Text/Mo Ran
Many times, you will understand that there are some things that you have no control over at all, and in that case, you have to learn to take a bearish view.
The ups and downs are life, and we must grasp what we can grasp. Just do it, don't chase the result.
A person's best attitude towards life is to cherish what he has, let go of what he can't get, return to himself, and try to make himself happy.
Attach yourself to it
There is a kind of power, called relying on yourself.
In this world, the person who can really be relied on is himself, and when he encounters a problem, everyone must find a way to save himself.
If you give up on yourself, no one will help you.
People are very realistic, relying on the mountains will fall, relying on everyone will run, only relying on themselves is the most practical.
When you encounter a problem, you put your hope in others, and you will always be passive.
When you can live as a tree, don't be a vine. Don't complain about anything, and don't wait for someone to help.
Rely on your own strength to step through the mud step by step, in order to get closer and closer to what you want.
People can only be truly strong by themselves, and relying on others is always temporary, and no one can help you all the time.
Only by relying on oneself can you be the most down-to-earth and can resist everything.
Elevate yourself
If a person wants to live the way he wants to live and does not want to live in the eyes of others, the best way is to become a better version of himself.
For this reason, you have to keep learning and improving yourself, and only if you become good enough, others will see you.
Instead of looking to the light of others, it is better to shine your own. Improving ourselves allows us to go farther and see more vast scenery.
Improving oneself is far more reliable than relying on others, because oneself is excellent, so that you can have enough confidence to resist all things in the world.
Whether it is to improve self-worth or improve one's thinking ability, you need to learn more things.
People live and learn until they are old, so that they will not be eliminated by society. A person who does not know how to learn will be thrown off by others sooner or later.
If you want to have a long-term relationship, you need to be evenly matched, and when you are good enough, you can choose the life you want and not be trapped by reality.
Be yourself
The most important thing a person should do is to be himself, whether good or bad, he needs to recognize himself, so as to find his best state.
Everyone has a shining point, there is no need to compare with others, you just be yourself.
When you are yourself, you can be regarded as truly living yourself, and people can only be truly happy when they follow their hearts.
blindly compares and will only live in the eyes of others without yourself.
A person without ego will never be happy, and only by being himself and being firm can he not live in vain.
This life is not long, and you must be brave enough to pursue the life you want.
Accept your own shortcomings, face up to your shortcomings, and reconcile with yourself, so that you can find your core values and live a wonderful life.
Summary:
A person's best attitude towards life is not to imprison one's heart, not to torture one's body, and not to waste one's time.
Be brave enough to pursue yourself, face yourself, and be yourself.
At any time, don't live in the expectations of others, but follow your own will and live as you want.
A person's greatest success is to live his own life, to live the life he wants boldly and bravely, rather than to live as others want.