Recently, a meme in the circle of friends has become popular: "Resignation is the best medical beauty".
There is also a scientific basis that tiredness will cause people to become ugly.
But as an old mother, I hereby solemnly declare:
There is something more tiring in the world than going to work, and that is being a mother!
Especially when a mom with a child going to school!
As the old saying goes:
First-class citizen: the child is at university or above
Second-class citizens: children under kindergarten
Third-class citizens: children under university or above kindergarten
If guess right, you are sad third-class citizens like me...
First-class citizens are extremely dashing, the divine beast has made a move, money and time are in hand, the old sisters roar, and the great rivers and mountains are walking everywhere.
In the burst of second-class citizen maternal love, the angel has just arrived home, fragrant and soft, everyone praises, the maternal aura is stimulated, and the baby is always cute.
There are only third-class citizens, the bursting period of maternal love has passed, the anxiety period for admission has just arrived, and every day they have to pretend to be a good actor externally and a good mother internally, and their personalities are constantly torn.
All this miserable thing starts with the child's schooling...
Every humble third-class citizen has a group of parents who must be at the top.
In this group, whether you are a workplace bone essence or a full-time mother, you don't deserve to have a name, only codename: xx mother.
As soon as she entered this group, the old mother began to act wildly.
The message sent by the teacher is received as soon as possible.
What the teacher wants, he has to buy overnight.
The homework left by the teacher must be done at home.
The execution power that has been pursued hard for so many years suddenly reached its peak after entering this group, and everything has a response, every piece is implemented, and the pile has repercussions, and I dare not be vague at all.
"Do not disturb the message" is impossible, third-class citizens can't wait to stare at this group every day, for fear of missing a little information about the child, and even play photos and videos sent by teachers on a loop, each frame can be pondered for half a night.
You think they love this group?
Wrong.
They look dignified on the surface, but in fact, they start to panic when they hear "oh oh", especially when they are @ by the teacher alone and asked to go to the office to "drink tea".
Pee again?
Or was it beaten by whom?
Or scratched whose face again?
Or did the homework not be done well??
Yes! ...
The child is a third-class citizen in kindergarten, and he begins to make up all kinds of plots in his brain and is terrified.
What's worse is that the third-class citizen whose child goes to elementary school, staring down at the teacher's big words "the other party is typing", and the atmosphere does not dare to breathe...
The parent group is really the deepest fear of people after middle age.
Third-class citizens in this group strive to cooperate to be good actors, with only one purpose: as long as they can be good to their children, or as long as they don't treat their children badly, they are good.
Real and humble.
However, the test for third-class citizens does not stop there.
A good actor with stable emotions is not good, and a good mother with stable emotions is even worse.
To tell the truth, the children of the generation of third-class citizens are too difficult to bring.
The study tasks are heavy, there are many homework, the child is under pressure, and the mother is more stressed!
The butt at work goes to the unit, and the butt after work goes to the stool, sit for two hours, and dare not relax for a moment.
Centered around homework in the middle of the week, around extracurricular classes on weekends, don't want to sleep before twelve, your body has already been crushed.
If you encounter a slag that can't be moved again, sooner or later your spirit will be crushed into slag.
Not yelling about this matter is the most difficult test that third-class citizens have encountered in their lives.
As long as you start tutoring homework, the mood is like riding a roller coaster, on the one hand, the scumbag who drinks water, urinates and picks his feet, and on the other hand, the time whistles by second.
Worried that the baby would be scolded if she couldn't finish her homework, and worried that the baby would sleep too late and couldn't get up, her mood wandered between the Great Compassion Mantra and the Heart-saving Pill every day... Wander...
Even more lonely, no one can understand this pain.
First-class citizens did not experience, their beautiful era, children did not have much homework, they played crazy after writing, they couldn't finish writing and beat the baby, and they did mother's !?
If you complain to them, they will look at you and ask, "Is this necessary?" ”
Second-class citizens do not understand, they are still in the stage of "baby making wisdom faint", and will even question you "A child is so cute, how can you yell at him?!" ”
呵呵，too young too simple！
The English teacher urged the clock in again, anxious!
The head teacher praised xxx's homework in his real name, envy!
xxx posted the baby's back "Long Hate Song" in the group, it's great!
Looking back at my baby, I wrote an hour of counting on a page, and I was picking pencils again...
Stability maintenance failed.
It's definitely not right to yell at the child.
But if you don't yell at the child, you may die.
As for Wata's father, 99% of it doesn't mean it, and even adds to the chaos, and even may cheat the corpse!
Occasionally take the baby to write homework, the operation is fierce, and when I look back, I have to make up for it all...
In the matter of educating children, the father is like a Buddha, only the mother is a martial monk, and he will not stop until the goal is achieved.
Therefore, whether a third-class citizen is a good mother has nothing to do with emotional stability and instability.
Strive to be a good actor externally, strive to be a good mother internally, and go 12 years for third-class citizens to counterattack first-class citizens.
6 years of elementary school, 3 years of junior high school, 3 years of high school.
The degree of hardship is comparable to the Tang monk Xitian seeking sutras, young and young, junior and junior... Although the third-class citizens are firm in will, Naihewa has been decided, and life and death are basically determined by fate.
Raising a baby is like grabbing a blind box.
To meet Niu Wa is to catch a Monkey King, self-driven, worry-free!
To meet a scumbag is to drop a pig bajie, do not return or change, and survive!
No matter what baby is caught, third-class citizens will not admit defeat.
In all families, mom is like a perpetual motion machine, always full of motivation, career children grasp, with the whole family rushing forward!
With so many hours and pressure, what job can compare?
Really, only not having children is the best medical beauty for a woman.
But then again,
The magic of oxytocin is that -
No matter how tired and bitter it is, the happiness that children bring to their mothers is still far greater than pain.
Which mother didn't sell her freedom in exchange for her children's growth day by day?
Which child did not grow up little by little under the careful upbringing of his mother?
Children do not grow up in a day, and mothers do not grow old in a day, and only mothers can experience the sadness and happiness in this.
So no matter what the outcome is, the journey of being a mother is something to be proud of.
To mom who is working hard every moment, to every pair of hands that push the world, kudos