Lei Jiayin played the nuclear physicist Mr. Yu Min in the main theme drama "Meritorious Service", and devoted his life to the cause of scientific research.
In the play, the feelings of Yu Min and his wife Sun Yuqin are deeply moving, and outside the play, Lei Jiayin and Zhai Xufei are also model couples, and their careers and marriages are both complete.
01
Lei Jiayin was born in 1983 in Anshan, Liaoning Province, to parents who were ordinary workers in state-owned enterprises.
Lei Jiayin's family lives in a house of only 14 square meters, with only one bed and one TV set.
When he was in the fourth grade, his mother was laid off and went to work as a cleaner at a unit near the school. Every time he saw his mother cleaning the window, he looked down and ran away.
Once a classmate asked him, "What do your parents do?" How big is the area of the home? ”
Lei Jiayin was inferior and deliberately said loudly: "At work, my family has two houses." ”
After Lei Jiayin went to junior high school, she grew to 1.78 meters tall, handsome and talkative, and laughed at everyone with one mouth.
In the second year of junior high school, a girl in the class changed his fate.
The girl is from Ningbo, Zhejiang, looks beautiful and fresh, and in the words of Lei Jiayin, has a different temperament from the "old ladies" in northeast China.
Lei Jiayin, who was in his adolescence, suddenly made a surprising move, he threw himself on his knees and shouted: "She is mine, no one should rob me!" The students laughed.
Lei Jiayin's vigorous youth began.
Every day in class, he would sneak a few glances at the girl sitting in the corner, which he called the "Cape of Good Hope."
Lei Jiayin and a male classmate send the girl home every day. One day, just after sending her home, it was raining heavily, and the girl took out an umbrella from home and handed it to Lei Jiayin, not to the buddy.
As a result, Lei Jiayin understood that this girl also liked herself.
A few days later, the girl confessed to him that she liked what it was like to be with him and wanted to be his girlfriend.
Lei Jiayin was suddenly overjoyed, they went to and from school together every day, talked and laughed, never separated their hands except for going to the toilet, and even kissed in the hallway in front of teachers and classmates.
Lei Jiayin enjoyed this sweet time, and her academic performance plummeted.
One morning, when the class teacher checked the hygiene of the class, he was surprised to find Lei Jiayin and his little girlfriend hugging each other.
After the teacher criticized them for education, he told the parents. Dad was so angry that he beat Lei Jiayin violently, but he could not stop him from falling in love early and turning into an underground relationship with his little girlfriend.
In the second half of the second half of the junior high school, the school organized more than 2,000 people to go on an outing, and Lei Jiayin got up early to climb the mountain in order to accompany his little girlfriend to watch the sunrise, and as a result, he forgot the time of the school assembly.
More than 2,000 people waited there, watching them dangle down the mountain hand in hand, only to have that "sunrise" turn into their "sunset."
The impact of this matter was too bad, and the school leaders informed the parents of both sides separately. The girl's parents went through the transfer procedures, and since then, Lei Jiayin has never seen the girl again.
Lei Jiayin dropped out of school, he was only 14 years old, and his parents were so angry that their lungs were going to explode.
Lei Jiayin, who has no pressure to go to school, has become a little wandering in society, and he and a group of buddies who often skip class hold DV to see which class has good-looking girls to shoot them, and also interview them in a similar way.
Later, he simply went to the market to buy lamb, put up a pot on the school playground, and shabu lamb.
Maybe the little girl likes the prodigal son, and there are often girls shouting at him who is shabu lamb: "Lei Jiayin, I love you!" Then he turned his head and ran.
The teenager did not know how to worry, Lei Jiayin never thought about what to do in the future, and half a year had passed.
Mom was afraid that he would be ruined if he went on like this, and asked him what he really wanted to do?
Lei Jiayin said that she wanted to open a Lanzhou ramen restaurant in front of the school, and its name was "Jiayin Ramen".
Where does my son know how to open a restaurant? Mom came up with the idea and said, a lot of people say that you are good-looking, tall, you should not be a model, let's open a clothing store.
Lei Jiayin learned that Shenyang Art School had come to recruit models and went to the interview accompanied by her father.
In the long line, a middle-aged man noticed him and said to him, "Don't take the model test, learn acting with me." ”
Lei Jiayin was suddenly stunned, went to the acting classroom for an interview, although he did not understand what acting was, but he made the examiner laugh and passed the exam smoothly.
Later, Lei Jiayin learned that the middle-aged man was the male protagonist of "Garland Under the Mountain", the famous Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Film Emperor Lu Xiaohe.
Lu Xiaohe's eyesight is clear, and at a glance, Lei Jiayin is a good material for being an actor. He said to Lei Jiayin, "You looked bold at the time, and you still had a look of no face." ”
Lei Jiayin changed from a small in society to a student of Shenyang Art School, he felt that he was the one who was selected by the emperor of the film, worked hard, changed from a scum to a bully, and every year the exam was the first in the school.
His mentor Lu Xiaohe admired him very much and encouraged him to enter a higher school.
In 2002, Lei Jiayin was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with the second place in the country.
Lei Jiayin's parents shed tears of excitement, unable to believe that the son who had broken their heart in the past was out of the way.
02
Lei Jiayin and Zhai Xufei became classmates in the same class, and the two originally had a general relationship, speaking no more than 5 sentences a semester.
In the second semester of sophomore year, the two were arranged by the class teacher to play a skit, today Lei Jiayin played her husband, tomorrow Zhai Xufei played his mother, and the two cooperated tacitly.
Lei Jiayin and Zhai Xufei rehearsed for two months, eating at the same table in the canteen every day.
In order to maintain his figure, Zhai Xufei picked out the meat and gave it to Lei Jiayin, and Lei Jiayin allocated the green leafy vegetables to Zhai Xufei, joking in his mouth: "You are responsible for slim and beautiful, and I am responsible for Kong Wuli." ”
Zhai Xufei glanced at him, "Poor mouth! ”
The classmates coaxed: "You two are quite husband and wife, just fall in love." ”
Zhai Xufei's face flew a little red, and Lei Jiayin probed her: "Just now they made a joke about us, you won't be angry, right?" ”
After two months of contact, Zhai Xufei had a good feeling for Lei Jiayin, and she said shyly: "Why do you want to be angry?" Don't you think you're pretty good? ”
Lei Jiayin bravely took her hand, and in this way, the two clarified their relationship.
Zhai Xufei is a native of Fuyang City, Anhui Province, two years younger than Lei Jiayin and from a relatively privileged family.
Lei Jiayin's mother has been laid off for many years, and the family is financially strapped. He was frugal and still didn't have enough money to spend.
Zhai Xufei gave him his meal card, and in order to take care of his self-esteem, he also made up various reasons. "You do me a favor, I have to lose weight when I eat too much, it's too torturous!"
Lei Jiayin was very warm in her heart, and secretly vowed to be good to her for the rest of her life.
In July 2006, the two graduated from college. Lei Jiayin was admitted to the Shanghai Dramatic Arts Center, and Zhai Xufei entered the Nanjing Military Region's frontline cultural and labor troupe.
One in Shanghai and the other in Nanjing, the two began a long-distance relationship.
Lei Jiayin lives in the collective dormitory of the unit, and goes to the canteen to eat every day, and is still a poor boy.
He couldn't afford a train ticket to Nanjing, so Zhai Xufei rushed to Shanghai to reunite with him and buy him suits, shoes and food.
Lei Jiayin laughed at himself and said that Zhai Xufei was helping the poor, and Zhai Xufei said that he was definitely a potential stock, and the future market would definitely go higher.
Fast forward to May 2010, Zhai Xufei hinted at Lei Jiayin, talked about love for 6 years, there should be a result, right?
Lei Jiayin sighed: "I can't afford to buy a house, I can't afford a wedding, where are the conditions for marriage?" ”
Zhai Xufei said that he didn't care if he had a house or a car, he just wanted to marry love. "I'm afraid that if we are in love for too long, we will both lose the passion to get married."
Lei Jiayin was moved, such a good girl is rare.
He took his girlfriend back to Anshan to see his parents, and Lei Jiayin's mother took Zhai Xufei's hand and said, "Girl, you will be our daughter from now on." Our family conditions are not good, wronged you. ”
Zhai Xufei also affectionately called "Mommy and Daddy".
Zhai Xufei took Lei Jiayin back to Fuyang, Anhui Province, to see his parents, the Parents of the Zhai family are enlightened intellectuals, Zhai Father also struggled his own, he especially understood Lei Jiayin: To start a family, you have to rely on yourself, I support you to start a family first and then establish a business. ”
03
In October 2010, Lei Jiayin and Zhai Xufei married naked in Shanghai, living in a rented 10-square-meter wedding room.
At the end of the year, he took his wife to attend a luxurious wedding of a showbiz celebrity in a Shanghai star hotel, with more than 60 wedding cars alone.
Lei Jiayin thought of marrying naked and felt very sorry for his wife. Zhai Xufei comforted him: "I think it's very good now, the days are not for others to see, I don't compare with others, you don't have pressure." ”
Lei Jiayin vowed to get ahead and would never let his wife live in a rental house for the rest of her life.
In order to have a real home in Shanghai as soon as possible, Lei Jiayin performed dramas in the unit while looking for opportunities to shoot film and television dramas.
Once he went to meet the director, Zhai Xufei asked him to bring 1,000 yuan for emergency, but Lei Jiayin only brought 500 yuan.
Because Lei Jiayin graduated from elementary school, his mother was laid off, and he often went to the square with his mother in the evening to sell slippers. He didn't have the habit of spending lavishly since he was a child, and the best food he ever had as a child was ramen.
In 2011, the famous director Ning Hao looked for male number one for the film "The Great Gold Robbery", and Lei Jiayin's colleague Xu Zheng recommended him to Ning Hao.
After Lei Jiayin tried two scenes, Ning Hao clapped on the spot: "Xiao Dongbei is you!" ”
This is Lei Jiayin's first time as the number one movie man, and he hurriedly called to tell his wife the good news.
Zhai Xufei also told him good news: "I am pregnant! ”
Double happiness at the door! In order to commemorate this day, Lei Jiayin decided that after the baby was born, both men and women would be called "Lei Xiaobei".
"The Great Gold Robbery" was filmed on the outskirts of Shanghai, just over an hour's drive from home. Lei Jiayin, because it was not easy to get the role of male number one, in order not to be distracted, did not return home for more than two months.
Although Zhai Xufei felt uncomfortable in his heart, he also expressed understanding.
After the film was completed, director Ning Hao patted Lei Jiayin's shoulder and praised: "You have a good play, high emotional intelligence, and unlimited future!" ”
When Lei Jiayin returned home, Zhai Xufei was already in the belly, thinking of her taking care of the housework alone, Lei Jiayin was both guilty and moved, hugging his wife and saying: "I am so happy to be able to marry such a good wife as you!" ”
For future children, Lei Jiayin wrote on Weibo: If I have a daughter, I will paint her with black nail polish, teach her to say dirty words, in order to confront the rogue uncles, I want to have a daughter who does not look like me.
In February 2012, Zhai Xufei used a three-day induction injection to give birth to his daughter Lei Xiaobei.
Lei Jiayin saw her daughter for the first time and said, "It's over, the child is like me!" ”
The birth of her daughter brought joy to Lei Jiayin's career.
In April, "The Great Gold Robbery" was released, and Lei Jiayin portrayed "Little Northeast" into a divine sense, which was deeply loved by the audience. At the Changchun International Film Festival, Lei Jiayin won the Best Actor Award.
He was suddenly confused, went on stage to receive the award, and said: "I was flattered to get this award, some people on the Internet said that "The Great Gold Robbery" was played by an eight-line actor, which made me think that the eight-line actor also has a spring..." The applause from the stage was thunderous.
"The Great Gold Robbery" made Lei Jiayin famous and profitable, and he looked at the ticket and excitedly said to his wife: "Great, I have never seen so much money!" ”
In August of that year, Mr. and Mrs. Lei Jiayin finally mortgaged a two-bedroom apartment in Shanghai, ending their rental career.
04
Lei Jiayin's career is booming, and in order to accompany her daughter's growth, Zhai Xufei takes the initiative to return home as a housewife and provide a stable rear for her husband.
In the following years, Lei Jiayin starred in film and television dramas such as "Baby", "Weaning", "Heart Flower Road Release", etc., and quickly paid off the mortgage, the popularity was super strong, and the star path was very good.
Lei Jiayin, who has a low-key nature, and his wife agreed not to disclose their marital status so as not to disturb their lives. He does not bring his wife and daughter to public events, and there is no figure of his wife and daughter on Weibo, and the outside world thinks that he is single.
In 2016, Lei Jiayin and Tong Liya starred in "Living Together in Time" in Shanghai, and the reporter interviewed him: "The reason why you are not married now is that you are waiting for the appearance of a goddess like Tong Liya? ”
In order to cooperate with the publicity, Lei Jiayin replied with a smile: "Men have an imperial heart, and no one is willing to give up the pursuit of beauty." ”
The reporter found the selling point of the news hype, saying that Lei Jiayin liked Tong Liya.
Zhai Xufei was greatly dissatisfied and uploaded a photo of Lei Jiayin and her daughter on Weibo, and Lei Jiayin asked his wife to delete the photo.
Zhai Xufei is very sad, he can't go out with him, his daughter can't enjoy his father's love in a bright and upright way, when is such a life coming to an end? How long will Lei Jiayin be secretly married?
Lei Jiayin realized that his unconscious hidden marriage had brought harm to his wife and daughter, and he publicized the marriage on Weibo and posted a photo of a family of three picking up shells at the beach.
Fans did not take off the powder because he was married, and sent sincere wishes, praising him as the most handsome husband and father.
Zhai Xufei finally settled his mind and felt secure.
This summer, the TV series "The First Half of My Life" was popular, and Lei Jiayin actually circled a wave of fans with the role of a scumbag, and was jokingly called "ex-husband brother" by the audience, and his career went to a higher level.
He said with emotion that many celebrities choose to marry in secret, which may be beneficial to their careers for the time being, but it is harmful to the other half. As long as a person is talented and dedicated, disclosing their marital status will not affect the development of their careers.
Zhai Xufei sacrificed his career for Lei Jiayin and became a housewife. In order to give his wife a greater sense of security, Lei Jiayin named his wife a "family CEO" and handed over the film remuneration to her management.
The happy and harmonious marriage nourished Lei Jiayin's career, and since then he has starred in blockbusters such as "The Wandering Earth", "Crazy Alien", "The Twelve Hours of Chang'an", "My Motherland and Me", "Whistleblower", "Assassination of a Novelist" and other blockbusters, entering the ranks of domestic first-line male stars.
Lei Jiayin is full of gratitude to his wife, who is his confidant and never puts any pressure on him.
The reporter asked Lei Jiayin what was the most romantic thing she had ever done to her wife?
Lei Jiayin said: "I can be with her for more than ten years is the most romantic thing." ”
Lei Jiayin said that the most important thing about married life is "fun", because two people have been together for many years, relying on not impulsiveness or passion, and an interesting soul is the preservative of trivial marriages.
This life is very long, and the rest of your life is to find an interesting person to spend a boring life, otherwise it is a waste of life.
A funny person not only understands you, but also makes you love life even more.
Before the age of 30, Lei Jiayin wanted to become Marlon Brando, and he was deeply impressed by a sentence that Marlon Brando said: "Standing on the stage, let the female audience sigh, how good this man should be if my husband!" ”
Lei Jiayin, who is now nearly confused, only wants to be herself and live every day in the best time of her life.
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