The scolding war between Meng Dan and her in-laws on the Internet made her husband Weijie have to make a choice, either she chooses her parents, it means that she is separated from Meng Dan, or she chooses Meng Dan, it means that she has broken with the original family.
No matter how you choose, it is a dilemma, both sides are the favorites of your life, the parents who gave birth to me and raised me, the first love who was reunited after breaking the mirror, how can you choose? And how to choose?
So no matter how you choose, it's all wrong!
在下面小作文中，提到了父母让刚结婚的儿子离婚，自己的婚礼一点不关心 也没有帮助准备，一切都是自己操办的。
There is also this one, which makes everyone feel that being a parent is too outrageous!
Dad, it's time to wake up from the dream that you are a good person, always standing on the moral high ground to accuse us, don't you know how depressed and painful your four daughters are in this family? What did the eldest sister and the second sister get tortured into? Everyone is suffocated by you.
Once it was my turn to refuse you money, I was frantically condemned, and the child left the house not scarred.
Reading between the lines, we can see that Wei Jie is strongly dissatisfied with his parents' desire to control, and uses words such as pain, suffocation, scarred torture, and so on.
This makes everyone surprised by the rich father, kind mother, and perfect family that they have created before.
Now that two or three years have passed, they have really not contacted each other, they have no contact information, and they have not even notified the second sister of her marriage.
Wei Jie settled in Yunnan with the injuries of his original family and Mengdan, and all the injuries had to heal slowly by himself and recover slowly.
Once in a live broadcast, netizens saw that Weijie was in a bad state, magically sluggish, and there was no sunshine before, everyone was very concerned, and when he mentioned home, Weijie choked up and couldn't control his tears.
Someone persuaded the two to have a child, and life became lively.
Wei Jie said that life is not easy, and children are born to suffer.
But netizens don't give up, persuade not to indulge in the past, you don't want children Mengdan is old, and it will be difficult to give birth when he wants to.
Weijie is sometimes high-spirited, he wants to start a business, work hard, and is eager to prove himself, and sometimes he is low and uninterested, as if there is always something pressing in his heart.
Meng Dan was also very accommodating, and felt that Wei Jie was quite pitiful.
Meng Dan mentioned her in-laws again, she felt sorry for Wei Jie, she understood her husband, Henan people have a very strong family concept, and it was wrong to choose at the beginning.
Since you choose to be together, you will work hard together and fight for your own small family.
Looking at Meng Dan's expression, he was very helpless and distressed, he said that when he said that he wanted to go back to his hometown in Wenzhou during the Chinese New Year, he was afraid that Weijie would be uncomfortable alone, and he was afraid of causing trouble to his parents when he went back alone, and he could hear that he also had a lot of grievances in his heart.
Meng Dan has grievances and has nowhere to say, and his parents are even more good news and not bad news, it is his own choice No matter how he has to go on, he can't talk to his sister.
The girl who loved to laugh so much before is still smiling very hard, and there are still people scolding her.
A netizen said:
The most hurtful thing is this man, who is not wise at all, if there is a problem at home, he has to raise the strength of the whole family, and he will toss like this for the marriage house, and he regrets it a little!
Meng Dan insulted her in-laws In the final analysis, it is Wei Jie's right or wrong, putting family affairs on the Internet and asking netizens to abuse their parents, which is really bad.
At present, this pair of young people are working hard in Guangzhou, not having children, only fighting for their careers, and they are eager to prove their ability, but in the final analysis, their hearts are not strong enough.
Poor Mengdan, since you have chosen, you have to go together, run your own little family well, and with the passage of time, everything will pass.
Life is short for 30,000 days, and no matter what you experience, it is a scenery in your life journey, and it will change as your parents get older.