It turns out that "Pan Guiyu" is a warm-hearted mother in real life?
"Pan Guiyu", which made countless audiences hate to grit their teeth in "An Jia", was played by actress Ding Jiali.
Ding Jiali's daughter Hu Linna is also an actress and often updates on social platforms.
And when she shares her daily life, her mother Ding Jiali always appears with her.
Or it's the mother and daughter smiling together in front of the camera,
Or Ding Jiali sitting alone on the couch at home,
The dress and living environment of the two are simple and simple, no different from ordinary people's homes.
Actor Wang Liyun also interacted below the video, "Excellent couple! The acting is awesome! ”
Many people may not know that Ding Jiali's acting skills are quite outstanding, and she has won the post-film award 6 times and is extremely popular.
However, she used to be like the characters she played, ignoring her biological daughter, and even divorced twice and had an abortion four times.
From the bold "love brain" in style to a good mother who enjoys a plain life with her children, what has Ding Jiali experienced?
01, three emotions, two marriages, all ended in failure
Ding Jiali was born in a small village in Jiamusi, Heilongjiang, because of her poor family and her parents' preference for sons, she was given to a family without children.
Although her adoptive parents were kind to her, being abandoned by her biological parents more or less affected her personality, resulting in a lack of love in her heart and a desire for attention.
In 1980, she was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, where she loved acting.
In that era of generally conservative thinking, Ding Jiali was open-minded and bold, fell in love with a boy in her freshman year, and became pregnant before marriage.
Unexpectedly, the boy did not want to take responsibility, she had to go to the hospital alone to beat up the child, and the two also broke up.
But such a painful lesson did not allow her to put away her "love brain".
In 1986, she married the actor Hu Guangchuan, because the two often went out to shoot, gathered less and more, and could not stand the loneliness, and fell in love with a husband with a wife.
This infidelity, let her pay a huge price, the other party chose to avoid responsibility after she became pregnant, she aborted again, leaving behind the sequelae of surgery, subacute pelvic inflammatory disease, endocrine disorders, etc., but also because of taking medicine suffered from serious stomach diseases.
After she returned to the family with a body of pain, her husband, perhaps out of revenge, also chose to cheat, choosing to part ways with her when his daughter had just turned full moon.
In 1990, Ding Jiali met and fell in love with a university lecturer and entered the palace of marriage.
This time, she was very serious about marriage, and she was bent on her husband, even if she was busy at work, she did not forget to run the family and take care of her husband.
But her husband cheated on her schoolgirl during her pregnancy, and even if she tried everything to keep her, the other party was determined to leave her.
Therefore, after the son Song Xinqi was full moon, the two ended their short marriage.
The failure of the two relationships made Ding Jiali's heart full of holes, and she once washed her face with tears all day long.
But thankfully, her acting career has not been affected by her private life, and even more and more prosperous.
In 1986, Ding Jiali first starred in the movie "The First Woman in the Mountains and Forests", and won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress and the Chinese Drama Plum Blossom Award that year.
In 1991, she won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress again for the film "New Year".
In 1999, she won the China Film Performance Society Award for "Red Hair Card", and the following year won the Chinese Drama Plum Blossom Award again.
In 2007, she also won the Outstanding Actress Award at the Chinese Film Huabiao Awards for "The Premier of the Alley".
She has also starred in many TV series such as "The Story of Late Autumn in Beijing" and "Camel Xiangzi".
In short, she has been in the arts for many years, won awards and won soft hands, and created countless classic roles.
Her influence in the circle is growing, and the peach blossom luck also follows.
When she rehearsed the drama "Marie Curie", she met the fledgling Sun Honglei and fell in love with him.
The gap in age and fame cannot stop Ding Jiali's enthusiasm.
Even, there are rumors that she spares no effort to introduce resources for her boyfriend, and even kneels to the director in order to win the role for her boyfriend.
After Sun Honglei successively participated in the TV series "Never Look Away" and "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind", he suddenly became famous.
However, just when she thought that the two of them were going to cultivate a positive result, Sun Honglei and Gong Li spread a scandal.
Ding Jiali, who was hurt by love again, ended this relationship and gradually faded out of the screen.
At that time, Ding Jiali had reached middle age, and her life was "improper" and she had four abortions, which led to her deteriorating health; her feelings were not smooth, and she broke up three times, resulting in her inner pain.
She began to reflect on herself, feeling that the past way of life was too absurd, and she also remembered a pair of children who had been neglected by herself.
02, self-reflection, and strive to become a good mother
Immersed in emotional entanglement, Ding Jiali left her children behind, her daughter Hu Linna was raised by her father Hu Guangchuan, and her son Song Xinqi was sent to her adoptive parents by her.
When her children were young, she often used the excuse of being busy at work and rarely visited them.
Although the son firmly remembers her goodness and remembers that he was unable to enroll in school due to the hukou problem, it was his mother who knelt down and begged for someone, which was exchanged for his opportunity to enroll.
But at that time, Ding Jiali was bent on starting the next relationship, and there was no child in her heart.
Despite the child's young age, she insisted on sending him to boarding school, causing the child not to want to see her for a long time.
Hulina, the daughter who lives with her father, is even worse off than her brother's situation.
When Hu Linna was just over a year old, her father Hu Guangchuan left her and never returned because of the failure of his business.
Her elderly grandparents had to take over the responsibility of raising her, but with the death of her grandparents, Hulina had to send someone to the fence.
For a while, she has been wandering around the homes of relatives and teachers, and at a young age, she has to learn to observe words and colors.
Later, she lived in her uncle's house for a long time, and her uncle had a very bad temper and economic conditions, and often made her angry and scolded her.
In such a growing environment, Hu Linna fantasized countless times that her mother could come to pick herself up or give herself a little love.
But in the whole 15 years, she has only seen Ding Jiali twice, and she has not received any financial support.
She often questioned her ignorance and ugliness, otherwise why did her parents give birth to her, but no one would want her?
For the half-brother who could at least get some maternal love, she had no chance to meet.
Later, Ding Jiali was successively betrayed by her feelings, experienced many injuries, and realized that she owed too much to her children.
At the end of 2009, Ding Jiali did something that shocked the outside world.
She went to the Hebei Virtue Education Public Welfare Forum and publicly confessed her past experiences of misconduct, infidelity, and abortion.
And this courage to expose herself to "black history" mainly comes from her children.
She felt sorry for her children for what she had done, and as she grew older, she had to set a good example for them and teach them to be clean.
She also accompanied her daughter on the show, and she felt ashamed and embarrassed when she tearfully told her about her upbringing in her uncle's house.
She blamed herself for being too selfish when she was young, fearing that her children would become a stumbling block to the start of a new relationship, and being unwilling to take on the responsibility of motherhood, causing her children to suffer pains that they should not have experienced.
In the third year of her son Song Xinqi's third year of high school, she pushed off a lot of work and took time to take care of his diet and living, so that he could study with peace of mind.
Daughter HuLina wanted to be an actress, so she took her daughter to participate in the show, took the stage to help her daughter, helped her introduce resources, and supported her in pursuing her dreams.
Nowadays, Hu Linna has successfully entered the show business circle and filmed in a down-to-earth manner, starring in TV series such as "Old Chinese Medicine" and "Sword Dancer".
Song Xinqi tends to develop behind the scenes, graduating from the Beijing Film Academy, he became a young director, and the short film "Pee Can't Come Out" won the "Best Short Film Award at the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Film Festival".
The children are kind and tolerant of her, hoping that she will no longer feel guilty, as long as she is happy.
And Ding Jiali no longer has illusions about feelings, lives a plain and simple life, and immerses herself in learning Buddhism.
At the same time, she has not given up her career, in recent years, she will participate in five or six works every year, and she can be seen in this year's movies "No Year Without a Year" and "Hello, Li Huanying".
Although most of the characters who come to the door are "mother-in-law" and "mother", there is not much room for her to play.
However, after the film, after the film, after the drama awards have been won over and over again, she still portrays the characters that are easy to face vividly and naturally.
She herself does not mind becoming a "shrew professional household", after all, her career has been smooth sailing, and she has a pair of children to accompany her, which is already a comfortable and happy state of life.
03. Conclusion
In the eyes of the outside world, Ding Jiali was not very responsible for herself and her children in the first half of her life.
However, now when it comes to those failed feelings, her attitude is very open-minded, "I think the experience is still worth it, I don't resent anyone." I have gone through detours like all women, and I hope that women will shorten the time of pain and really don't love it, so that it is good for their body and mind. ”
In life, it is inevitable that there will be times when she will go the wrong way, and she bravely pays for her past mistakes.
Now, after going through the ups and downs, she has gradually reconciled with the pain and found inner stability.
I believe that she has become a good mother, and I hope to see more good works of her.
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Author: Asagiri
Editor-in-charge: Zeria