Recently, a top student of Peking University was put on the cusp, and netizens commented: She cured my academic cult. It means that people who originally thought that people with high education were very powerful, and after seeing her, they thought: But that's it.
Let's briefly introduce the cause of the matter: there is a very famous writer in Japan, named Chizuko Ueno, and her books include "Misogyny" and "Starting at the Limit". She is a professor at the University of Tokyo and a very famous feminist.
Maybe many people still don't understand it, so let's take a simple example to introduce her influence.
In recent years, we have always mentioned the concept that housewife is also a profession and should also be paid for her labor. Many women realize that working at home with children is not worthless!
And this concept, proposed by Chizuko Ueno and carried forward, has had a huge impact on Chinese, Japanese and Korean women.
Chizuko Ueno was unmarried and childless in her life, she was not interested in marriage, she devoted herself to education and feminism, and she is now getting old.
A blogger named Quan Heehee, with two of his friends, formed a three-person sister group, invited Chizuko Ueno, and conducted a cloud visit.
Quan Xixi graduated from Peking University with a bachelor's degree and a master's degree from Hong Kong Chinese University, and her two sisters also graduated from Peking University. The three are absolute intellectuals and are all married, with Quan Hee Hee and another sister having children.
The three of them asked Chizuko Ueno questions, such as Quan Heehee's first question: Why didn't you get married, were you hurt by a man, or were you influenced by your original family.
It is this first question that has stepped on the thunder point of the majority of netizens! Netizens questioned: Why is it necessarily related to men if you don't get married? Why must it have an impact on the original family?
Quan Xixi is completely ignorant of the technique and art of questioning, and substituting his subjective consciousness into questioning is a superficial assumption about Chizuko Ueno.
After that, Chizuko Ueno replied: It is true that there is the influence of the unhappy marriage of parents, but it has nothing to do with men, that is, simply not cold to marriage.
Quan Xixi simply linked the reason for "not getting married" to men, and netizens felt that she didn't understand what real feminism was in her bones. After that, the questions asked by the three sisters were undoubtedly related to marriage, love, having children, and so on.
Even Chizuko Ueno couldn't help but gently wonder, "Young girls like to ask me questions about love." ”
More netizens feel that Quan Xixi expresses the four words "wife literature" vividly, and what a valuable opportunity it is to have a dialogue with Chizuko Ueno, but the questions asked are too low-level and not nutritious.
Feminism in no way means not getting married, not having children, not falling in love, etc., Chizuko Ueno believes that as long as you live and think freely, you can do anything. This is the difference between narrow feminism and broad feminism.
We don't go into depth about feminism because it's a big topic.
In short, Quan Xihee's conversation with Chizuko Ueno caused great controversy, and she herself hid the video, no longer disseminated it, and issued a related apology.
But netizens were not satisfied with her apology, and many netizens found that this blogger under the banner of independent women had a lot of "thunderous" words and deeds.
1. The screen name is the husband's surname
All is her last name, Quan Xi Hee is a screen name, but she was originally not called Quan Xi Hee, but Cai Quan Hee Hee. Cai is her husband's surname.
Netizens expressed shock: Kochi women in the 21st century will deliberately take their husband's surname when choosing a screen name.
Later, Quan Xixi explained that her registration was occupied by Quan Xixi, and she added a Cai in front of it, because Cai is the most familiar surname in her life.
But netizens still don't understand: even if it is occupied, you can add characters and other words, but few people will add the husband's last name in front. and called her "feudal in heart and not self-aware", and now many netizens ridicule her as "Cai Quanshi".
Second, understand that the husband buys sexual services
As an independent female blogger, Quan Xixi usually has a lot of content related to both sexes, and she will have conversations with her husband Eric from time to time.
Originally, she told Eric before she got married that she didn't want to have children, and Eric accepted. But after four years of marriage, Quan Xixi still had a baby.
The explanation given by Quan Xixi is: If you don't have children, the marriage will break down, so I'll give birth to one and try it, because my husband wants children. The voiceover is: Only by having children can you save your marriage.
What's even more bizarre is that Eric went straight to Quan Hee-hee: he wanted to buy sexual services. It is really "eye-opening" to say such a vulgar and bad behavior to the other half, and package it so fresh and vulgar!
What makes people fall apart is that Quan Xixi does not feel that there is a problem with her husband's ideas, but reflects on her not doing well enough and not satisfying her husband. Then make a schedule to meet your husband's needs.
An independent woman who graduated from Peking University had such a point of view that shocked netizens' jaws.
However, compared to the amazing full hee-hee, her husband Eric is really not simple.
According to their previous introductions, a basic situation of her husband can be roughly derived. Eric repeated his studies for two years, barely got into a second book, and took an ordinary job, and Quan Xixi's income was higher than his.
But Eric is very powerful, the two were supposed to be good Dink, but in the fourth year after marriage, he threatened the breakdown of his marriage and let Quan Xixi have a child.
Hanging prostitution on the lips of daily life is called "buying sexual services", but in this way, it can also make Quan Xixi first carry out self-reflection.
The couple also recently discussed the topic of divorce, about divorce, Quan Xi Xi husband said: If I end the relationship, I will most likely not meet a better one.
In fact, he himself knows that he and Quan Xixi are not right and wrong, Quan Xixi is a low marriage, and he is a high marriage.
After watching their videos, netizens keenly felt that Eric, the full-hee husband, was very hypocritical.
For example, if the two divorce, Eric said that he is more suitable to raise his daughter, and Quan Xixi must pay alimony.
As for why he is more suitable, he will say a lot of reasons from his daughter's point of view, seemingly rational, but in fact, they are all to achieve their own goals, and the whole next to him is stunned.
But Quan Xixi didn't notice it, only felt that her husband was so rational and handsome, and she liked it so much.
No money, no looks, average job, average education (at least the gap between the two is very large), but can "control" the top students in Hong Kong Chinese to be satisfied, and can also make Quan Xixi subconsciously "crown the surname of the husband". I have to say that this man is really powerful.
It's hard to say whether Quan Xixi is right or wrong, but the turmoil brought by her video has triggered many people to think: about gender relations, about female consciousness, about marriage. What is your opinion on this?