Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Some women are like sparkling diamonds, so that men are willing to pay great value and chase after them.
And a woman's own value comes from her comprehensive strength.
The appearance is only the appearance, the inner abundance, and the strong spiritual world are even more fascinating.
I have found that the "successful" men in life are very fond of a type of woman, and they have the following characteristics.
02. Be a man and do things, be measured
Before, I watched a video that said:
A man threw a ball to which many wonderful women were invited.
When he appeared, many women rushed up to him and wanted to dance with him.
There was only one woman, who did not come forward, and she felt that girls should be reserved and elegant. Even if you see a man you love in love, you must maintain basic etiquette and know how to be self-controlled.
The man looked around, but left everyone behind and invited the dignified and quiet woman to dance together. I also had a deeper communication with her, and I had a better impression of her.
The charm of a woman is a hazy and mysterious beauty.
If you are too intimate with a man, you will lose your attractiveness.
Zhou Guoping said: "The sense of proportion is a sign of mature love, which knows how to observe the necessary distance between people in interpersonal communication. ”
Keep a sense of proportion, have a sense of boundaries, slowly manage a relationship, keep yourself, don't flatter, don't flatter, such a woman lives transparently.
Successful men actually prefer women with good temperament, good character, disciplined work, and particularly high emotional intelligence. Because it is very easy and comfortable to get along with.
03. Live tenaciously and don't give up at will
Recently, I watched a TV series "Spring Sends Lover", in which Chen Maidong did not have much contact with people because of the particularity of his work.
Zhuang Jie liked him, so he launched a fierce offensive.
In order to get to his WeChat, he was rejected three or four times. But she was not discouraged, and vowed not to give up until she achieved her goal.
When Zhuang Jie was a child, her left lower leg was amputated due to a car accident and became disabled, but she did not give up on herself.
Instead, relying on his ingenuity, he worked in a big city like Shanghai and became a gold medal salesman for a well-known company.
Chen Maidong was infected by her positive and optimistic attitude, and felt warmed and healed. I love this woman more and more.
Successful men prefer self-disciplined, independent, and self-contained women.
Yishu said in "The First Half of My Life": "My destination is health and talent, after all, what a person can trust is himself, and it is himself who can raise his eyebrows for him." ”
A smart woman will not please men too much, but will continue to improve and transform herself.
Appearing in front of men with an excellent, capable, open-minded, and cheerful attitude makes them irresistible.
Self-discipline, persistence, and a goal must be accomplished. Even if you fail, you will not be discouraged and will challenge again. Such a woman can live a more brilliant and wonderful posture.
04. Be able to distinguish between right and wrong, and have a high level
There is a classic sentence in "The Godfather": "People who see the essence in one second and those who spend half their lives can't see the essence of a thing clearly, naturally have different fates." ”
Excellent men think about problems and observe things at a deeper dimensional level. Naturally, they also hope that the women around them can be on the same frequency as him, know his logic, and agree with his feelings.
Such a man, the partner he pursues, does not look at his appearance, but the fit of his heart.
He needed someone to bring a different kind of collision of ideas, so that he could be inspired to come up with a better way to solve the problem.
If so, a woman has the ability to see the essence through phenomena, can analyze the causes and consequences of things, can draw profound conclusions, and see aspects that others have not noticed.
A man will be fascinated by such a woman, because, he does not know how many more surprises she can bring.
05. Summary
There is only one way for women to be loved by better men, and that is to make themselves better.
Let yourself have a deeper understanding, connotation, mind and ambition, and the ability to solve difficult problems.
When you are not underestimated in every aspect, naturally, standing there, your body is like gilded with golden light, and no one else can compare with it.
When you become a dazzling presence and let more people discover your beauty, you will get more appreciation and love.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.