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Today's topic, why is the problem of the original family so serious now?
With the change of dynasties in history or the occurrence of certain things, many normal people (people with bravery, perseverance and upward spirit) have been washed in blood, and the rest are cowardly and light-fearing people (compared with those who have been baptized in blood). And then the genes are passed on and multiplied, and those genes stay here. I don't dare to say anything else, sometimes I feel like I'm a patient, maybe everyone is a patient!
Times have changed, traditional culture and good experience have been impacted, schools only teach knowledge and competition, children's active adaptation and communication skills have not been cultivated, intergenerational distance has come out, parents and children are very innocent, work hard to learn and communicate, understand each other, support each other, don't have a good life, make people cold and scattered!
Illness is a state that is different from ordinary states. For example, the vast majority of people are not dizzy, but a few people are dizzy, which is dizziness. But just because the vast majority of people can't see eye chart characters smaller than 5.0, it doesn't mean that everyone has myopia. It is necessary to have a relative standard. You say that most people are mentally ill, and the outward manifestations are irritability, hysteria, cowardice, violent tendencies, etc., is it possible that this is actually the normal state of the human species?
Because the people who didn't do it -- they didn't do it, but a lot of people they knew did, so they felt like they were thinking right, because they saw how that generation did it
I feel that the post-80s generation is the most interesting, I can understand the hard work and arrogance of the 60s and 70s, and the independence and freedom of the 90s and 00s. But what the hell is I? I don't know...
Ruthless words are all spoken, ruthless things are done, and if you are not stupid, selfish, or ignorant in that era, you can't live at all.
My father is a native of the countryside, and told me that when he was a child, the adults in the family did not agree, and he was always scolded, saying that whoever cut how much grass and hoeed how much land, he wanted to study, and he couldn't do anything.
I think 99% of families are normal relationship families, maybe there are some differences in concepts, but it can be said that these parents love their children more than themselves! But it is true that some families have big problems, because normal families are not news, and abnormal will be concerned, and then we see that the word "original family" is used everywhere on Zhihu and is negative many times, which may cause bad guidance to children from some normal families.
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