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Have you noticed that the daughter-in-law in the countryside is basically like this: she is responsible for taking care of the baby at home full-time, and her husband and in-laws go out to work to earn money for the children to study
Some people say, if she doesn't stay at home, who will stay at home? Now children are assigned homework on their mobile phones, and grandparents can't do it, so how can they take it? Dad is definitely the main force in making money at home and can't stay at home, so the best choice is for the daughter-in-law to stay at home
In fact, this is whether you are willing to learn or not, people of our generation, parents-in-law are in their 50s, as long as they are willing to learn, they can still learn
Full-time mothers are also a bunch of rebuttals: do you think full-time mothers are good to be? send children to school in the morning, laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, no one morning, a little time in the afternoon, wait for the children to help homework after school, sometimes until 12 o'clock to sleep, and get up early in the morning, really more tired than going to work, the key is that the baby brought by the mother is better than the baby brought by the grandparents, so I choose full-time.
If the in-laws and husband are capable, why should they let the mother stay behind? This point of view has sparked heated discussions among netizens
This is a social phenomenon, and the root cause is the high pressure of life and the large economic disparity. And choosing a daughter-in-law to stay at home with a baby is actually a life model suitable for their family, life is to live by themselves, not to show others, others feel that happiness may not last long, others feel inappropriate will not necessarily part ways, so outsiders have no right to interfere
Editor's view: The phenomenon of rural daughters-in-law staying behind, while husbands and in-laws go out to work, is more common in rural China, mainly for the following reasons:
1. Economic development in rural areas is relatively lagging behind, with limited opportunities and resources. In order to improve the family's financial situation, family members may choose to work outside the home in search of better income and employment opportunities. In this context, the phenomenon of left-behind daughters-in-law and migrant workers is more common.
2. Family needs and division of labor are different, but responsibilities and pressures are the same: left-behind daughters-in-law usually need to take care of the elderly and children at home, and at the same time, husbands and in-laws go out to work, which is the economic support of the family
3. Left-behind daughters-in-law face psychological challenges such as loneliness, anxiety and adaptation to the work environment. Husbands and in-laws working outside the home not only reduce the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also increase family income, so that the left-behind daughter-in-law can be more positive and healthy
4. There is also the issue of left-behind children, who may face a lack of educational resources, mental health problems, and a lack of parent-child relationships. When children need their parents to accompany them the most, it is also the best choice to choose to leave their mothers behind
If you were in the countryside, would you choose to stay?
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