In August of the first year of the Eastern Han Dynasty (144), the 30-year-old Emperor Liu Bao of Han shun died, leaving only his only son, Liu Bing, the still infant crown prince.
With the support of Empress Dowager Liang and her ministers, Liu Bing ascended the throne smoothly, and was known as Emperor Chong of Han, honoring Liang Fei as empress dowager, and listening to the government of the dynasty.
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During the reign of Emperor Shun of Han, because his throne was acquired with the support of eunuchs, the power was controlled by eunuchs; after Emperor Han Chong ascended the throne, power fell into the hands of Empress Liang, and Empress Liang's brother Liang Ji controlled the government, and the Liang family began to gain the upper hand.
Emperor Han Chong's biological mother was Yu Meiren, but she and the Yu family did not benefit much, because Liang Ji was reluctant to let others encroach on power, and Yu Meiren was treated coldly in the palace.
Emperor Han Chong left his birth mother Yu Meiren at a young age and came to Empress Liang's side, but the two were not biological mother and son, and it was not always so natural to take care of them.
Soon, Emperor Chong of Han fell ill, and Liang Ji, fearing that something unexpected might happen, summoned Liu Ji, the grandson of Emperor Liu Of Han and son of Liu Hong the Prince of Bohai, to Luoyang, and once Liu Bing died prematurely, Liu Ji was the heir to the throne, so that he could continue to maintain the power of the Liang family.
In the first month of the first year of the Eastern Han Dynasty (145), the 3-year-old Emperor Chong of Han died of illness, and the eunuch Li Gu and others advocated the appointment of Liu Qi, the grandson of Emperor Liu Zhao of Han, as emperor, believing that this person was old and virtuous, but Liang Ji strongly advocated that Liu Wei, who was only 8 years old, was established for self-evident reasons, that is, to continue to control the government.
Sure enough, despite the fierce opposition, Liang Ji, with the support of Empress Dowager Liang, supported Liu Ji to take the throne as Emperor of Han, and Empress Liang once again came to the court as empress dowager to listen to the government.
Objectively speaking, due to the high mortality rate of children in ancient times, we do not deny that the Han Chong Emperor may have died naturally, but if he can be by the side of his birth mother Yu Meiren, I believe there will be more happiness.
I was recently reading "The Mystery of Childhood, a Psychological Guide to Understanding the Inner World of Children" by Dr. Ronnie Solan of Israel, which is a psychological guide to understanding the inner world of children.
Every child in the early childhood, that is, from a few months of birth to 3 years old, needs a safe mother-baby relationship, although it does not need to be accompanied by all-weather companionship, but careful observation of the child's every move, and then provide corresponding care, is the most critical.
If it was Yu Meiren taking care of Emperor Han Chong, she might not be able to be so scientific as she is now, but at least she would have more love for her son, Empress Liang took care of herself and the status of the Liang family, whether it was Emperor Han Chong or Emperor Han, just a doll in front of the stage.
Of course, we can not be harsh on the ancients, the real meaning of the Childhood Mystery psychological guide to understanding children's inner world, or the guidance of modern people's parenting, such as the child's oral and period, how to grasp these stages, how to feed the child, learn to walk independently, read, etc., accurately grasp the cycle and law, in order to let the child really get healthy growth.
The more children are more likely to be naughty and disobedient, but in fact this is a kind of narcissism, the same as all adult narcissism, and even more than that, but this situation many adults did not understand at all before, just blindly reprimanded children, which obviously can only be counterproductive, at most, the child temporarily obeys against his will.
If you want to create a good growth environment for children, one of the problems that must be solved is to solve the mystery of childhood, through this book, or benefit a lot, there is more growth in learning.