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Ms. Chen Jin has gradually moved behind the focus of the variety show circle and turned her attention to a bright new field - jewelry design. In a small and intimate studio, there is a dazzling array of fine jewelry, all of which show the unique charm of an artist.
In this quiet and peaceful small world, Chen Jin found a new sense of belonging and satisfaction.
Today's Chen Jin is already a 58-year-old woman with a firmer and more independent heart. Looking back, in order to return to the acting stage, she once embarked on an extremely difficult road to lose weight without hesitation.
For 20 years, she insisted on up to 3 hours of high-intensity yoga exercise every day, and resolutely did not eat rice, relying only on a peach to sustain her life. This almost ascetic-like way of life is truly admirable!
At the same time, Chen Jin also made another jaw-dropping decision - he agreed with his brother Chen Zhun not to marry for life. The siblings chose to live an independent lifestyle, and although the secular view of "perfection" in life often requires the blessing of marriage and children, they did not feel lacking in the slightest.
On the contrary, they are convinced that marriage is not a necessity in life, and that a free and independent lifestyle can make them more happy and satisfied spiritually.
It is this perseverance and pursuit of self that has shaped the uniqueness and integrity of Chen Jin's life today. Even at the age of 58, she is still living a free life, full of strength and vitality.
In this quiet and harmonious jewelry world, Chen Jin found her own spiritual home and lived a beautiful life of spiritual and material harvest.
Looking back on Chen Jin's acting career, it can be described as brilliant and twists and turns.
During his college years, with his excellent acting skills and unique temperament, Chen Jin won the reputation of "little Internet celebrity" on campus. After graduation, she quickly stepped into the entertainment industry, and emerged in the Air Force Repertory Troupe with a wonderful performance of "Snow Peak Love", which was warmly sought after by many well-known directors.
Chen Jin is extremely devoted to acting, often staying up all night to study the role, and is extremely obsessed with it. However, this concentration also caused her physical condition to deteriorate day by day. Irregular eating and drinking causes weight to skyrocket, and the appearance begins to deform, and the face becomes pale and weak.
Many well-known directors have admitted that her superb acting skills are impeccable, but unfortunately her appearance is difficult to meet the strict requirements of the industry, and some directors even maliciously ridicule her for not being able to do even the most ordinary housekeeping work.
These malicious comments undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to Chen Jin, who was full of confidence. "Is appearance really so important?" she fell into a thoughtful distress and confusion in the face of the relentless suppression of reality.
For Chen Jin, who once attracted much attention, this is undoubtedly an unbearable setback and blow. Just when Chen Jin gradually felt that her acting career was coming to an end, she resolutely chose a long and difficult road of self-improvement - a 20-year journey of self-transformation. Once again, she proved that talent and strength are far more precious than appearances.
After a lot of hard work to lose weight, Chen Jin finally succeeded in creating a new image, won many important awards for her excellent acting skills, and once again reached the peak of her career.
Her wonderful performances in excellent film and television works such as "Campus Pioneer" and "Born Out of the Sky" once again amazed the entire industry. With her own practical actions, Chen Jin forcefully fought back against those directors who once questioned her, showing her inner quality and talent far beyond her appearance.
Since then, her acting career has soared like a butterfly and become famous.
Compared with Chen Jin, whose career is thriving, her private life is extraordinarily unique.
Chen Jin and his brother Chen Zhun have reached a puzzling agreement from a certain moment - never to marry for life. The siblings not only resolutely resisted their parents' blind date arrangement, but also skillfully rejected the kind persuasion of relatives and friends many times.
They are convinced that marriage and childbearing are not essential elements of life, but can be a stumbling block in the pursuit of freedom.
In this regard, Chen Jin once explained frankly: "I don't fully understand what marriage means to me. My brother and I are both independent individuals, we have plenty of time to pursue the career we love, so why should we let marriage hinder our progress? ”
In the eyes of the world, the fifty-eight-year-old Chen Jin has never been married all his life, and it seems that he has failed to reach the so-called "consummation" realm in life. However, when we delve deeper into the mysteries of her inner world, we will find that marriage and children are not the only yardstick for measuring the integrity of life.
Chen Jin enjoys two parents who love her deeply and respect her personal choices, in addition to her brothers, who stand side by side to protect her original intentions. In their view, mutual companionship and mutual understanding are far better than a seemingly perfect but empty marriage relationship.
It is especially worth mentioning that her eldest brother, Chen Zhun, tailored a place for the brothers and sisters to retreat in their later years, which has become Chen Jin's most solid spiritual sustenance.
However, even though her inner emotions are so open and free, Chen Jin can not completely break free from the fear of loneliness. As time passed, she often fell into frightening dreams in the middle of the night, in which she was alone, uncared for, and had to endure even the smallest pain alone.
Such nightmares haunted her again and again, and her fear of loneliness could never be eradicated.
Perhaps because of this worry, Chen Jin's thinking has quietly undergone subtle changes in recent years. Although she has always adhered to an independent lifestyle, deep down she may also have longed for a soulmate to spend the rest of her life with.
In 2003, she had a confusing relationship with the well-known actor Wu Gang, although neither party publicly admitted it, but the media still discussed it.
As he enters middle age, if he can find a bosom partner to accompany him, he may be able to satisfy Chen Jin's deepest desire. However, she remained true to herself and never succumbed to the shackles of the world.
In her eyes, the fulfillment of life does not depend only on whether or not you have a family and children, on the contrary, as long as your heart is full of strength and contentment, that is the greatest happiness.
It is with her firm belief in self and unremitting pursuit that Chen Jin has finally achieved a true sense of "human difference".
Since childhood, Chen Jin has shown significant differences from children of the same age. She doesn't like to play games, but prefers to explore new things, such as sewing patches on clothes, cutting and destroying old clothes, and reinventing them.
This kind of maverick personality is particularly advanced in the era of scarcity of materials.
This unique personality trait has played a pivotal role in Chen Jin's future life path. She became a "little Internet celebrity" during her college years because of her outstanding appearance and talent, and after graduation, she stepped into the entertainment industry and quickly rose to prominence and won many awards.
However, good times are always short-lived. As her appearance was questioned by the public due to a severe eating disorder, Chen Jin was almost on the verge of despair and decided to give up her beloved acting career. As we all know, Chen Jin's inner struggle at that time can be seen - "Can appearance really determine the value of a person?" This excellent actor, who was previously acclaimed, now even faces the dilemma of not being able to do simple housework.
Such a huge contrast undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to Chen Jin's confidence. However, she did not give up easily, but resolutely embarked on a difficult road of self-reconstruction. After 20 years of strict diet management and high-intensity yoga workouts, Chen Jin has finally succeeded in reinventing her image.
This gorgeous turn not only made her stand out in the entertainment industry again, but also made her heart more determined and full of strength. Chen Jin used her own practical actions to effectively fight back against those directors who had questioned her, and fully showing her talent and strength is the real key. Since then, her acting career has soared like a butterfly and become famous.
Despite the booming career, Chen Jin still has a gap in his heart that cannot be filled. The "lifelong non-marriage" vow she made with her brother Chen Zhun has caused many doubts and doubts from the outside world. However, Chen Jin holds a unique view that marriage and children are not necessities in life, but may become shackles that restrict personal freedom, and she yearns for that kind of unfettered life.
This attitude of transcending the world also prompted Chen Jin to find a new direction in life when she entered old age - jewelry design career. In this small world of peace and harmony, she finds a new sense of belonging and fulfillment.
It is worth mentioning that Chen Jin's brother Chen Zhun is also a character with a distinctive personality. Like his sister, he adhered to the concept of living without marriage and child, and carefully built a home for the two siblings to spend their old age. When this dream home was finally completed, both siblings felt extremely happy and satisfied.
In this warm little family, Chen Jin found the deepest solace in her soul. Even though she is sometimes shrouded in the shadow of loneliness, as long as she remembers the company of her brother, the fear in her heart disappears without a trace in an instant. This affection and understanding are far better than an illusory marriage relationship.
After years of baptism, Ms. Chen Jin, who is now 58 years old, has been far away from the bustling and noisy entertainment industry, and has lived a beautiful life with both spiritual wealth and material enjoyment! This "outlier" woman, who was praised in the past, has now perfectly realized the ultimate display of her personal value.
Although her life path may be different, it is undoubtedly colorful and worthy of our respect and recognition. With unwavering willpower and perseverance, this woman with boundless energy and personality proved to the world an unpretentious but vital truth - the integrity of life cannot be easily defined by marriage and having children alone.
On the contrary, as long as the body, mind and soul can feel full of satisfaction and happiness, it can be called the highest state of life.