him small questions. Today it's common sense of geography – what continents are there in the world? Which oceans? His answer was: "I only know that I live in Asia, I only know that there is a Pacific Ocean, and I have forgotten everything else." Tomorrow I asked him again the simplest historical knowledge: "Is Empress Dowager Cixi a man?" Or female? He pondered for a moment and said to himself, "It should be a woman, there is an old woman's taizi." His answer made me cry and laugh, even the empress dowager didn't know that she was a woman, it was too bad! I was laughing, but I didn't expect him to test me: "How many pounds of corn is planted in an acre?" What is the row spacing? "Huh? I don't know anything about this! At this point, he was satisfied, and asked me again and again when he changed the name of the crop, I still couldn't answer. Between the fights, I also understood what it means to have their own strengths.

Croppers will face many practical problems when they live their lives. The daily expenses of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, and the personal exchanges between the villagers, add up to a big expense. In addition to throttling, we must also find a way to open the flow. So the couple discussed how to increase their income. I read in the newspaper that feeding cows and raising layer chickens could earn money, so I wanted to farm at home. The husband held an opposing opinion, and also had a good word: "The family has ten thousand, the bottom of the belly is not counted, and the planting industry only earns no compensation." "Well, if you want to plant, plant, but I put forward a condition: "You can't plant sorghum corn anymore, it only sells for four or five hundred yuan per mu, and if you want to plant melons, fruits and vegetables, it's worth more than crops." With your dad's way of guiding us, you certainly can't go wrong. The husband agreed.

With the strong help of the father-in-law, watermelons and melons are growing happily. My husband grew up in the fields day by day, and his skin was tanned. Leaving early and returning late, a lot of efforts have been made. When selling melons, I knew that he was stupid, and volunteered to let him only be responsible for catching the car, and I communicated with customers. In this way, the husband and wife divided labor and cooperated, and an acre of watermelon and melon sold for more than three thousand yuan.

After tasting the sweetness, because of the melons, I tried to plant an acre of grapes, and three years later entered the full fruit period. It is not easy to sell in the village, so I let my husband sell it in the city. As soon as he said selling melons, he was afraid and said, "You want to plant them, I can't settle accounts, I can't communicate with people, I can't sell them." I still have to bother my wife. "There was no way, I had to ride to Fenyang City, three kilometers away, to sell." From the beginning of a ride of 350 catties, to the later 1780 catties, from the beginning once a day, to later sold to three times a day, more than one acre of grapes a year and income of more than 3,000 yuan a year. A drumbeat was followed by pear, apple and walnut trees. Husband and wife are united in one heart, hard work and prosperity, the days are rich, and new stars and new lights are born one after another.

Material life has been improved, then it is necessary to pursue a spiritual life. Unfortunately, there are very few topics we can usually talk about together. He watches TV on "News Network", "Animal World", "World Sports", and I watch battle movies and feature films. In his words: "What I see is real, what you see is fiction, what is the use!" Everyone has their own hobbies, and differently, he looks at him, I look at mine, and don't argue about anything because I can't see a piece.

My husband is a real person, does not understand romance, does not understand the style. We've lived together for 38 years and never said three words to me: "I love you!" Once, when I saw a kissing scene on TV, I suddenly sneaked up on him and kissed him. Not only did he not embrace me in his arms, but he was startled and said unhappily, "Nerves! "I turned around and went out, ahem, whoever kisses you again in the future is a puppy." But I knew that he hurt me, would massage me when he was tired, and take care of me wholeheartedly when he was sick. Living is not a sweet word, but a real thing, and I am satisfied.

Outsiders all said: You two are really a good family that can be safe and secure, and what a good home you can rule the country. But marriage fits or not, only you know. As long as you understand each other and tolerate each other, you can harvest plain and sweet love