How do you think about teachers hurting students? What kind of protection will children be protected?
It's hard to believe, it's hard to imagine that in 2023, in the school that children were sent into by their parents and made them unconditionally believe, such a shocking, cruel and bloody thing can happen!
Yesterday, Chang's father's various groups and friend circles were all brushed up, and the unfortunate experience of Xiao Liu, who was only 9 years old in a primary school in Yuelu District, Changsha, attracted too much attention. On September 6, four days before Teachers' Day, her head was beaten by the school's teacher Song Mouming with a triangular ruler that was said to be tempered glass, until her head was broken and her brain plasma overflowed!
After the examination, the doctor said that the child's wound was 4 to 5 centimeters deep and the scalp wound was about 4 centimeters long.
The craniotomy lasted five hours, and finally the doctor cleaned up the triangular ulnar fragments and skull fragments stuck in the skull.
The child was admitted to the ICU after the operation, and has been in a deep coma and has not woken up.
As a father, I really can't see this, she is only a 9-year-old child, her life has not yet begun, she stepped into school full of hope for the future, what did she do wrong, why should she suffer this disaster?!
While Chang Dad and countless parents were grieving and indignant, the teacher who was the murderer and the school as the responsible party disappeared, leaving only the sentence "things are not as passed down by parents" and disappeared.
Until now, Chang's father has not seen the school's announcement, but only saw the situation report of the local education bureau at 3:30 p.m. on September 7, indicating that the teacher was suspended from work, and there was a follow-up notice from the public security department.
Yesterday, because there were very few places for the programming fast class for the small Chang group, Chang Dad was broadcast early after it was sold out. Unexpectedly, as soon as it was broadcast, I saw someone in the group forward such sad and indignant news.
This is the message sent by the child's mother in the school group:
Later, different voices came out on the Internet, saying that this incident may have been an accident, that the teacher was too angry and smashed it on the podium table with a triangular ruler, and the debris splashed and caused injury. Let's not say whether this is true or false (human skulls are so hard, can flying debris really pass through?). Why are the fragments concentrated in only one part of the head to cause injury, and there are no scratches on the face and body? Let the police verify these questions), the following questions, trouble the school to answer!
Q1: Why were parents not notified in a timely manner?
The child's aunt said in an interview that the teacher injured the child at 4 p.m. that day, but it was not until 6 o'clock that the child's parents received a call from the head teacher.
What happened in these two hours?
The girl's classmate said to her mother: "Mom, it's so terrible, a table of blood, a lot of blood, blood all over the ground." ”
If the bystander children are scared out of psychological trauma, how frightened should the girl concerned? How painful is it? How scared? How helpless?!
Under normal circumstances, if such vicious bleeding occurs, the teacher should immediately notify the parents!
Strangely, the teacher only took the child to the infirmary, thinking that it would be enough to deal with it simply. But the brain plasma is flowing out, can the doctors in the infirmary handle it?
The teacher sent the child to a small hospital near the school, do you think the teacher's conscience has awakened? No!
Second question: Why is there a hurry to suture the wound?
When the teacher sends the child to the hospital, there is only one request, that is:
Hurry up and suture the wound!
Please, that's a skull injury, at least do a check, right? That is a bloody and blurry wound that even we are scared to the soft leg just by seeing the photo, and everything is fine when it is directly stitched up?
The only good thing was that the doctor insisted that the parents sign to suture the wound, and in desperation, the teacher called the parents.
Speaking of this, Chang's father was quite sad, and the mother hurried to the hospital while repeatedly begging the doctor and teacher not to stitch up and do the examination first.
Because they were not worried, the parents transferred the child to a large hospital in the city, and after the examination, the doctor said that he would immediately do a craniotomy.
And what makes people infuriate is that the school leader actually ran to the door of the operating room to grab evidence?!
(Relatives of children holding banners at the school gate)
If the parents didn't slander them, if this is true, these bastards! It's a nest of snakes and rats! Lost in conscience!
Third question: Why teach children to lie?
According to chat transcripts and interviews leaked online, after the incident, the teachers and schools involved were trying to evade responsibility:
The child is injured, does not notify the parents, and wants to turn the big thing into a small thing;
The child refused to admit the serious injury, thinking that if the wound was sutured, Amitabha Buddha would have nothing to do;
The school treated the child negatively during the whole process of the accident, forcing parents to use public opinion to defend their rights.
Think that's abominable enough? No, according to the chat records of friends of the parents of the girl's classmates, the class teacher also intimidated the child and did not tell his parents.
This is what a human master, this is inferior to a beast!
After the girl's mother sent the incident to the class group, the parents united to find ways to protect the rights and interests of the child and pray for the health and safety of the child.
When I told my colleagues about this, they were also blown up, some said that this teacher was a crazy person, and some said that if this happened to their own children, they could directly blow up!
There are also countless netizens on the Internet who are supporting parents and injured children.
Seeing everyone so hateful, I felt great relief, it turned out that I was not alone in speaking, it turned out that the girl and her parents were not alone.
I think of the first-grade boy who was hit and killed by a teacher's car on campus in May this year, and his mother, who committed suicide in despair because of the sudden death of his child and online violence: the same safety accidents that occurred on campus, the same children injured by teachers, the same schools are trying in every possible way to evade responsibility, and all the consequences are also borne by innocent children and parents!
Many of Changdad's fans are teachers, and I often receive messages from them telling their stories and their students' growth and their students' growth. I believe that most schools and teachers adhere to the original intention of good education, and they are also educating and protecting children with heart. Only when parents and teachers trust each other can they cooperate in educating their children. Therefore, we have always advocated respecting teachers, treating teachers kindly, trusting teachers, and more often asking not to report teachers at every turn, because it may chill teachers who really love education and care about children's future growth.
Trustworthiness is precisely the most difficult to establish and most vulnerable in the world, seeing many netizens say "current teachers, corporal punishment at every turn" and "schools should not recruit so many bloody young male teachers", it is not an exaggeration to say that a rat in the teaching team will destroy the trust of many innocent teachers who have worked hard for many years! Most of the teachers in reality are very good and responsible, so how innocent are they implicated?
The teacher who pierced the child's head with a triangular ruler is one, and the teacher who drove around the school and ran over twice is also one. These rat poop finish the children and parents, and the school is still shirking responsibility and covering up the facts, seemingly protecting its own interests, but in fact selling out the interests of students and parents. Such a person has lost his basic conscience, and such a person should not be in the teaching team!
And this incident also made me remind everyone to talk to the baby about these three things when they go home:
First, how to view the fact that teachers hurt students?
I will tell the child that no matter what mistake the student makes, the teacher has no reason to harm the student's body, which is a violation of the student's right to life and health. If you are hurt by a teacher, be sure to tell me.
Second, how do you think about the teacher's request for classmates to keep it secret?
It is right to respect the teacher, it is also right not to make small reports and report indiscriminately, and as the child grows older, it is also right that children can have their own secrets, but if it is a problem involving health, dignity, safety and other red lines, be sure to tell me!
Third, how to control your emotions?
Controlling emotions is a skill that everyone has to learn. Not only teachers, but also parents and students should know the techniques to control emotions, such as pausing for a while, breathing deeply, etc.
The girl's mother said: "Children are our everything, our life!" ”
Why is every child not the softest concern in the heart of every parent, and the treasure that must be protected with all his strength?
So for us to speak up for this girl, for her mother, it is to speak up for ourselves and for our children.
As netizens said, "If I stand by coldly today, and he is in trouble, no one will cheer for me!" ”
Yesterday afternoon, the good news finally came, the child has woken up and can follow the doctor's instructions. This is not fake news, it is a clear 20-second video.
It is good that the child is out of danger, but this should not be the end of the matter.
What will that teacher do? What would that school head do with it? How will the child who is hurt be protected? What kind of counseling do children need to witness the incident?
Please give this child an explanation, please give an explanation to the child's parents, please give an explanation to every parent and child in the country!
We're all waiting...