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It is said that tiger poison does not eat children, but some parents are inferior to animals and animals!
On March 30, a news that a mother abused a 5-year-old child caused anger on the Internet, and many netizens did not understand: Why do mothers not love their children?
According to the father of the child Xiaoxuan (pseudonym), he received a call from Xiaoxuan's mother in early January this year, saying that Xiaoxuan was sick and her legs could not walk.
After he rushed home, he found that Xiaoxuan's feet were red and swollen, and his first toes had turned black.
After seeing Xiaoxuan's condition, he sent Xiaoxuan to the hospital for treatment.
But from Xiao Xuan's mouth, I learned that his injuries were all caused by his mother.
During the time of living with her mother, her mother often let Xiaoxuan stand in cold water, and also let hot water burn her head, and did not give her children food.
In the end, Xiaoxuan suffered "gangrene of both feet" due to her mother's abuse, and underwent bilateral calf amputation surgery on February 11.
At the same time, Xiaoxuan was also diagnosed with organ function impairment, severe malnutrition with wasting, traumatic subarachnoid hemorrhage, etc.
After the amputation operation, Xiaoxuan underwent intracranial hypertension treatment surgery, and Xiaoxuan's vision is very poor, and it may be difficult to recover her eyes!
It's really hard to imagine what Xiaoxuan has gone through~
How long do you have to stand in cold water to cause necrosis of both feet!
How long does abuse take to cause anemia, hypoproteinemia!
How many times has it taken to be beaten to cause fluid accumulation in the abdominal cavity, traumatic subarachnoid hemorrhage!
I really don't dare to imagine that there is such a ruthless mother in the world!
At present, Xiaoxuan's biological mother has been controlled by the police!
The biological mother abuses her own child, really destroys humanity, and must be severely punished!
Many netizens watched Xiaoxuan's experience, they were angry and distressed:
"This is my own mother, a piece of meat that fell from her pregnancy in October, how can I be willing to do this!"
"Dear mother, how to scare my hand, don't love children, don't give birth!"
"If it weren't for the brain problem, I can't think of how my biological mother was so cruel!"
"You can't love it, why be ruthless!"
Yes, it is really inferior to animals and animals to be born without raising them, and to be cruelly abused!
It is said that a child with a mother is a treasure, but for Xiaoxuan, where there is a mother, the devil is in the world!
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"There is no parent who does not love his child"
is the biggest lie!
In our understanding, every parent is the one who loves their children the most.
There are really many parents who can do everything for their children!
But in recent years, child abuse incidents have occurred frequently, and the means have become more and more cruel, which has really refreshed our cognition.
It also makes us understand that not all parents love their children.
Fushun, Liaoning, a 6-year-old girl Tong Tong was abused by her mother, and the cruelty of the means was really a demon in the world.
Scalding heads with boiling water, burning nozzles with lighters, pricking legs with steel needles, pulling teeth with pliers, swallowing cigarette butts, wringing arms, feeding cat food...
Each of these cases is an atrocity committed by the biological mother against her biological daughter.
During the months he lived with his vicious mother, Tong Tong was often beaten unconscious and woke up to continue beating.
Don't let your child eat and let your child kneel on the washboard to eat cat food.
Teeth are pulled out with pliers, they cannot be thrown when they are pulled out, they have to be swallowed into the stomach, and the lips are scorched by lighters.
Hands, shoulders, face burned with hot water, head hair follicles have been necrotic, can no longer grow hair!
Tong Tong's arm was broken alive by his mother's boyfriend!
The pregnant mother knocked down these words, with tears in her eyes, the same mother, her child is really held in the palm of her hand to love, usually bumped and touched are distressed.
But why can some parents be so ruthless?
It is heart-wrenching that there are many, many children in the world who have been abused by their parents.
A 1-year-old girl in Chengdu was seriously injured by her angry biological mother and admitted to the ICU, the child's whole body, all wounds, red, purple, some wounds and blood, no good skin, some beating, some bites.......
A 2-year-old girl in Hebei was beaten by her biological father who was in a bad mood, and her arms and back were full of scars....... The child's innocent eyes are heartbreaking.
A 4-year-old girl in Guizhou was abused by her biological father and stepmother, imprisoned in toilets, burned with cigarettes, and her eyes were so swollen that she could not open them...
An 8-year-old girl in Shenzhen, after being dragged to the ground by her biological mother by her biological mother while eating, kicked and slapped her fiercely, and wanted to fall to death........
Really, not everyone is qualified to be a parent, and too many animals do harmful things in the garb of parents.
For those abused children, home is no longer a warm haven, but a living purgatory!
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Those children who have been abused
A lifetime of nightmares!
When they were young, children grew up singing "Only a mother is good in the world" and listening to "there are no parents in the world who do not love their children".
But it wasn't until the child understood that the two closest people in the world, the two people that the children loved the most, may also be the cruelest demons in the world.
According to a survey conducted by UNICEF and Peking University:
74.8% of children have been abused in the process of growing up, and domestic abuse is an important factor threatening the healthy development of children.
In the first half of 2014 alone, 49% of the 104 child abuse cases exposed by domestic media were abused by biological parents, becoming the main force of child abuse, and the number of potential abused children in China has reached 10 million.
Behind this cold data are countless children's cries for help.
Too many ignorant and incompetent parents regard their children as private items, hit them whenever they want, and abuse them at will.
And those children who are abused have nightmares all their lives.
There is a question on Zhihu: Are there any girls or boys who grew up abused and beaten by their parents, how are you doing now?
Those tens of thousands of messages are tens of thousands of children who have been wounded and bruised.
"I never understood why only mom is good in the world, I never sang it."
Because my mother either hit or scolded, the face was swollen and nosebleed, let me kneel at the bathroom door and fan myself, giving away all my favorite dolls....
"Sometimes I really want to die, home is not home, parents are not parents."
"To this day, I still occasionally dream about my mom and wake up from a nightmare, and it's worth the news that I met the right person and had a lovely baby."
"Low self-esteem is insecure, but also often depression and anxiety, no friends, afraid of getting married and having children, especially hate yourself, anyway, live wherever it is, it's not a pity to die!"
Under this question, there are too many such children who struggle with painful experiences of the past throughout their lives.
Lucky people will be cured by childhood for a lifetime, and unfortunate people will spend a lifetime to heal childhood!
Being abused and beaten, the injuries at that time will heal, but the injuries in the heart are really like a stinger, which will penetrate deeply into the child's heart and hurt when touched!
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May every child
Can be treated with tenderness!
A police officer once asked a pair of parents who abused their children to death: "Why did you beat your daughter like this?" ”
The answer was: "I gave her life, what I think is my right, can you control it?" ”
As a result, because of the selfishness, arrogance, and cruelty of his parents, he caused human tragedies again and again.
But how innocent young children are.
We give birth to children to protect them from harm in the face of the unknown world, so that they can walk in this world, see the variety of the world, and enjoy the warmth of the world.
Instead of hurting and destroying them in the name of their parents... Let them live in the shadow of abuse for the rest of their lives.
Weibo once had a hot search topic: being abused by parents and domestic violence, will you forgive them?
After reading tens of thousands of comments, it made people cry.
Someone wants to return a tooth for a tooth, how to treat me, how to fight back when I am old:
"My dad slapped me a dozen times this year, and I'm ready to pay him back before he dies!"
And some people can't reconcile with this bad childhood experience for life:
"I was beaten since I was a child, I also thought about suicide but did not have the courage, I did not want to fall in love, get married, have children, did not want anyone to enter my world, and I often wondered why my parents gave birth to me."
Therefore, if you choose to bring children into the world, give them more love and patience, and don't cruelly abuse children.
In the eyes of children, parents are the world, they are full of you, please be kind to them, even if you don't love, please don't hurt.
Don't let children live in the shadow of abuse all their lives, don't write violence in children's childhood, and don't let the "home" that should be warm become the most unspeakable pain for children!
Finally, please pay attention to the children around you.
If you find child abuse in your life, please call the police or call 12338 in time! Don't let the devastated children stand out of the crowd's gaze.
Only by not treating child abuse as a "family matter" can children be rescued as soon as possible!
May those children who are struggling in "hell" be rescued as soon as possible, and may every child grow up happily in love!
Refer to the article "Vortex Video" and "Time Video" @南方都市报