When you are young, there is no thief's guts, and when you are old, the thieves have the guts, and the thieves are gone, this is the most classic sentence written by Liang Ya, and it is also the inner portrayal of many middle-aged men, including him, at this time, Liang Ya is facing a test, whether to be a gentleman or a villain.

Li Xiaodan was drunk unconscious, lying on the sofa playing drunk, worried that she would fall from above, Liang Ya sat by and guarded her, Xiao Dan's fair skin was slightly pink, his eyes looking at her were gradually hot, the Xiao Dan in front of him put him in a dilemma, he wanted to conform to his heart, but hesitated for a long time, after all, reason prevailed.
Liang Yaya is actually a screenwriter, in order to make him feel at ease to write the script, the boss greatly shut him up in a small building near the sea in Sanya, and also sent a female assistant from Beijing is Li Xiaodan, who specializes in taking care of his life, Xiao Dan is pure and energetic, with the unique clarity and generosity of young girls, just as soon as he arrives at the hotel, he is excited to roll up on the bed, she has not been far away, this time sent her to Sanya, but it is fun to have fun, as soon as the boss leaves, Xiao Dan changes into a beautiful dress and actively works. When Liang Ya came to the inspiration, Xiao Dan would not bother, when he could not write, Xiao Dan would accompany him out to relax and relieve his boredom, at this time Liang Ya was eager to move, once the heart breeds desire, it will begin to grow wantonly, Liang Ya is full of apes every day, and can not continue to write, so he plans to return to Beijing to create, xiao Dan's trip to Sanya also ends here.
After returning home, Liang Ya originally wanted to invite Xiao Dan to sit at home, who knew that Xiao Dan actually let him help him repair the zipper of his coat, the two got closer and closer, the warmth of the breath disturbed each other's hearts, and then Xiao Dan shook Liang Ya's hand and pulled him into the abyss, they did not go home, but went to Xiao Dan's rental house.
After Wen Cun passed, Liang Ya began to regret the behavior just now, feeling sorry for his wife and sorry for Xiao Dan, Xiao Dan said to Liang Ya: "You are a person with a family, a wife and a baby daughter, they need you more than me", her understanding made Liang Ya extremely happy, he began to enjoy this sneaky pleasure, did not expect that the matter between the two was discovered by Dawei that day, Liang Ya also blamed Dawei for arranging an assistant for him, Dawei was not used to it, directly scared back, flies do not sting seamless eggs, I am with her every day How I am okay, this remark, let Liang Ya dumb, tomorrow morning flew back, but it was almost dark to go home, Liang Ya knew that his wife would definitely ask, so he poured a few sips of wine home, in the face of his wife's inquiry, Liang Ya played an excellent screenwriting talent, he just got off the plane and let Liu Dawei pull to the Hilton Hotel to drink with a group of investors from the northeast.
I have to say that Liang Ya is not only a screenwriter, but also a good actor, a few words to dispel his wife's doubts, the next period of time, Liang Ya shut himself at home to create, during the period did not contact Xiao Dan, Xiao Dan did not look for him, his heart is a little lost, until this day accidentally learned, Xiao Dan confessed to her boyfriend, the result was beaten into the hospital, in order not to let Liang Ya worry, there was no contact with him, which made him more remorseful. Soon after, Liang Asia's script came to an end, the producer held a seminar at the Fragrant Hills Hotel, the two met again, after which Liang Asia stayed behind to revise the script, Xiao Dan took an hour's car to find him after work every day, when Liang Asia wrote, Xiao Dan was quietly reading a book on the side, which made him feel unprecedented satisfaction, and even forgot that he was a married person.
Xiao Dan accidentally broke her foot while playing, Liang Ya did not say a word and carried her back, as if she was a young man who did not use up her strength, just when she massaged Xiao Dan's feet, her wife called, Xiao Dan suddenly became angry, and rushed out of the door, Liang Ya quickly caught up and apologized, until he promised that he would divorce and marry her, Xiao Dan smiled.
The two were not tired for a few days, the daughter was arguing to find her father, the wife came with the child, Liang Ya was furious to tidy up the room, trying to erase the traces of a woman in the house, but even if it was done thoroughly, it still exposed the horse's feet, a cleaning aunt found the door, she stood at the door and said to Liang Ya: "The shower head in your room is broken, your wife said to the service desk yesterday, saying that the shower blocked small particles." Liang Ya was momentarily panicked, and his wife suddenly understood, just now when she was tidying up the room, she found that the clothes were stacked neatly, obviously other women sorted out, the angry wife proposed a divorce, Liang Ya begged for help, homeless he moved to Xiao Dan's rental house, Xiao Dan saw that Liang Ya did not want to divorce, empathetic she said that she would not force him again, even if not divorced, she was willing to follow him, Xiao Dan's tenderness like water instantly melted Liang Ya, he also felt more distressed about this woman, Decided not to fail her again.
A few days later Liang Yaya returned home, his wife changed her attitude, she now just wants to listen to him tell the truth, love me or her, Liang Yaya bowed her head and said: "You and your daughter are my relatives, she is my lover, just as important, no one can replace anyone." After hearing this, the wife burst into tears, she followed Liang Yaya at the age of 20, accompanied him to start a family from scratch, did not expect to fall into this fate, she began to pray for Liang Ya not to divorce, but also said that where she can change, as long as he does not leave this home, but Liang Ya has made up his mind to get out of the house.
However, when the two went through the divorce procedures, they were told that the materials were incomplete, so they were ready to come again, and when they returned home, they ate a quiet meal, and before leaving, Liang Ya hugged her daughter, and her daughter cried and said: "I practice and study every day just to make you like me, if you don't want me and my mother, I won't learn." His daughter's words eventually shook him, and instead of divorcing him, he moved out.
In this way, Liang Ya went back and forth between the two women for two years, two years is enough to change a lot, his wife Xiaoying is busy decorating her own house every day, has become accustomed to this kind of life, Liang Ya came to see them from time to time, and when she came, she competed to work, and bought them this and that, which was better than before. On the other hand, Xiao Dan was delayed in having a name, even her father scolded her for not having a face, she was overwhelmed by reality, and every day she forced Liang Ya to divorce, Liang Ya gradually began to be impatient, this day Xiaoying accidentally fell and was hospitalized when she was working, Liang Ya quickly went to the hospital, Xiao Dan had to go to visit with her, and was beaten back to reality by Dawei's no face.
After that, Liang Ya moved home to take care of his wife meticulously, and her daughter was very happy, because her father finally returned, he picked up his daughter to school, bought vegetables and cooked, from morning to night, he also experienced the difficulty of his wife, the family and Hemei, as if back to the past, Liang Ya cherished his current life, and even did not want to return to Xiao Dan's side. But on Liang Yaya's birthday, Xiao Dan came to the door, and Xiaoying invited her to come to the house and sit down. This is the first meeting between the two women, Xiaoying did not accuse Xiao Dan, but calmly talked about her sweet past with Liang Ya, at this moment Liang Ya was silent like a little daughter-in-law, watching the family of three sitting together, Xiao Dan knew that she had lost, she could not stay any longer, so she hurried away.
Since then, Liang Yaya has never seen Xiao Dan again, everything has returned to the past, after which they went to Sanya for a vacation, just as his wife and daughter were playing happily, he received a strange phone call, and a look of panic became the last suspense left for the audience, perhaps the infatuated Xiao Dan left the world forever.
A sigh, is the film directed by Feng Xiaogang in 2000, profoundly reflects the love life of men after entering middle age, unconsciously becoming a prisoner of feelings, because the subject matter is sensitive, the movie was once stopped, and after the release of the film has attracted a lot of criticism, but what the movie really wants to express is that the derailment is cool for a while, regret for a lifetime, the last turn of the movie, whether it is Xiao Dan or not, they can't go back, a man after a long struggle to make a choice, will not be easily changed, life is not easy to get on the right track, He would miss Dan, but he would never want to see her again.