I found that if Xiaobao wants to eat something, or wants something,
Her grandmother may buy it in the end, but she can nag the dead:
--- know how to eat, but I don't know how expensive that thing is?
---It's not easy for adults to make money, why don't you know how frugal you are?"
--- a girl's family, why are you so greedy?
……
This is a real-life example of the "gaslighting effect".
Many times, a person gives, but is not grateful, just because of these nagging of theirs.
Completely ruined other people's good moods.
I remembered seeing a common family drama on the Internet, which looks like this:
The little girl came home from school and asked her mother, "What do you eat at night?"
Her mother didn't simply answer what to eat at night. She'll keep talking:
--You haven't eaten at noon, why are you hungry so quickly?
--Eat, eat, eat, you know how to eat!
--Ask what to eat and kick you to death!
--Are you blind? Can't see how to eat steamed buns?
In the end, it ended with the little girl yelling.
This kind of thing has been experienced by many people, even from childhood to adulthood.
The more intimate people you are, the more they can drive you "crazy" without a trace.
In the end, they think you're unreasonable.
Day after day, year after year, for a long time, you won't be able to speak well.
Either be silent, or be furious.
So, in the eyes of outsiders, you become an emotionally unstable madman.
And the culprit has become a victim.
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