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It was an ordinary day in the late 90s of the last century, when a well-known vocal group in China suddenly needed a female singer who could take the lead in the upcoming sketch show, so as to add color to the performance of the whole team.
In the face of this sudden task, although the daily work of the whole team has been arranged, fortunately, a powerful singer in the team has a free schedule.
At that time, the full stop, who had already emerged in the sketch industry, was anxious and uneasy, and sent a sincere invitation to Yadan for this temporary cooperation. To the full surprise, Yadan accepted this challenge without hesitation, as if there was a certain number in the dark, destined for these two destined people to perform a wonderful stage story together.
Since that successful cooperation, full stop has developed a deep love for Yadan. It turns out that Yadan not only has a touching voice, but also its appearance is beautiful and unforgettable.
What's even more rare is that she is always kind and friendly to others, pure and kind in heart, exuding a unique charming temperament.
Coincidentally, at that time, full stop and Yadan were living in the staff dormitory of the song and dance troupe, and their rooms turned out to be neighbors next to each other. Due to the relatively simple environment of the dormitory and the lack of unified water supply equipment, everyone had to go to the designated place and use the traditional thermos pot to get hot water.
Soon after, full stop noticed that Yadan had to climb the stairs every day to fetch water. So, he silently wrote down the time when Yadan fetched water, and at the same time period, he took the initiative to help her make hot water, and then sent the water to Yadan's room upstairs by the way.
At first, Yadan was a little confused by the meticulous care of the full stop, mistakenly thinking that it was just a random coincidence. But with the passage of time, the two have gradually deepened their familiarity with each other because of their frequent "unexpected encounters".
Unconsciously, Yadan also began to actively respond to the invitation of the full stop and joined his sketch rehearsal team.
In an in-depth conversation, the full stop finally mustered up the courage to confess his heart to the girl. Unexpectedly, it turned out that Yadan also had a deep affection for the full stop, but it was only because he learned that he had already started a family, so he didn't dare to further deepen this emotion.
When she learned that she had divorced her ex-wife and regained her freedom, the doubts in Yadan's heart disappeared instantly. In this way, a pair of lovers decided to join hands on a new journey of life in the tacit understanding of looking at each other and smiling.
However, this couple, who seem to be a good match to the outside world, has not been blessed by each other's families. The first to stand up for strong opposition turned out to be Yadan's father!.
As an ordinary person born in a poor family, Yadan's father tried his best to train his daughter into an outstanding talent. Now, this daughter who has been raised with hard work is at a flowery age, how can she easily marry a man who is 11 years older than her and has a history of failed marriages? What's more, the full stop is just a sketch actor, and the future is not yet clear, how can she provide a stable life guarantee for Yadan? .
Fearing that his precious daughter would be bewitched by the honey-sweet, tear-filled words of the full stop, the father decided to take matters into his own hands and try to salvage the situation.
He didn't hesitate to buy a ticket and went straight to Yadan's song and dance troupe, intending to persuade his daughter in person, and at the same time to question the full stop in person.
He hopes to find a breakthrough to sober up Yadan, not to be carried away by the romance in front of him and miss the beautiful marriage.
However, to the surprise of Yadan's father, during the trip, he inadvertently asked some old friends who had been in contact with the period, and none of them had a negative opinion of the period.
On the contrary, everyone spoke highly of the personality charm and acting career of the full stop, and the full stop is not only an actor with superb acting skills, but also a modest and upright, honest and trustworthy person, and has never played any tricks or has evil intentions.
The father's doubts gradually disappeared, and when he saw his daughter and the full stop's sincere eyes, he could no longer resist the power of love.
In the end, under the repeated explanations and promises of Yadan and full stop, although Yadan's father was still reluctant in his heart, he could only compromise helplessly. He solemnly told the full stop, no matter when and where, he must cherish his precious daughter, who is like a pearl in the palm of his hand, and then reluctantly agreed to the marriage of the two.
In fact, long before Yadan entered the life of the full stop, the full stop had already experienced an imperfect married life. He has been with his ex-wife for many years and has conceived a lovely daughter together.
However, the good times did not last long, and due to various reasons, the relationship between the two finally broke down, so they had to choose to part ways.
After the divorce, the precious daughter, who has become a vital person in her life, was carefully raised by him. As for the ex-wife, it is like evaporating from the world, disappearing from their father and daughter's life without a trace.
At this critical turning point, Yadan is like an angel given by God, giving a rare opportunity to rebuild a warm family. However, the fact that the full stop planned to marry Yadan undoubtedly aroused strong dissatisfaction and even resolute opposition from his ex-wife's family.
Their worries are very clear - although Yadan is young and energetic, will she be able to play the role of a qualified stepmother? If Yadan does not treat that daughter well after they are newly married, it will have an extremely bad impact on the child's mental health, and the consequences are simply unimaginable!
In the face of the doubts and obstacles of his ex-wife's family, full stop is actually full of hesitation and vacillation in his heart. However, after deep reflection, he firmly believes that this love is a gift from God, not just a casual talk.
As long as you pay enough sincerity, you will be able to eliminate the suspicion and resolve the estrangement.
Therefore, the full stop firmly decided to stick to the fate between him and Yadan and move forward bravely. Under repeated communication, Yadan also expressed that she would look forward to, wait, and tolerate her daughter's integration with the greatest patience.
So, in 1999, Yadan and full stop entered the sacred hall of marriage hand in hand and opened a new chapter in life. It is worth mentioning that Yadan never regarded that daughter as a stepdaughter, but cared for her in the most cordial and warm way.
Under Yadan's meticulous care and care, the daughter finally opened her heart and accepted Yadan, the "new mother", and the whole family regained that laughter and happiness.
In the years after marriage, Yadan's family experienced a sudden change and heavy blow. Yadan's own brother was tragically killed in a tragic car accident, and this bad news was like a thunderbolt from the sky, shaking the hearts of everyone in the family.
The whole family was instantly plunged into deep grief. Yadan's mother was even more grief-stricken and fainted many times, while Yadan's father seemed to have lost all his life, confused and helpless, like a walking corpse.
Seeing his beloved father-in-law and mother-in-law so sad and lost, as a son-in-law, he knew that this was the time for him to stand up and share their pain with all his might.
So, when the full stop was full of sorrow for his father-in-law and mother-in-law's funeral, he tightly held the hands of his dear father-in-law and mother-in-law who had experienced many vicissitudes, and expressed his deep meaning to them with sincerity: "Although the eldest brother has left us forever, I implore the second elder to regard me as my dear son, and I will deeply care for and raise the eldest brother's child with my own feelings until the ends of the earth!"
At first, the father-in-law had no doubt that this was just a respectful word. However, time flies, and the subsequent facts have ruthlessly proved his firm commitment.
Yadan's mother was physically and mentally exhausted due to the loss of her son, and her health deteriorated. In order to allow the two elderly people to be better cared for, full stop resolutely decided to take them into his own home to live together and take care of their daily life himself.
For the children of the late eldest brother, the full stop is to do his best to give all-round care. Whether it is academic guidance or trivial matters in life, the full stop is hands-on and has no complaints.
Whether it is homework tutoring or attending parent-teacher conferences, full stop is always conscientious and does not dare to slack off in the slightest.
Soon after, Yadan's father deeply realized that the son-in-law in front of him was undoubtedly a benefactor from God. If he really interfered at the beginning, he would have suffered double pain - not only the loss of his precious daughter, but also the loss of this son-in-law who was as good as his own son.
In fact, in the days before the death of Brother Yadan, the full stop's sense of responsibility to the family and filial piety to the elders have already been vividly displayed.
After the divorce, he devoted all his time and energy to his daughter's education and life care. That smart, well-behaved daughter is the proudest treasure in the world, and the most important existence in his life.
However, due to the divorce of her parents, her daughter's personality has gradually changed, becoming more sensitive and introverted, revealing a poignant self-protection mentality.
In the face of such a huge change in her daughter, full stop has never had any harsh criticism or accusation against her. He chose to use endless patience and a broad mind to heal the deep scars in his daughter's heart.
As time passed, under the father's affectionate care, the daughter finally opened her heart and gradually regained her former cheerfulness and optimism.
It is the spirit of uncomplaining dedication and responsibility like a loving father that deeply moved and deeply impressed Yadan! In the long years of married life, she has always tried her best to play the role of a competent and perfect stepmother, giving the innocent girl the most affectionate and intimate care and care.
On this occasion, her filial piety to her husband's parents is no less.
When she just stepped into the door of the full stop family for a few years, her mother-in-law still had a wait-and-see and precautionary mentality about the origin of this "new daughter-in-law". After all, the full stop's ex-wife died too suddenly, and the mother-in-law is naturally wary of this kind of "lightning marriage" newcomer.
However, Yadan did not feel depressed or lost because of this. On the contrary, she is filial to her mother-in-law with the most sincere attitude and the most amiable manners, and patiently dissolves the doubts in her mother-in-law's heart.
As time passed, the mother-in-law was finally moved by the girl's true feelings, regarded it as her own, and fully accepted her.
From the initial precautionary vigilance to the later praise, Yadan has won the trust and love of her mother-in-law with her practical actions. My mother-in-law has boasted to others many times: "My new daughter-in-law is really a good girl who is filial and sensible." ”
As for the father-in-law, Yadan's filial piety is even more breathtaking. Whenever the festival comes, she always cooks all kinds of delicious dishes and cooks them herself to nourish her father-in-law's body. Sometimes, she would carefully massage her father-in-law's shoulders and knead his legs to help him relieve his fatigue.
The father-in-law is often full of emotion and praises Yadan as a real virtuous helper.
Therefore, it can be said that full stop and Yadan can spend today hand in hand, and Yadan, an excellent wife and filial daughter-in-law, undoubtedly plays a vital role. With her practical actions, she has won the understanding and respect of the whole family, and injected a steady stream of warmth into this new family.