The baby was thrown on the bed by the nanny, and the nanny didn't admit her mistake afterwards and wanted to continue to take orders: how to prevent the black nanny?
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2024-04-29 15:09Posted in Hunan Parenting Creator
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Every time I see this kind of news, I am really angry.
Parents spent a high monthly salary to invite the confinement nanny to come back to take care of the children, but they didn't expect to lure the wolf into the house.
It's really distressing to see such a young child being treated violently by a nanny.
The news took place in Xiangtan, Hunan.
A mother hired a nanny to take care of the baby, but she didn't expect to arrive home for 8.9 days, and the nanny threw the child and hit the child's head with her hand when she put the child to sleep.
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At the time of the incident, the mother saw that the baby was crying heavily, so she turned on the surveillance video and saw the nanny treating the child violently.
The appearance of the falling child, the cry of the child, I really can't see it when I am a mother.
Afterwards, the nanny also argued that she just lost the child, just to let the child sleep, and she didn't admit her mistake at all.
It wasn't until my mother called the police and the police said they were going to take her away before they apologized.
After such an incident, the nanny even wanted to continue to take orders.
Such an impatient person still wants to take care of young children, or the cost of making mistakes is too low.
Many netizens watched the news and were also angry:
"Throw the child away like this, just call the police. ”
"Who dares to do this to my daughter, I will fight with her. ”
"I really can't forgive, fortunately, nothing happened to the child's neck, and it's too late to regret it. ”
"It's scary, some people don't have that kind of patience and don't want to make other people's money. ”
"Now that this kind of video has been exposed so much, how dare these people, it's just that they are handled lightly. ”
"This kind of sue her, don't pay compensation, and make her unable to be a nanny and take care of the child for the rest of her life. ”
"It must be punished severely, if the law is too rational, I am not rational. ”
That's right, if you are not patient enough, if you can't really like children, really don't go into this industry.
Young babies need to be cared for so much that they can't tolerate the slightest bit of violence.
This industry really needs to rectify and raise the threshold, and only severe punishment can have a deterrent effect on the black-hearted confinement sister-in-law who abuses children.
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The newborn baby was slapped by the confinement lady, shook his head violently, and choked his neck
Such a confinement sister-in-law, please sentence!
I really can't see such news after becoming a mother.
But such things are frequently reported.
A month-old lady in Chongqing violently abused her newborn baby for 26 days.
Only 26 days old, holding it in the palm of the hand is afraid of hurting, the black-hearted confinement lady actually slapped the baby, shook the baby's head violently, pinched the neck, the strong light of the mobile phone irradiated the baby's eyes, and pulled the baby's hands to shake (the baby's fragile head has no support) ......
Treating a baby who is only more than 20 days old with such violent behavior is really infuriating and heart-wrenching.
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A mother in Shaanxi spent nearly 20,000 yuan to hire a confinement sister-in-law, but the high-priced confinement sister-in-law did not bring better care, but directly led the wolf into the house.
The confinement sister-in-law came to the door in just 3 months, and she abused the baby many times.
Slap after slap, spank the child's buttocks, and scold while beating: If you make trouble again, I'll strangle you.
Squeezed the child hard and threw the child directly to the ground, and the child cried in pain and his hands and feet fluttered.
With both hands strained, he held the child and shook it back and forth, without the slightest fear of concussion.....
Because of long-term abuse, such a small baby has a pain reflex.
In Shiyan, Hubei, an 28-day-old baby actually suffered a thigh fracture.
After checking the monitoring, the baby's parents collapsed directly.....
The mother found from the monitoring that the baby who drank milk without crying or making trouble was slapped by the confinement lady just because he drank milk a little slowly.
After that, the confinement lady unscrewed the bottle, pinched the child's nose and forcibly poured milk... During this period, the baby was already crying, and the strong milk kept squirting.
A hundred milliliters of milk was forcibly filled in one minute.
There is even more infuriating, such a small baby, the confinement sister-in-law twisted the child's head and pulled it up violently, shook violently, pressed violently, and flipped the child's body.... This process directly leads to a broken leg bone in the baby....
Angel-like babies, I don't feel enough to love them in the palm of my hand, how can these black-hearted confinement sisters-in-law do it.
As many netizens said:
Forced breastfeeding may cause aspiration pneumonia and may be fatal in severe cases.
Shaking a baby violently can easily lead to baby shaking syndrome, which can range from brain damage to death.
It's not just abuse, it's intentional homicide.
Yes, any violence against infants and young children is unforgivable!
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How to prevent the black-hearted confinement lady?
Because the news of the black-hearted confinement lady is often reported.
Many parents who need to have someone to take care of their babies are worried.
So how to hire a reliable nanny, and how should parents screen it?
● Plan ahead
If you are going to invite a confinement lady and a nanny, you will basically have to book it when you are pregnant.
A good nanny often has a tight schedule, and it is possible to book it in advance. The more temporary you are, the more likely you are to meet a nanny with few customer recommendations.
It is best to be recommended by acquaintances or relatives, and it is more reassuring to know the roots, if not, you must also find a regular qualified housekeeping company to find, don't look for it casually.
●Do a good job of interviewing
In addition to seeing the nanny's words and deeds in person, it is more important to test her.
Learn postpartum recovery and newborn nursing knowledge through books, lectures and other ways in advance, and then in the process of communicating with the confinement lady, appropriately ask some nursing questions to understand what the confinement lady will do.
During the interview, pay attention to check the confinement lady's ID card, health certificate, and confinement certificate (nursery teacher certificate, family care certificate, etc. vary from region to region), and ask the confinement lady to provide a copy of the ID card and a contract in duplicate.
It is normal for a professional confinement lady to present these documents and documents.
●Do a health check-up
Take the nanny to a regular hospital for a comprehensive physical examination, including internal medicine, surgery, gynecology, functional medicine, liver function, hepatitis B markers and other key infectious diseases.
●Understand some parenting knowledge
Taking care of a baby must require skills, and the nanny must know some parenting knowledge and know how to feed and take care of the baby.
The babysitter is not required to be a parenting expert, but the basic knowledge must be understood.
At this point, pregnant mothers should also emphasize that parents themselves should also learn some parenting knowledge.
Be assertive and avoid some nannies making their own paste and taking you to the ditch.
When determining the confinement nanny and nanny, you should also be clear about your own requirements, such as the way you want to breastfeed, hold the child, and sleep together.
Say it in advance, and there will be no chaos when the time comes.
●Do a background check
It would be best if the contact details of the previous employer could be found, as they knew best what the babysitter's character was.
In addition, it is important to understand the family background of the nanny, especially to understand whether there are extremists in the family, and if so, it is best not to avoid accidents.
●During the probationary period, you should observe thoroughly
Whether you can complete the basic work of taking care of the baby, whether you pay attention to hygiene, whether you will communicate with the employer, whether the child is happy with the nanny, and whether the child often has accidents, these are all points to observe.
●Communicate well if you have any questions
Communicate with the nanny with a peaceful attitude and give enough respect, a good nanny will also transfer this kindness to the child when she feels cared for and respected.
Of course, if it is an obvious wrong behavior, such as feeding the child indiscriminately, putting feces and urine, or shaking the baby, it is also necessary to correct it in time and point out the seriousness of the matter.
●Mistakes of principle will not be tolerated
Abusing children, stealing money, scolding, or bringing people to the house, etc.
Once these problems occur, it is a matter of principle, and they should be dismissed immediately, and the police should be called.
If child abuse is detected, the right treatment can avoid aggravating the harm:
●Retain evidence in a timely manner to facilitate accountability in the future
The pregnant mother feels that the family that hires a nanny should install a camera, which can serve as a warning and make the nanny dare not mess around.
Secondly, the camera can also retain the video, and if there is a hit, the evidence can also be retained.
● Call the police in time and stop beating and abusing the babysitter
This prevents the babysitter from hurting the child again due to emotional irritation.
In a society governed by the rule of law, it is illegal to beat infants and abuse children, and the law is punishable by law.
● Carefully inspect your baby's body and do a thorough examination
If the child has skin trauma, take photos and save them, and take the child to the hospital for examination in time, and keep the injury records and payment receipts.
If the child does not have skin trauma, he or she should also go to the hospital for a detailed examination, focusing on important parts such as the brain and spine.
Remember to keep all your documents and reports.
Finally, parents should pay more attention to the people who are separated from the belly, even if they trust the person, and check it from time to time, especially if the child suddenly cries.
At all times, the safety and health of children comes first.
I hope every child can be treated gently!
Refer to the article
"Urgent Voice! 40-Day Baby Girl Was Slapped, Hammered by Nanny! Black Nanny, How to Prevent It?—Scientific Family Parenting"
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The baby was thrown on the bed by the nanny, and the nanny didn't admit her mistake afterwards and wanted to continue to take orders: how to prevent the black nanny? -
The baby was thrown on the bed by the nanny, and the nanny didn't admit her mistake afterwards and wanted to continue to take orders: how to prevent the black nanny? -
The baby was thrown on the bed by the nanny, and the nanny didn't admit her mistake afterwards and wanted to continue to take orders: how to prevent the black nanny? -
The baby was thrown on the bed by the nanny, and the nanny didn't admit her mistake afterwards and wanted to continue to take orders: how to prevent the black nanny? -
The baby was thrown on the bed by the nanny, and the nanny didn't admit her mistake afterwards and wanted to continue to take orders: how to prevent the black nanny? -
The baby was thrown on the bed by the nanny, and the nanny didn't admit her mistake afterwards and wanted to continue to take orders: how to prevent the black nanny?
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