1. Chen Jin's unique and charming life concept and practice
Ms. Chen Jin, 58 years old, shows a different attitude towards life from her unique perspective. Unlike the conventional choice of everyone to enter the palace of marriage and conceive offspring, Chen Jin chose to remain single for life and refused to have children, living a good life with his brother Chen Zhun.
Referring to why she made such a decision, Chen Jin unabashedly expressed her heart: "I don't have a deep understanding of the meaning of marriage, my brother and I are like siblings, we are independent existences, so why let marriage become our shackles? I yearn for freedom, and marriage is an irresponsible performance in my eyes."
In Chen Jin's worldview, human happiness and satisfaction do not come from the formation of a family, but from the richness and fulfillment of the inner world. She firmly believes that as long as she can live independently, she does not need to rely on her husband or wife, but can devote more time to her passion and interests.
This unique outlook on life has always run through the life course of her and her brother.
In fact, in order to ensure that the brother and sister can enjoy the joy of family in their old age, Chen Zhun has already begun to carefully prepare a warm and comfortable retirement home many years ago. Whether it's care in life or spiritual comfort, they are fully prepared.
Although this way of life may seem a little lonely to others, in Chen Jin's heart, it is the supreme happiness she is seeking.
In addition, Chen Jin's life is also colorful now. Although she faded into the entertainment industry, she did not stand still and devoted herself to the field of jewelry design, starting her own small studio.
In this studio, a variety of exquisite jewelry items are displayed, each of which is the work of Chen Jin, and through the creation of these innovative jewelry, she has found a new love and satisfaction that makes her life more fulfilling.
For this woman in her 60s, there is no doubt that the lifestyle she has is very different from ordinary people. However, in Chen Jin's view, happiness is not the same as marriage and family in the traditional concept.
She chose her own life trajectory with a firm and wise attitude, and used her unique personal charm to shape her colorful and fulfilling life, unreservedly pursuing the satisfaction of the depths of her soul.
Even in the twilight of her life, she still has that kind and fresh brother - Chen Zhun, as her closest friend, to spend the last years of her life together, sincerely speaking, this may be the greatest happiness she deeply desires!
2. Chen Jin, who has been independent since childhood
Looking back to Chen Jin's childlike childhood, we can gain insight into the source of her unique character. As a child born into a military family, Chen Jin has already shown a unique and independent personality.
Chen Jin and his elder brother Chen Zhun have lived in a strict and orderly military compound since childhood, but they have not been assimilated by the environment. The siblings are more inclined to explore new and strange things than the usual games that other children love.
For example, the young Chen Jin was very fond of transforming clothes and adding patches to them. In the context of that era of scarcity of materials, such behavior is undoubtedly extremely innovative.
Sometimes, she even deliberately cuts out some old clothes and then uses her rich imagination to redesign them into the ideal look in her heart, like a little fashion designer.
This distinctive personality trait makes it difficult for Chen Jin and her brother to integrate into the world of other children in the compound. The two of them are like the brightest rising stars on the streets, and they are in a league of their own.
In the eyes of their parents, the "difference" of the siblings is really amazing.
This spirit of independence ultimately profoundly influenced Chen Jin's future life choices. In the year of the college entrance examination, although her cultural performance was good enough to be easily admitted to a top university, she did not hesitate to choose to enter Shandong University of the Arts to further her performance arts.
Although their parents did not fully understand this at the time, they still gave the siblings great support and encouragement: "Life is yours, and you have the right to decide how to do it.
In the face of the trust and support of her parents, Chen Jin devoted herself to the career she loved. During her four years at the art academy, she worked tirelessly on every role, often devoting herself to rehearsals without sleep or food, until the teacher on duty had to ask her away.
This unwavering and dedicated spirit quickly attracted the attention and praise of the school, and at the same time cultivated a solid soil for it to shine in the entertainment industry in the future.
Since childhood, Chen Jin has always maintained that unique and distinctive personality. She has an endless curiosity about life, and has a unique perspective on fashion and creativity.
Even in the harsh upbringing of a military family, she was never assimilated, but chose a different path in life.
It is this maverick personality trait that has created her outstanding achievements in the entertainment industry.
Third, the brilliant period of the career
After stepping into the Shandong Academy of the Arts to study acting, Chen Jin devoted himself to his favorite field. Despite her lack of a strong foundation in acting, she delved deeper into each role with a more focused attitude than the rest of her classmates.
When rehearsing a new play, Chen Jin often performed silently on the stage alone until two or three o'clock in the evening, until the teacher on duty came to urge her, and she reluctantly left.
This unwavering and dedicated spirit quickly attracted the attention and praise of the school. Thanks to her outstanding appearance and physical condition, she is often chosen as the leading role and shines in various theatrical performances.
This made her a veritable "little Internet celebrity" in the school.
After graduation, Chen Jin was assigned to work in the Air Force Repertory Troupe, which brings together many performers from all over the world. For Chen Jin, who is new to the workplace, this is undoubtedly a huge challenge.
However, she was not discouraged by this, but worked harder, hoping to stand out from this group of outstanding peers.
Sure enough, with his superb acting skills, Chen Jin quickly emerged in the repertory troupe. She has received a number of important roles, especially when interpreting the challenging drama "Snow Peak Love", she has shown excellent role switching ability and strong expressiveness.
In the end, she won the performance award at the 5th Art Festival for this work.
Such a good achievement has made Chen Jin's name gradually known in the entertainment industry. After watching her performance, the well-known director Fan Mingren warmly invited her to participate in the movie "The Devoured Woman", which also became Chen Jin's screen debut.
This film, which once failed to arouse fanatical popularity in the market, invisibly led everyone into the world of Chen Jin, a new acting school.
In the years that followed, Chen Jin's carefully interpreted roles ranged from the TV series "The Mountain Doesn't Turn the Water" to "The Tide Rises and Falls", and every wonderful interpretation made high-quality resources throw olive branches to him.
Under such a momentum, the 26-year-old Chen Jin has risen rapidly like a butterfly and become a hot new generation of actors, as if her acting career will be smooth and ride the wind and waves.
However, the trick of fate made this budding star fall into the trough of his life in an instant.
Fourth, the transformation in the face of adversity
Although Chen Jin's superb acting skills have been widely recognized by the industry, her career has fallen into trouble in a short period of time. The directors' evaluations all pointed out without exception that the problem lies in her appearance, and her posture and temperament can no longer meet the aesthetic needs of the big screen.
"Your acting skills are not insufficient, but your appearance is slightly plump, and your complexion is not good. "If you can't adapt to the youth of this industry, then find another way as soon as possible, with your current image, I'm afraid even a nanny is not competent.
These sharp words were like a sharp sword, deeply stabbing Chen Jin, who was already frustrated.
Chen Jin suddenly realized that in this industry, the appearance is more influential than the inner acting skills. Even powerful actors such as Ni Dahong and Wang Jinsong have been given a cold reception because of their mediocre appearance.
This made her feel extremely disappointed and angry, but it also inspired her to change the situation.
As a result, Chen Jin embarked on a 20-year arduous weight loss journey. First of all, she resolutely said goodbye to rice and pasta, which are the main sources of energy, and began to strictly control her diet.
Then, she insisted on 3 hours of high-intensity exercise every day to burn body fat like crazy. Such a firm belief finally made Chen Jin's weight begin to lose significantly, and her appearance also glowed with a new brilliance.
20 years of perseverance has not only made Chen Jin's image earth-shaking, but also made her heart stronger and more persistent. At that time, she may not have fully understood why appearance is the fatal weakness of an actor, but she is determined to use her unremitting efforts to prove that talent is the real focus of attention.
Faced with directors who had sneered at her, Chen Jin resolutely decided to use her own strength to refute the doubts of others with practical actions! She is convinced that as long as she can use her excellent acting skills to sway freely on the screen, she will definitely make them recognize and accept her again.
As a result, she put in endless efforts and adjustments, and finally achieved self-sublimation in the midst of difficulties.
Fifth, set sail again and climb to the top
After 20 years of hard work, Chen Jin finally rekindled his light in the entertainment industry and quickly emerged. In 1996, she made a wonderful appearance in the movie "Campus Pioneer", and won the honor of outstanding actress in the "Feitian Award" that year for her outstanding performance.
In 1999, she co-starred with Li Youbin and Li Xuejian in the movie "Born Out of the Sky", which won three major awards in one fell swoop: the Golden Rooster Award, the Changchun Film Festival Award and the Huabiao Award.
The achievement of these honors has not only won Chen Jin the attention and praise of all walks of life, but also the best way for her to prove herself with her strength. Those directors who used to disdain her appearance must now be shocked and respected by Chen Jin's performance.
With her talent, she showed them what true charm is.
In the years that followed, Chen Jin became famous with his superb acting skills in masterpieces such as "Dependent on Each Year" and "The Justice". Whether it is the gentle and virtuous lady who portrays "White Moonlight", or the ruthlessness of playing the villain, she can play it with ease, and is praised by the audience as "the bone of the play".
She seems to be moving freely between various roles, showing extraordinary interpretive skills.
Although Chen Jin has entered middle age with the passage of time, her status in the entertainment industry has become more and more stable. She also began to get involved in more "mother" roles, such as Zhao Qiping in "Ode to Joy", Su's mother Zhao Meilan in "It's All Good", and the Lord of Pingning in "Know".
However, no matter what role she plays, Chen Jin can always skillfully integrate her unique temperament and inner demeanor to make these "mother" images more vivid and three-dimensional.
Although some people may think that Chen Jin, who is nearly sixty years old, is still alone, and his life has not yet reached the full state. However, in her eyes, happiness is not the same as marriage and family in the traditional concept.
This woman has firm faith and enthusiasm, and her name is Chen Jin. She has an older brother Chen Zhun who shares her interests and loves independent life, and the two are close friends who can be called eternal and dependent on each other, and they have already carefully prepared a warm and comfortable retirement home for each other.
In modern society, perhaps such a view of life is the most ideal happiness model in Chen Jin's heart.
6. Unique insights on life choices
Unlike most people, the 58-year-old has chosen a unique path in life. She decided to stay unmarried and barren for the rest of her life with her brother Chen Zhun, which may seem a little lonely in the eyes of others.
However, in Chen Jin's eyes, true happiness does not just stay in the traditional concept of family marriage.
When asked by a reporter why he made such a choice, Chen Jin replied unabashedly: "I can't understand what marriage means to me, my brother and I are independent individuals, why let marriage become our shackles? I long for freedom, marriage is more like an irresponsible behavior for me."
She believes that a person's happiness and satisfaction come from the richness of the inner world, not from whether or not they have the protection of a family.
This extraordinary way of thinking has always run through the life decisions of Chen Jin and his brother Chen Zhun. As early as many years ago, Chen Zhun has carefully selected a comfortable and pleasant retirement home for the siblings, looking forward to their family happiness in their old age.
Even if they have lost a loved one in the traditional sense, they will still support each other and walk hand in hand through the final journey of life.
Although, in the eyes of the outside world, such a way of life may give people a sense of loneliness and "incompleteness". However, in Chen Jin's heart, as long as she can live independently, she does not need to rely on her husband or wife, but can have more time to devote to the career and hobbies she is passionate about.
These are the keys to true fulfillment and happiness for her.
Perhaps it is this unique outlook on life that has created Chen Jin's outstanding achievements in the field of acting. She sticks to herself, proves her worth with strength, is not bound by appearance, and does not follow the crowd.
Even when she was neglected at the lowest ebb of her career, Chen Jin never had the idea of retreating, but with unwavering determination and perseverance, she achieved a gorgeous turn in life after 20 years of hard work!
Now, although he has gradually retired from the showbiz, Chen Jin is still determined to forge ahead and climb new heights in life. Turning her sights to the new field of jewellery design, full of challenges and opportunities, she set up her own small studio and dedicated herself to creating a wide range of exquisite beadwork.
These ingenious works of art have become the greatest source of joy and satisfaction in her later life. Whether in the entertainment industry or in daily life, Chen Jin has always adhered to herself and upheld unique opinions.
She believes that true happiness does not come from the traditional concept of family fulfillment, but from the abundance and satisfaction of the inner world.
It is this extraordinary mode of thinking that has led her to a different and dazzling glorious path in her life's journey.