There are two children who have similar grades in elementary school, but when they get out of junior high school, one of them has plummeted, and the other still maintains proud grades.
The first child is a little smart, and he is limited to learning. For problems encountered in homework, parents directly throw their mobile phones to their children in order to save trouble, and let their children find answers by themselves. Usually, parents rarely urge their children to read, and when their children are clamoring to be accompanied, parents always shirk being too busy and have no time, and then throw their mobile phones to their children.
For another child, if he can't write homework, the parents do not directly tell the child the answer, but let the child think, if he really doesn't understand, the parents will also check the answer by themselves, and then ask questions to inspire the child. In terms of companionship, parents also try to find time to take their children to visit libraries, science and technology museums, and museums...... Enrich your child's life as much as you can.
Such a completely different way of discipline naturally created a different life for the two children.
Professor Li Meijin once said: Children's problems are often caused by adults. Every psychological or behavioral problem in a child is related to the behavior of the parents and the way the parents are raised.
The biggest danger of education is that it is afraid of trouble and tries to save trouble.
You're lazy, but you're hurting your children. Don't expect children to be born with self-control, your indulgence will end up with an indulgent child. #记录我的2024# #凌晨爸妈成长记# (The picture comes from the Internet, invaded and deleted)
