Text丨Shuangqi Town Inn (We don't have much time in this earthly world, it's not worth wasting time trying to please those vulgar and despicable scoundrels!) ）
As a front-line junior teacher with 26 years of teaching experience, I don't think the angry accusation of the teacher below is directed at the group of students' parents!
The teacher's angry accusation portrays the fact that a quiet desk is no longer possible in the current campus: teachers with good conduct are slave-like and powerless, and the group of parents of students with high emotional intelligence is domineering and fierce; There are many factions in the education industry in the atmosphere of human affection and sophistication, and people outside the education industry wantonly trample on education under the influence of the law of the jungle!
However, we always anchor his accusations only on the group of students' parents, ignoring everything else!
A full-time teacher at the School of Surveying and Mapping Science and Technology of Xi'an University of Science and Technology was so painful that he couldn't extricate himself from his magical experience that lasted about half a year.
Recently, he stood up with the anger and resoluteness of an intellectual, and told people about his various experiences, hoping to get the help of the public and save his soul from the dire situation.
If we ignore his appeals, his teaching bottom line as a teacher will be completely lost, and his spiritual world will also completely collapse!
According to the teacher's statement, in January this year, the results of the 2023 final examination of the subject he taught were released, and one of the students surnamed Chen failed.
The parents of the student, surnamed Chen, asked the teacher to revise their child's test results on the grounds that "their child is going to undergo a bachelor's and master's degree study" and that failing the final exam "will affect the child's future" and "cause a stain on life".
In this process, the attitude and rhetoric of the parents of the students are very unfriendly - there are personal attacks and derogatory attitudes towards the teachers, and there are also elements of violent threats. You can check the original version of the official media on this matter, in the original description, the teacher admitted frankly: "For a while, I was particularly worried about the personal safety of individuals and family members"!
Not only did the student's parents directly ask the teacher to revise their child's test scores, but the relevant personnel of the school (teaching staff and school leaders) also solemnly mentioned to the teacher many times that "this student's parents have a deep background" - his public identity is a member of the academician team of a research institute, and the teaching staff and school leaders require the teachers to revise the relevant test scores according to the requirements of the students' parents, and cannot adhere to the principle!
When the parents of the students ask the classroom teacher to revise the students' test scores, is it the fault of the classroom teacher himself? Teachers need to prove their innocence! That's right, this is an era when teachers need to prove their innocence!
Fortunately, there was a student who also failed the final exam and kept his conscience and objectively evaluated the teacher: it was his own level, not the teacher's own problem!
In addition, the teacher also reviewed the test results of the students involved: the test results consisted of two parts: "usual grades" and "written grades", and in the "usual grades" part, the classroom teacher gave a high score of 90 points, which has been benevolent and righteous; However, the student's written score surnamed Chen, after repeated review and accounting by the teacher, was only 25 points, and after combining the two according to the scoring rules, the final score was calculated according to the proportion, and the student's total score was failing, without any teacher's personal bias in it!
However, this statement has not been able to be recognized by the parents of the students, so it has died down; Parents of students "salute before soldiers": Seeing that the teachers in charge of the classroom are unwilling to revise the final exam results, they begin to find fault with the teachers like evil mothers-in-law.
The parents of the students no longer admit that "their children are stupid", but they changed their minds and thought of the prevailing trend of hatred of teachers and schools in today's society: "Your test papers are too difficult, and the marking process is too casual!" More than half of the students fail, which means that you have a problem with your teaching ability, and you do not have a sense of morality for the future generation of the motherland! I think my child has been treated unfairly, and I will continue to complain! If the school can't do it, then sue the Education Department! If it doesn't work, then hand it over to the society for grading! ”
In a recording of the conversation provided by the classroom teacher, the parent can be heard saying, "I will make the actual situation clear, if you can't do it, I will definitely run to the school to make trouble with you", "I will follow you wherever you are", "I have something to do with a teacher in your school".
"Guanxi" actually played a role - the school even set up a special supervision group to cooperate with the parents of students to investigate whether the teacher had "immorality" in teaching activities, and wanted to give the teacher a "trumped-up" charge.
How to say it, this student's parent, who is a member of the academician team of a research institute, not only completely follows the law of "the law of the jungle" in the current reality of the current atmosphere, but also makes the teacher feel that the safety of himself and family members is threatened, and his above conversation firmly grasps the life of teachers in the times!
First, the parents of the students pointed out that there were various problems in the teachers, so their children's academic performance failed, and they said that the teachers did not have a little bit of teacher morality; You can calm down and think about it: Is this the usual behavior of many parents of students who roll their eyes and pout their mouths?
No need to deny it! At least in the compulsory education stage, if the individual teacher does not have the ability to play with the student's parents, the student's parent group will be anti-customer-oriented in front of the honest and wooden individual teacher, and bullied the individual teacher to point out that there are various problems, which directly leads to their own children who can become dragons and phoenixes do not get full excellent and full marks in their academic performance!
This is not an era of "finding problems from one's own children", this is an era of evil mothers-in-law running rampant and specializing in "finding problems from teachers"!
In any case, at this moment, I can always think of Liu Chan and Zhuge Liang: Liu Chan did not face the south and turn his back on the north and dominate China, so where is Liu Chan's problem? It is clear that Zhuge Wuhou Lao'er has no ability! There is no Liu Adou who can't be helped, only Zhuge Liang who can't be helped-right?
You can look at the faces of parents of students when they face individual teachers with good conduct – I think! I think my child is being treated unfairly!
As a front-line junior teacher with 26 years of teaching experience, I have been reminding people for many years that it is especially easy for parents of students today – I think! As long as they think that their child has been treated unfairly, they are treating their child unfairly!
For the last 20 years, the presumption of guilt has been made on the part of the teacher community: as long as the teacher community does not kneel to serve their own children, then the teacher is the bad person!
Second, have you noticed that the student's parent mentioned that the school can't solve it, and he will further seek a solution from the Department of Education! Taking 10,000 steps back, if all the channels of "official business" do not work, he will also use the rabble of hatred of teachers and schools to hate education - let the whole society read the papers!
The student's parent's remarks actually speak of the current predicament of the teacher group, and also tear off the fig leaf on the education administrator!
The parents of this student understand a truth: all kinds of education managers at all levels are not the mother's family of the teacher group, as long as they "make trouble", the education managers will calm down and exert unlimited pressure on the individual teacher - even inflict physical and mental destruction on the individual teacher, until the individual teacher kneels down, until the student's parent group is satisfied!
If our education administrators can be tougher, like a "morally shouldered" chivalrous man, and will not make peace to the student's parent group without a bottom line, how can this student's parent be embarrassed to say - the school can't solve it, I'll go to the Department of Education?!
Obviously, for a long time, our education administrators have not become a big tree that teachers can rely on, and they have left the impression on the students' parents that as long as the students' parents make trouble, the students' parents are the absolutely correct party!
Also, again, this student's parents obviously understand this truth - other students' parents under the era are a rabble like crows, and there is no rationality at all! He understands that as long as he stands up as a "student's parent" to accuse teachers, the storm of public opinion set off by the rabble can make individual teachers die without a place to be buried!
In short, the student's parents broke through the fortress of education; However, did he single-handedly break through the fortress of education? Of course not! You should know a saying: the fortress is most easily breached by the enemy from the inside!
The parents of the students were well aware of the internal situation of the school: not only did they know the syllabus of the subjects taught by the teachers and the teacher management system, but they also knew the number of students in the teacher's class and the number of students who failed (out of 72, 38 failed), and these messages were all relatively private information that "non-insiders could not know"!
Combined with the warnings of the relevant personnel in the school who were half threatening, half admonishing, and full of human feelings and sophistication to the teachers in advance, as long as they are not people with extremely low IQs, they should be able to draw a conclusion: the teachers of the school, especially the "Mahu and Youniao" teacher group, must have some people who are inextricably linked with the parents of this student! It is these teachers called "teachers" who are delivering shells to the parents of students, anchoring the explosion point to their peers who are in the same school as themselves!
Bad money drives out good money, there's no doubt about it! But whether this kind of "bad money drives out good money" is a universal phenomenon on campus, it depends on how you know it!
In my opinion, my answer is: a well-behaved teacher can never have any place in the school! Teachers with good conduct are the scraps in the school!
Everyone with original sin keeps chasing the grandiose "Chinese-style emotional intelligence", which makes "non-my race, its heart must be different" has become the philosophy of the "fork" group on the current campus! The "pole boys" want slave henchmen, they want to create a campus ecology like an iron bucket, so that they can finally make unspeakable wealth from students and students' parents, so they don't want individual teachers with good conduct!
Teachers with good conduct do not have "Chinese-style emotional intelligence", they do not know how to cast their conscience to build their own network!
Regarding the student Chen, who failed the exam, the latest development is: the school requires the teacher to withdraw from the examination process of the subjects he teaches - no longer has the authority to write questions and correct the questions as before, and the school will designate a special person to prepare the examination papers and conduct special make-up examinations for students who fail; The examination papers after the make-up examination cannot be corrected by the teacher, and the teacher is only responsible for entering the final score given by the teacher.
In the process of this make-up examination, the student surnamed Chen, who originally failed and wanted to make a big fuss, finally passed!
The teacher who was only responsible for entering the grades thought that this was the end of the matter, but the accident happened again: after the make-up examination, another student surnamed Wang still failed the make-up examination!
The student, surnamed Wang, followed the example of the student surnamed Chen, and asked the teacher to revise his grades – if the teacher did not revise the test scores, he would choose to "commit suicide".
Once again, the problem was magically solved: the teacher was surprised to find that his authority to record scores had been unilaterally withdrawn by the "fork"!
After the "fork pole" withdrew his authority, the test scores of the students surnamed Wang who failed have been revised to "pass". In order to ensure that there is no handle in the hands of others, the make-up examination papers of students surnamed Wang are suspected to have been burned!
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As a parent of a student who advocates the law of the jungle and the beast, what do you think about this?
If you can't see the various dirty realities in the education ecology, where "forks", "horses and birds" are rampant, and "emotional intelligence" and connections are on the lips of some teachers; If you don't see that the parents of students are increasingly disobeying the rules, wantonly slandering and interfering with the normal teaching of the teacher group, and just blindly thinking that the parents of students are unreasonable, and the individual teachers should kneel down, then I can tell you - as an ordinary person, when everything is irretrievable, you will find yourself just a pawn who is used by others, and you are not a vested interest who can get a piece of the pie at all!
The fairness of education cannot be questioned, and the authority of teachers needs to be maintained! You tell me? #头条创作挑战赛#