The current circle of education:
If students do not enter the oil and salt, they will be suspended from school at least and jump off the building at worst;
Parents are arrogant and domineering, threatening at least and cyberbullying at worst;
The teacher has no choice but to be punished lightly or resigned;
Education should be satisfactory to everyone, only the wronged teacher you!
Now some of the parents' thoughts:
Teachers should teach their children wholeheartedly,
I don't want teachers to criticize and discipline my children.
It is necessary for the teacher to have noble sentiments,
and don't want teachers to have higher salaries,
I want teachers to be conscientious and conscientious, but I don't want teachers to enjoy winter and summer vacations.
Not only do the teacher have the heart of a bodhisattva to benefit all sentient beings, but also do not want to be in awe of the teacher, be grateful!
The obligations of the school are infinitely elevated, the rights of students are infinitely magnified, and the management methods of teachers are infinitely restricted.
Realistic living examples make teachers shackle their hands and feet, teachers are here to work, not to do charity, by this complaint that complaint apologizes today and pays tomorrow, so don't be harsh on teachers, analyze from other aspects to find a solution to the problem.
Chatting with a friend who is a teacher in a county junior high school, she revealed to me that several girls in her school had smoked in the toilet many times, and that some students had confiscated their cigarettes on the spot after they reported to the teacher. One of the tall girls was crying and making trouble, and even made a move against the head teacher, kicking the head teacher several times in a row, the head teacher was a woman, endured the pain, and did not dare to fight back.
The head teacher immediately took out her mobile phone and called her parents, but after hearing this, the parents said let her smoke, the cigarette is mine, and it is the same at home. After listening to this, the head teacher could only hang up silently, and she said that she didn't want to care about them in the future!
Although the salaries of teachers have been greatly improved, we have to admit that the mental pressure on teachers is unprecedented: the arrogance of some students and parents, and the excessive requirements of society for teachers, have caused teachers to survive in trembling and frightened.
Let's take a look at the reasons behind the problems of schooling, the infinite magnification of students' rights, and the constraints on teachers' management methods.
In this seemingly democratic era, everyone can express their opinion on schooling, but often ignore the merits. Students are held in the palm of their hands, and the slightest dissatisfaction can cause an uproar, and parents treat their children as their own meat and complain to teachers if they are not careful.
This made the teachers shackle their hands and feet, and they worked cautiously, for fear of making a mistake. Teachers are here to work, not to do charity, and they also need respect and understanding. We can't just focus on the satisfaction of students and parents and ignore the feelings of teachers. While teachers' salaries have been raised, they are also under unprecedented mental stress. The arrogance of some students and their parents, and the excessive requirements of society for teachers, make teachers survive in the cracks.
I hope we can all understand the dedication of the teachers and give them more respect and support. Let us work together to improve the educational environment and improve the quality of education, so that every student can grow up healthy and happy.
How should we deal with the gradual loss of the right to education in schools, problem students and bullying in schools?
In today's schools, where corporal punishment and disguised corporal punishment are prohibited, teachers are helpless to deal with students' violations. It can only be gently persuaded and educated, but does this really work?
In fact, such an approach to education often fails to be truly restrictive. Unless the student's behaviour is particularly egregious, the school will take measures to make the student go home and reflect.
However, after a week, students must return to school regardless of whether they truly recognize their mistakes, and teachers must continue to accept them. This way of dealing with it undoubtedly reduces the cost of students making mistakes in violation of the law, so that they are less and less concerned about the discipline of the school, and it is inevitable to make bigger mistakes.
We need to re-examine the existing approach to education and find more effective solutions. Let us call together that for the sake of the future of our students and the harmony of society, we need to re-examine and improve our education methods.
In the nine-year compulsory education, the responsible teacher will take care of it (and the wording must also be noted), and those who are too lazy to take care of it are basically resigned to it, and love to learn but not to learn.
Now there is a phenomenon: some students pretend to have mental health problems, are too lazy to study and refuse to play games at home, and if they are asked to enroll, he (she) threatens their parents to jump off the building.
Education is a special industry, children's IQ is high and low, children's family structure is different, and complex factors lead to the result that cannot be satisfactory to everyone.
The only way to run an education that satisfies everyone is to grieve you, the teacher! Who can say what is wrong with the current education? Is it the people who have changed or the society that has changed?