The ancients said, "The blessed don't need to be busy, but the unblessed run to break their bowels." ”
Some people have been busy all their lives, and they don't get rich, and they complain.
The most feared thing is that the wealth has arrived at the doorstep, but you miss it, or drive the "wealth" out.
In my hometown, there is a local saying: "When three things enter the house, there is wealth and joy, and there is no disease or disaster." ”
If it seems superstitious, after a comprehensive analysis, we will find a good truth that guides us on how to run a family.
Regardless of whether there is money or not, as long as these "three small animals" appear in the family, the family will become richer and richer.
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"Home and everything is prosperous": the swallow comes to give birth to children and bring harmony.
Writer Hu Mingbao wrote about a childhood past.
He is in the countryside and likes to dig birds' nests the most.
One day, he disliked the swallows in the house for being too noisy, so he broke the swallow's nest.
When Grandma found out, she was so angry that she ran out of the back room and snatched the bamboo pole in his hand, which was a scolding.
Grandma said, "You just can't poke it." ”
A few days later, he found that the bald old Zhou family also had swallow nests. Immediately, I used my brain.
While Bald Lao Zhou was out doing farm work, he slipped in the door and pounced on the swallows.
Coincidentally, Bald Lao Zhou came back, saw this scene, and shouted: "Stop, you are not afraid of being blind! But whoever pokes the swallow's nest will sooner or later poke his own eyes." ”
At this moment, he was scared and ran home crying. Grandma said, "Bald Old Zhou is right. You deserve it. ”
When he finished crying, his grandmother said gently, "Swallows are beneficial birds, help eat insects, and let the crops grow smoothly." Without swallows, the crops will not be harvested, and the farmers will not be blind to cry......"
From now on, he is full of awe of swallows, and even if he steps on the swallow's droppings, he will not be angry.
People and animals live in harmony, which reflects the harmony of the family, and also shows that every family member can distinguish between right and wrong.
If you apply the mind to treating swallows to get along with your family, you will find that everyone will find each other's advantages and know how to love each other. In such a family, harmony is very simple.
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"Safety is worth 10,000 dollars": kittens and puppies come to settle down and bring safety.
There is a story in "Yu Ion".
Zhao Guo has a family and there are many mice, so he went to Zhongshan to bring a cat.
The cat eats the mice, and then the chickens are often eaten.
The son of the family thinks that the cat is at home, which is a scourge and should be driven away.
My father said, "If there is a rat, you will steal my food, destroy my clothes, wear my walls, and destroy my weapons, and I will be hungry and cold." If so, how to go to the husband and cat. ”
Because cats have one disadvantage, forget about the benefits of cats. What is the rationale for this?
When the cat comes, the rat is gone, and the family clothes, walls, etc., are safe. That's a great achievement.
In the same way, when the dog comes, he can watch over the home. Especially in rural families, the owner goes out to farm and work, and the dog is at home, so it is very reassuring.
If there are children in the family, dogs can also bring happiness and protect children's safety.
The greatest wealth of a family is not to go out to earn a lot of money, but to go out happily and go home safely.
The literary critic T.S. Eliot once said, "Animals are the closest friends, they never ask questions, they never accuse." ”
Cats and dogs keep your home, eat a little food, and don't ask for your salary, you should be more tolerant.
If dogs and cats come to your house, don't chase them away, they're here to help you.
In the same way, if someone finds out that your home is unsafe, point it out in time, and accept it with an open mind.
These two allusions tell us a truth - listen to the suggestions of the neighbors, see what unsafe hidden dangers they find, and correct them in time, then the family will be less harmful.
The guest who can point out the problem is the real nobleman. They care for you sincerely, and they don't expect anything in return. Acceptance, it will bring a safe pattern.
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"There will be afterglow in the house of goodness": Injured animals come to ask for help and bring kindness.
In the Analects, it is said: "Heaven has the virtue of a good life, and man has compassion." ”
When an injured critter comes to your home, it is asking you for help, don't hurt it.
Tell your family that helping the animals will bring good fortune. Most importantly, the test of the kindness of the family.
Guo Cunsuo, who lives in Liulinhe Village, Pinglu County, Shanxi Province, found two very beautiful birds when he went out to do farm work, and mistook them for phoenixes.
When he saw that the birds were having a hard time, he often brought food to feed them.
At first, the family was also against it, after all, it was an animal, and there was no benefit in feeding it.
But he persevered for many years, developed a relationship with the birds, and the birds went from two to dozens.
It has been determined that the bird is a red-bellied golden pheasant, which is very precious.
As soon as the news came out, many people who love photography and birds came, and they not only took away the beautiful scenery, but also took care of Guo Cunsuo's family.
Wealth and virtue enter the house together, which is an unexpected and inevitable result.
Animals are also sentient, provided you are loving and will help them.
If a family insists on kindness and often helps animals, it will accumulate good deeds and make everything the family do smoothly.
The ancients said: Accumulation of virtue does not need to be seen by others, and God knows how to do good; people are good, although blessings have not come, disasters have been far away. ”
If there is no disaster in the family for a long time, then wealth can continue to accumulate without any signs of ruin.
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The aesthetic thinker Tomobu Imamichi once said, "If a person attains happiness, health, talent, wealth, happiness, power, and so on, but abandons the pursuit of truth, goodness, and beauty, then he will degenerate into an animal." ”
From the interaction between humans and animals, we can see the truth, goodness and beauty of people. If people fall into the trap of animals, then people are not as good as small animals.
The philosopher Democritus argued: "The beauty of the body, if not combined with the intellect, is something animalistic." ”
Human beings themselves are part of the animal world, and they can obtain energy and wisdom from animals, and they can also combine people and animals to work together to achieve great things.
Riding horses and archery, driving cattle to plough the land, herding sheep to make money, and using donkeys to pull and grind...... If you master the method, the family will gather wealth and go smoothly.
No matter how small the family is, as long as there is a heart, it can always accommodate the small family of animals.
No matter how poor the family is, as long as they work together, they can always get together.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The pictures in the article come from the Internet.