Entering the "second half" of life, as soon as the "little broken car" of the years passed the hurdle of 35 years old, many couples seemed to suddenly change gears and entered the "Buddhism" mode. Don't panic, this is not an uncommon thing, but a common small fortune for middle-aged couples.
Last week, I got together with a few girlfriends and talked about the "daily life of middle-aged couples", and we laughed that this is simply a new chapter of life with "low-key luxury and connotation". To use the popular word nowadays, it is "indifferent". Yes, it is not the "explosion" and "explosion" of the past, but the faint feeling of "the years are quiet", which is indisputable with the world, but has its own charm.
First of all, you'll notice that the word "love" has become super rare in everyday conversation. The couple's conversation basically revolves around "three meals", asking "what to eat" in the morning, "what do you want to eat" at noon, and "what time do you get home" in the evening. Life is like a black-and-white movie, with less color and more blandness. The two of them are like roommates, occasionally meeting each other, but missing that passionate spark.
Moreover, the home has become "quiet". The once "noisy and noisy" is gone with the wind. It's not because we've become "tolerant and generous", but because we find that "quarrelling" really doesn't mean much. Everyone understands that no one can change anyone, and it is better to chase the drama and watch the jokes when you have this time, so that you can enjoy yourself.
In the end, marriage is like entering a "dilemma" - I want to divide but can't separate, I want to live well but I feel that I am almost something. There may be a moment when you will have the thought of "bye bye", but in the face of the reality of divorce, you have to consider the economy, family, children, ...... That's a whole bunch of questions. So you start to struggle, start to hesitate, and finally choose "so be it". After all, it's not perfect to live with anyone, and changing partners isn't necessarily much better. The life of a middle-aged couple is a true portrayal of this kind of "plain with a little helplessness".
But don't worry, that doesn't mean your marriage is "cool". As long as we manage with our hearts, cherish and be grateful, we can still find our own small luck in this "indifference". After all, there is no perfect marriage in the world, only those couples who are willing to pay for each other and work hard for their marriage can walk more roads and see more scenery together.
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