Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Life is an unknown adventure, and once it begins, there is no turning back.
Over the course of a long life, one cannot get out of the cycle of cause and effect. The cause planted in the first half of life will have to bear the consequences in the second half of life.
Many people regret when their lives are bad: why didn't they work harder at the beginning, and why didn't they be more cautious when making choices?
In the second half of life, no matter how much regret and unwillingness there is, it is useless, and you can only move forward.
If a woman does the following things, she will live a very "moisturized" life in the second half of her life.
02. Plan for the future
Wang Manni in "Thirty Only" was originally a sales in a luxury store.
She dreams of becoming a store manager and a manager one day.
In the process, she also experienced confusion, was coerced by illness and loneliness, and chose to stay away from the bustling city because of emotional injury.
When her hometown was silent, she kept asking herself: what kind of future do she want, and is she willing to be defeated and become an ordinary person who does nothing?
Later, she accepted the help of nobles and won recognition with her abilities, and decided to study abroad, further her major, and set off into the future with more confidence.
The road of life is not about taking one step at a time. At many key intersections, if you miss the opportunity and can't keep up with the rhythm, you will soon be eliminated.
By planning for the future and accumulating energy for herself, women will be able to face all kinds of blows and challenges with confidence and calmness.
Every day of your life is very precious, don't waste your time on meaningless things.
Plan for the future, grasp the opportunity, and persevere to the end, and you will be able to have the life you want.
03. Work hard to make money and save money for yourself
There is a reader, Qin Ru, who is in my background, leaving me a message.
She said her family was not wealthy, and her parents had to pay for her to finish college. So, she knows very well the importance of money.
After entering society, when other peers were pursuing a material life, she only wanted to make achievements in her work, get a promotion and raise her salary, and save more money.
By the time she was in her early thirties, she already had a house of her own.
The deposits in the bank also gave her a full sense of security.
And she didn't stop making money, she still kept setting goals for herself, and saved money in a planned way on the premise of ensuring the quality of life.
Even if there are unforeseen accidents in the future, she has enough confidence to deal with them, and she will not let herself be overwhelmed and defeated by life. I really admired her and changed her destiny on her own.
Women must learn to take the initiative in life in their own hands.
Relying on others, you can only rely on yourself for a while, and you can rely on yourself for a lifetime.
If a woman wants to live comfortably and comfortably in the second half of her life, she must work hard to make money, save money for herself, and save more security for her life.
Do continue to struggle, work hard to make money, and let yourself have the confidence to fight against life.
04. Adjust your mentality and love life
Life is not a smooth road, there will be ups and downs, gains and losses.
Perhaps, we tried our best, but in the end we couldn't do it. Perhaps, the happiness we desperately want to have is the daily life that others dislike and are impatient.
It's easy for us to lose our hearts in the midst of all kinds of injustices and inequalities. Becomes paranoid and likes to get into the horns and let himself get into anxiety.
Zhou Guoping said: "People cannot control their own destiny, but they can control their own attitude towards destiny and calmly bear the inevitable encounters that fall on their heads." ”
Our women's hearts are more sensitive, and our perception of life is also more profound.
In the face of the impermanence and huge gap in life, we must know how to adjust our mentality and maintain our love for life.
Don't compare, restrain your vanity, learn to precipitate yourself, and use your heart to discover the beauty in life.
Don't always stare at what others have, you must know how to cherish the happiness around you, collect small pieces of warmth, and fill your life.
If you love life, you will know how to enjoy life better, and you will strive to have a more nourishing life.
05. Summary
Life is your own, you have to live it well.
Regardless of whether there is someone around to accompany her, women must manage their lives with their hearts.
Plan for the future, go all out, and move towards your goals and ideals.
Maintain a positive attitude, discover the beauty and kindness in life, and start the second half of life with an energetic heart.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.