In today's entertainment industry, celebrities splitting legs, cheating, and divorcing have become strange things.
Loving couples or model couples in the circle seem to have become a rarer variety than diamonds.
But there are exceptions to everything, and some celebrities not only live happily, but also have a happy family after meeting a good partner.
Just like the military singer Jiang Tao, he married a rich woman Wan Xiaomu when he was poor and white, did not abandon his wife when he was popular, and after 34 years of marriage, he and his wife have been in love as ever, becoming a clear stream in the entertainment industry.
I believe that after watching the love story of Jiang Tao and his wife Wan Xiaomu, many people will definitely believe in love again.
First, the love of a poor boy and a rich woman
Jiang Tao was born in 1967 in Qingdao, Shandong Province, to an ordinary family of five, his father a railway worker and his mother a textile worker.
Jiang Tao is the youngest child in the family, and he also has an older brother and an older sister.
Since childhood, Jiang Tao has not been like other children, he does not like to play with the gadgets of marble pictures, but shows a strong interest in music.
Although no one in the family knew music, Jiang Tao's parents fulfilled their son's wish and sent Jiang Tao to learn musical instruments and sing early.
When Jiang Tao was in the fourth grade of primary school, his parents chose to divorce because of emotional discord.
The eldest brother and mother left the house, and Jiang Tao and his sister lived with their father.
There is one less person in the family to make money, life is naturally more poor than before, although the economy is not very rich, but Jiang Tao's father still supports his son's musical dream as always.
Time passed like water, and a few years passed, and Jiang Tao was already in high school.
When he graduated from high school, Jiang Tao applied for the Shanghai Conservatory of Music and the Shandong Conservatory of Music, but unfortunately, after a series of selections, he was rejected by both art academies.
Soon after, Jiang Tao opened up a new path and prepared to apply for the CCTV announcer.
Unfortunately, he met Wang Ning again, and in the end, Wang Ning, whose voice conditions were more suitable for broadcasting, was admitted to CCTV, and Jiang Tao once again rubbed shoulders with his ideal career.
Later, Jiang Tao's father could not bear to watch his son become an unemployed vagrant, so he retired 6 years in advance and transferred his position as a railway worker to his son.
However, Jiang Tao, who holds an iron rice bowl, seems to be able to see his life in the next few decades at a glance, and between reality and ideals, 19-year-old Jiang Tao still chose the latter.
After some hesitation, he quit his job as a railway worker and went to the theater to work as a waiter, so that in order to make the gap between the theater's movies, he could use the venue to practice singing and playing the piano.
In addition, he also found a teacher to learn guitar, and unexpectedly, Jiang Tao, who only wanted to learn guitar, accidentally met a beautiful love.
His guitar teacher has a niece named Wan Xiaomu who is about the same age as Jiang Tao, the difference is that Jiang Tao is a poor boy, while Wan Xiaomu is a standard "white rich beauty".
It is reported that Wan Xiaomu's grandfather was once the largest salt merchant in Qingdao, and in the 1980s, the Wan family lived in the "Wanjialou" villa.
Two young men and women with such a big family difference, under the guidance of fate, finally broke through the pressure of the world and fell in love.
Second, after becoming popular, do not abandon the wife of the chaff
Originally, Wan Xiaomu's parents did not agree to let their daughter be with a poor boy, but they could not resist Wan Xiaomu's obsession, and the two families finally agreed to their interaction.
In 1987, 20-year-old Jiang Tao and Wan Xiaomu held a low-key wedding ceremony, and a year later, the sweet world of two became a happy family of three.
After becoming a husband and father, Jiang Tao still can't let go of his dream of singing.
As a pillow person, Wan Xiaomu of course knew what her husband was thinking, and instead of asking him to shoulder the responsibility of supporting the family, she borrowed money from her mother's family to support him to go to Beijing to participate in the "Youth Song Contest" held by CCTV.
When Jiang Tao went to Beijing, Wan Xiaomu entrusted his one-year-old son to his father-in-law to raise him, and ran to the construction site to cook vegetables for the workers.
These dirty and tiring tasks were things that Wan Xiaomu had never done before, but for the sake of her lover and children, the former Miss Jiao was willing to become a "yellow-faced woman".
Many years later, Jiang Tao, who has achieved fame, mentions his wife's dress at the construction site, and his eyes will still be red with pain.
Perhaps it was at that time that Jiang Tao secretly swore in his heart that no matter how well he mixed up in this life, he could not live up to the woman in front of him who treated herself with sincerity and sincerity.
After participating in two consecutive "Youth Song Competitions", in 1992, 25-year-old Jiang Tao signed up for CCTV's "Green Song Competition" for the third time.
In the end, Jiang Tao defeated Mao Ning, Sun Yue, Jin Xuefeng and others with a song "Snow in the Hometown" and won the first place in the popular singing group.
Since then, Jiang Tao has officially become a professional singer.
After learning the news of Jiang Tao's award, Wan Xiaomu rushed to Beijing with his mother and young children to reunite with her husband for the first time.
Thus, their "North Drift" life officially began.
In the first few years of arriving in Beijing, the life of the Jiang Tao family was very difficult, almost all of them lived in the basement of Nanlishi Road in Beijing, and at the most difficult time, the family's luggage was stolen by thieves.
Fortunately, in 1993, Jiang Tao appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for the first time because he won the prize in the "Youth Song Competition".
A year later, the 27-year-old Jiang Tao joined the Chinese Armed Police Cultural and Labor Corps, and the unit gave him a small two-bedroom set of 60 square meters, one of which Jiang Tao lived with his wife Wan Xiaomu, and the other room, his mother-in-law and son, and the family ended their life without a fixed place.
Then in 1998, Jiang Tao became popular all over the country because of the song "Yugong Moving Mountains", and since then, his life has also undergone earth-shaking changes, with various performance invitations, flowers and applause around him.
When a person has fame and fortune "overnight", change is often a matter of moments.
But what is very rare is that Jiang Tao did not lose himself in various temptations, he did not abandon the "wife of the chaff" like some male stars, but gave his wife a sense of security.
Especially after his wife was exposed by the media, some media have labeled Wan Xiaomu as "old and ugly", but Jiang Tao can confess to his wife in front of all the media: "Whether you believe it or not, I have loved a woman in my life, in my eyes, my wife is always the most beautiful, and I will never abandon my wife." ”
Third, marry a good woman and a happy family
Jiang Tao's true confession, Wan Xiaomu absolutely can afford and bear it.
Not to mention the sacrifice and dedication of Wan Xiaomu before Jiang Tao became famous; even after Jiang Tao became famous, Wan Xiaomu was also the biggest contributor around him.
Since entering the industry for so many years, Wan Xiaomu has been Jiang Tao's personal assistant and makeup artist, and all the tedious chores are handled by Wan Xiaomu, and Jiang Tao only needs to sing on stage.
What many people don't know is that Jiang Tao has never been able to drive, even if he goes out to eat with friends, it is Wan Xiaomu who picks up and delivers the car.
I'm afraid that most wives can do this!
In addition to taking full care of her husband's life and living, Wan Xiaomu's cultivation of her son is also worthy of every mother's study and admiration.
In the growth of his son Jiang Yukuo, Jiang Tao was often absent because of work, and Wan Xiaomu took on most of the responsibility of taking care of his son.
When his son was in elementary school, Wan Xiaomu copied 100 questions from various exercise books every day for his son to practice, and for each wrong question, he did 50 more questions.
In the day-to-day practice, Jiang Yukuo's academic performance has improved significantly, and basically every time he takes the exam, he can get a good score of double hundred.
When he did not do the practice questions, Wan Xiaomu accompanied his son to learn piano, day after day, until Jiang Yukuo passed the tenth grade piano test.
After Jiang Yukuo finished junior high school in China, Wan Xiaomu sent his son to study abroad.
Jiang Yukuo, who is abroad, is also very competitive, he successfully completed his high school studies and was admitted to the world-famous University of Liverpool.
When he graduated with a master's degree, Jiang Yukuo was still an excellent representative of the graduates of that year.
Later, Jiang Yukuo returned to China and found a stable and high-paying job in a bank.
To be able to raise his son so well, even Jiang Tao admitted that almost all of it was the credit of his wife, he was fortunate to marry a good woman, and the family became better and better because of his wife.
Perhaps touched by his wife's dedication to the family, Jiang Tao has been taking care of his mother-in-law like a biological mother for so many years.
Since his mother-in-law came to Beijing in 1992, jiang Tao has lived happily with his mother-in-law for nearly 30 years.
In fact, Wan Xiaomu also has an older brother, but the old man and the son-in-law are used to life, the two not only have never had a contradiction in life, the old man also praises the son-in-law as better than the biological son, so the small stay becomes a long stay, and 30 years have passed in a flash.
A few years ago, Jiang Tao's good friend Fu Disheng persuaded him to change to a house with a better environment, but Jiang Tao refused without thinking about it, the reason is that the new house is not conducive to the elderly, and he is worried that his mother-in-law will not be used to living after changing the environment.
If her husband can be so filial to his mother, Wan Xiaomu should also be glad that he did not look at the wrong person at the beginning, and in the same way, Jiang Tao will probably feel that he has met a woman who is willing to be truly and relatively good.
What exactly does a good marriage look like?
The answer, I think, is nothing more than: mutual understanding, trust, and mutual tolerance.
Jiang Tao met Wan Xiaomu, who was single-mindedly good to him, when he was most proud; he did not abandon his wife.
Although this is the commitment of each couple to each other in marriage, the reality is often that many people can share the pain but cannot share the same happiness.
Therefore, the love of Jiang Tao and Wan Xiaomu, who have been in love for 34 years after marriage, is even more precious, their love is not as sweet as the idol drama, but it is full of moving fireworks all the time.
Now 54-year-old Jiang Tao, although the stage of singing is not as much as before, gradually fading out of the audience's sight, but with the company of a confidant and a lover, the son is excellent and outstanding, rich and idle semi-retirement life, who can not say a word of envy?