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Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Wu Gang has entered his sixties, and the baptism of the years has added a little vicissitudes to his once heroic face. However, under his long eyebrows curved like a sickle, there are still a pair of eyes that have been tempered by the world but are still full of warmth, all of which show his love for life and inner satisfaction.
The wrinkles on his forehead are like silent telling, recording the ups and downs he has experienced.
Indeed, in the two important chapters of his life, career and emotion, Wu Gang has undoubtedly achieved the brilliant achievements of "double harvest". On the one hand, with his superb acting skills and unremitting efforts, he has made a name for himself in the entertainment industry and has dedicated countless classic works to the audience; on the other hand, he and Chen Jin have been together for more than 20 years, and the love between the two is like old wine, becoming more mellow and lasting for a long time.
Looking back on his acquaintance with Chen Jin, Wu Gang always shows a meaningful smile. It was in 2003 that he participated in a TV series called "Seventeen Days of Life and Death", which tells the touching story of a divorced couple who have to put their divorce aside because their children have been kidnapped and start a rescue operation together.
For Wu Gang at that time, the plot of this drama had a striking resemblance to his marital status, which was really amazing about the magical arrangement of fate.
During the filming, Chen Jin played the wife of his character Zhou Lin in the play. Although the two usually don't talk much, Chen Jin's deep understanding and skillful handling of the lines left a deep impression on Wu Gang.
For example, there was a scene where they apologized to each other at the police station, but Chen Jin thought that such a scene did not match the character's personality, so she took the initiative to propose that the scene be changed to a scene at home where they drink to kill their sorrows and complain to each other.
This small change not only makes the plot more realistic and vivid, but also makes Wu Gang deeply feel the extraordinary talent of this young actress.
In that year, Wu Gang's marriage to his wife Zhao Ying came to an end. Since then, the connection between him and Chen Jin has become increasingly close, and the relationship between the two has also sprouted and grown unconsciously, gradually sublimating into deep love.
Although there is a lot of discussion about this from the outside world, as a staunch "unmarried person", Chen Jin was not affected by the gossip, but got closer and closer to Wu Gang, supported each other, and got through the difficulties together.
However, before climbing the peak of his career and embracing his ideal life partner, Wu Gang also experienced countless hardships and hardships. Whenever he recalls those years, he is always surrounded by strong memories, and those twists and turns seem like yesterday.
At first, the young Wu Gang had an endless yearning and extremely enthusiastic longing for this magical and charming performance world. Whenever the performance of the art troupe came to their town, Wu Gang always did not hesitate to grab the most privileged viewing seats, and was deeply moved and inspired by the engrossed and wonderful performances.
Witnessing the exquisite interpretation of various roles on the stage, little Wu Gang also quietly planted a firm seed in his heart - he is determined to be like those excellent actors, one day be able to stand on that dazzling stage and show his talent and style.
However, fate is often full of drama. When Wu Gang was seven years old, a sudden family accident completely overturned his originally planned life trajectory like a storm.
The father's job was in jeopardy, he was at risk of losing his job, and the whole family was in unprecedented financial hardship.
In order to share the burden of the family, the young and immature Wu Gang had to give up the long-hidden dream of performing in his heart, and instead devoted himself to busy agricultural production, becoming a hard-working and brave "man".
Those years were undoubtedly difficult for him, and he had to shoulder the responsibilities of taking care of his sister and taking care of the housework, and strive to play a good son who was filial and sensible.
Eventually, in order to alleviate the financial pressure on his family, he was forced to leave his hometown and live with his grandmother in Sichuan.
This experience in the inland area was undoubtedly a great challenge and transformation for this teenager who grew up in a coastal city. He set foot alone in this strange land and began a new journey in life.
Thankfully, a knowledgeable uncle from his grandmother's family made a friend of books and soothed Wu Gang's deep wounds with his wealth of knowledge and wisdom. In the process of reading "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", he seemed to be in it, imagining that he was the heroic and fearless Liu Bei, the resourceful Zhuge Liang, or the domineering Cao Cao;
These wonderful imaginations have brought him endless imagination and enabled him to grow and grow in the midst of hardships and hardships.
In this way, Wu Gang gradually grew into an adult in the passage of time, but his ardent desire for his dream of acting never faded. Fate finally smiled at him, and after unremitting efforts, he was fortunate to be admitted to the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, and since then he has officially embarked on the broad road to his dream.
During his studies at the school, he not only met the love of his life, Zhao Ying, but more importantly, he found the right direction for his career development. After graduating from university, he joined Bayi Film Studio without any suspense, and successfully filmed his first work "Camel Grass", which officially kicked off his career as an actor.
Just when Wu Gang's career was in full swing, a young actress with a lot of personality suddenly appeared in his life, violently shaking the trajectory of his life.
In 2003, Wu Gang was invited to star in a well-crafted TV series "Seventeen Days of Life and Death". Cleverly conceived, the work vividly shows the touching journey of a couple who are about to part ways, forced to put aside the idea of divorce after their child has been kidnapped, and work together to save their child.
For Wu Gang at the time, the drama's striking resemblance to his own real life touched him deeply.
From the beginning of filming, an actress in the crew has attracted Wu Gang's great attention - she is Chen Jin, who was entrusted with the important task of playing the role of his screen wife Zhou Lin. At first, they didn't have much interaction in their work, but Chen Jin's unique performance concept quickly attracted Wu Gang's attention.
For example, in one scene, the original script was set up for Wu Gang and Chen Jin to apologize to each other in the police station. However, Chen Jin thought that this scene did not match the character's personality, so he decisively decided to change it to a scene where the two were grief-stricken at home and used alcohol to kill their sorrows.
This innovative idea not only makes the plot more natural and smooth, but also fully reflects Chen Jin's in-depth understanding of lines and characters. Seeing her flexible adjustment of the script, Wu Gang couldn't help but secretly admire the outstanding talent of this rookie actor.
In that year, Wu Gang and his wife Zhao Ying came to an end after 15 years of married life. After the divorce, the contact between him and Chen Jin became more and more frequent, and the relationship between the two gradually warmed up.
Although there may have been some doubts in public opinion at the time, as an "unmarried person", Chen Jin himself did not seem to care about it. On the contrary, she and Wu Gang got along more naturally and harmoniously, and the two supported each other and grew together, so they worked together to get through those difficult years.
Time is like an arrow, the sun and the moon are like a shuttle, and in a blink of an eye, the two have known each other for more than 20 years. Looking back on the past, today's Wu Gang still clearly remembers the small change that made his eyes shine.
Perhaps it was this small change that created a silent spiritual understanding between them, which in turn prompted them to get to where they are today.
When looking back on the past time, we can't help but think deeply about when the marital relationship between Wu Gang and Zhao Ying has appeared that cannot be healed. The fate of these two can be traced back to the moment they met at the People's Liberation Army Art Academy in 1979.
At that time, Zhao Ying undoubtedly became the flawless goddess image in Wu Gang's heart, and the two seemed destined to be a match made in heaven.
However, the short sweet time did not last long, and under the surface of marriage and harmony, there was a deepening estrangement. The little couple who used to talk and laugh and have a tacit understanding have now become taciturn and strangers.
More importantly, they have been separated for a long time, and they lack the most basic contact and communication in their lives.
As for why Zhao Ying chose to divorce, she has never publicly disclosed the specific reasons, but some keen media people have found some clues from the clues. It is hypothesized that the main factors that led to the breakdown of their marriage may include the following: first, the distance between the two countries is becoming more and more distant due to the prolonged separation, second, the lack of topics and effective communication between the couples, and finally, the lack of children as an emotional bond in the marriage.
In Wu Gang's life, Chen Jin has always been a mysterious figure. Although the two have been walking hand in hand for nearly 20 years, this "unmarried" has always kept a low profile about his emotional world and rarely mentioned it in public.
She seems to have a unique view and adherence to the traditional concept of marriage.
In fact, Chen Jin's attitude towards relationship issues has always been frank and direct. In her eyes, love and marriage are not an indispensable part of life, what really matters is to find the deep resonance of the heart.
And the way she gets along with Wu Gang just confirms the authenticity of her concept.
Although their lives are uneventful, they show Chen Jin's independent personality charm. They don't have to worry about the battle for their titles, and they are not bound by worldly ideas.
In their daily lives, everyone focuses on what they do best – Wu Gang is fully immersed in his art, while Chen Jin is immersed in his acting career, enjoying his leisure time in a café or walking in a park.
Recently, some media exposed intimate photos of them on overseas vacations, in which they look harmonious, warm and natural, without any sense of pretentiousness.
In the face of the paparazzi's encirclement and interception interview, Chen Jin never gave a definite answer to the real relationship between her and Wu Gang. However, she did not take any evasive measures, as if she had long since forgotten the widely spread rumors, which undoubtedly showed her unabashed, straightforward and frank attitude to life.
It is precisely because of this tenacity of fearless suspicion and malicious speculation that despite the countless doubts and accusations about their way of getting along, people cannot deny that their behavior is impeccable.
In fact, Chen Jin is not the only one behind her. She was able to go through the long years hand in hand with Wu Gang precisely because they have a similar and deep understanding of life and love.
As Wu Gang himself said, "We never equate love simply with physical intimacy or strong possessiveness, on the contrary, we see it as the sublimation of the soul." This pure and flawless emotion is the most precious treasure in life. ”
From his words, we can clearly feel Chen Jin and Wu Gang's unique views on feelings. They seem to have consciously or unconsciously broken free from the shackles of worldly ideas, and instead expressed their deep affection for each other in their own way.
Because of this, even if time flies by like a white horse, this relationship still shines and shines.
Looking at the life trajectories of Wu Gang and Chen Jin, it is not difficult to find that the values they adhere to do deviate from the mainstream culture to a certain extent. But, as Wu Gang said, they never equate love with possessiveness or physical relationships, but as a kind of spiritual sublimation, and this pure and immaculate emotion is the most precious thing in life.
Perhaps in the eyes of others, Wu Gang and Chen Jin's way of getting along is too avant-garde or maverick, but for themselves, it is precisely a comfortable and satisfying way of life.
Because deep in their hearts, desire is not the most important pursuit, but that sincere and pure love is the core of life.
Since the two parties are satisfied with this, we as bystanders should probably not interfere and judge too much. After all, everyone's understanding and interpretation of love is unique, and it is important that each other can get happiness from it.
The private lives of actors should never be the focus of public opinion, and we should respect their life choices.
As loyal viewers, we look forward to Wu Gang continuing to develop his acting talents and continue to present us with more outstanding artistic masterpieces! At the same time, the innocent and flawless emotional bond between him and Chen Jin can continue to last forever and spend the rest of their lives together.
It is important to know that people's pursuit of the value of life is not only limited to the glitz of Vanity Fair or the constraints of marriage, but more importantly, to live their true selves and enjoy a life full of joy.
Wu Gang and Chen Jin perfectly interpret this noble value in their unique way.