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I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

author:Hearty struggle

There are many billionaires who are married to billionaires with a difference of several decades, and there are very few ordinary people with an age difference of dozens of years, so let's take a look at how a 41-year-old female security guard married an 89-year-old retired cadre.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

My name is Liu Tingting, 45 years old this year, 1.62 meters tall, 54 kilograms, white and beautiful, born in a rural area in Sichuan, and my 92-year-old husband has been married for 4 years, maybe some people will ask me, why would you marry a husband who is older than your father? Listen to me in detail.

I was born in a poor peasant family, my mother could not stand the poverty of the family, when I was 5 years old, I ran away with a rich man, it was my father who planted two acres of thin land and picked up garbage in exchange for two or two pieces of silver to raise me, because of the poverty of the family, I had to finish high school and end my studying career.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

After leaving the campus, due to the poverty of my family, I had to leave my beloved father to work in the provincial capital city of Chengdu, and when I worked, I met Liu Changchun, the workshop director who was 8 years older than me at the time, and he saw that my appearance was very heavy, and he launched a fierce pursuit of me.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

I thought he was the director of the workshop, I would not suffer losses after marrying him, and I was still a city man, I thought of it and promised him, when I was 20 years old, I walked into his life.

When I was married, he was very good to me, all aspects of my concern for me, but also very caring, never expected that after the birth of our son, his feelings for me took a sharp turn, he often did not return at night, I asked him when he was still violent to my family, when my son was in the first grade, I could no longer stand his indifference and domestic violence, and ended his marriage for 8 years. The son was awarded to him at the time of the divorce.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

After divorcing my ex-husband, I came to a large electronics factory in Shanghai to work, a few years after carrying work, I walked out of the shadow of divorce, at this time a colleague named Wang Yong, who was also divorced, launched a pursuit of me, he was from Anhui, because I felt that it was really difficult to live alone, I agreed to him, he was very good to me when we got married, but when I gave birth to a daughter, his feelings for me changed dramatically, he said that I could give birth to a son for my ex-husband who would be a domestic violence, and he could not give him a son. You say: This kind of person is strange, I was so angry that when my daughter was in the fifth grade of elementary school, I had no choice but to leave him, and after the divorce, I wanted to obtain custody of my daughter.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

After divorcing Wang Yong, I left the electronics factory, and after leaving the electronics factory, I took my daughter to rent a private house of 500 yuan per month to live a mother-daughter life.

In a grocery shopping on the way I saw a community in front of the posted recruitment of security guards advertising, I walked over to ask people if they want a woman, the security captain at the time saw that my temperament was very good, he called me the property manager, the property manager came to see, saw that my temperament is indeed very good, and then the female security guard can also increase their highlights, on the exception hired me, from me to become a female security guard, my female security uniform is really good-looking.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

One day when I was at work, I saw a grandfather who looked more than 80 years old, carrying a bag of 5 kilograms of rice in his hand, walking with difficulty, I saw that the grandfather seemed to be moving, I said to my colleagues, I went to help the grandfather, the colleagues also supported me after listening, after getting the support of colleagues, I immediately ran over to the grandfather and said: Grandpa, I will carry the rice back to you, the grandfather is very happy after listening, he gave me the rice, when I carry the grandfather rice home, I ask the grandfather, what about your children, After the grandfather listened to me, he told me that he was a son, the son was very busy, and he could only come back once a few days, and I asked the grandfather again, so why don't you find a babysitter? After hearing this, grandpa told me that he had used several nannies, but they all wanted my money and stole my money for a long time, which was all counted, and sometimes scolded me, so I vowed never to use a nanny again.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

From then on, as long as I see grandpa I will go to help him, I often go to help grandpa wash clothes, clean, cook when I rest, this matter is known by his son and daughter-in-law after the heart is very happy, his son will put some money in my pocket for a long time, grandpa's grandson will also wrap me in red envelopes during the festival. And said to me: Auntie, you are so nice.

One day when I was helping grandpa to do things, grandpa suddenly offered to let me marry him, I was really shocked, he was older than my father, and then I thought that some media reported some stories of young girls marrying rich people, a little girl can marry, why can't a woman who has been divorced twice marry an ordinary person? After careful consideration, I agreed to him, his name is Wang Xingyu, is a retired old cadre, when I decided to marry the grandfather, the grandfather called to tell his son and daughter-in-law, his son and daughter-in-law at that time a little objected, saying that I want to encroach on the grandfather's property, I know the grandfather's son and daughter-in-law's intentions, I said to the grandfather's son and daughter-in-law: You are afraid that I covet the grandfather's property, you transfer the grandfather's house to your name, so that you can rest assured. When my grandfather's son and daughter-in-law saw me and said this: I felt that I was sincere, so after transferring my grandfather's house to their name, they agreed to marry my grandfather.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

After I get married, I should change my name to Grandpa husband.

My husband and I have a very good relationship after marriage, my husband's salary of more than 10,000 yuan per month is handed over to me, and my husband's son and grandson will give me a big red envelope every New Year's Festival, saying that his father and grandfather are really lucky and married me such a good wife and young grandmother.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

My husband and I have lived a happy life for four years, this year after the Spring Festival unfortunate things happened, my husband suffered from Parkinson's syndrome, everything has to me, food to feed me, urination and defecation more than I need to help solve, I take care of my husband is very hard, I sleep very little after work, when I go to work, I am particularly sleepy, colleagues understand me, sometimes let me spit when I go to work.

I worked so hard, but I rejoiced

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

My husband, who is dozens of years older, will not betray me, let alone domestic violence, and I am willing to live such a life.

In August this year, more unfortunate things happened, my husband suffered from incurable disease, liver cancer, and it is terminal, from the detection to the end of life less than 20 days, my husband's departure made my heart extremely uncomfortable, I sincerely hope that he can live for another ten years and eight years.

I am a 41-year-old female security guard, and the true story of how I married an 89-year-old retired veteran cadre

After my husband's departure, although I received hundreds of thousands of survivors' compensation from the state as his widow, I really didn't want these hundreds of thousands. I think he's alive, friends who are reading articles, are you saying I'm doing it right? If you have any ideas, please leave a message in the comment area.

Editor's note: Ms. Liu Tingting, you are doing the right thing, I praise your behavior, I hope that we have more caring new age women like you in today's society.

The characters in this article are pseudonyms

The image comes from the Internet

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