Zhou Xun blew himself up: Very lonely, your strength comes from your loneliness, do you feel at some point that the world seems to be left alone. ”
Zhou Xun, 47, said that she was very lonely, even to the stage of living alone and did not dare to order takeaway, afraid of contact with all unfamiliar people; Hao Lei said that loneliness is her friend, because because she seems to be able to talk to no one, talking too much, others think she is a bit sick, think she thinks too much.
Rene Liu once wrote about her marital status in the book, going to the movies with her husband, buying tickets to watch their favorite movies, and then going home together, each with her own study, sharing only the kitchen and dining room.
Many people say that married two people together are still lonely, what is the point of such a marriage?
But in fact, husband and wife are independent individuals.
Teacher Zhou Guoping said that the more talented a person is, the longer the road to loneliness will be, and such loneliness is very profitable, I did not thoroughly understand the meaning of this sentence before, and naively thought that it was because of excellence and difference that I would be lonely.
But now I understand that a person's growth often comes from loneliness.
The first stage of loneliness is when others ignore you. A friend who went to school abroad at the age of 18, looked for a house alone, went to the hospital alone, was alone, had no friends, and felt particularly lonely.
The second stage of loneliness is when others don't understand you. In my previous marriage, I didn't understand her emotions, so although she felt married, she was still very lonely.
It turns out that only when you can live one person's life well, you have the ability to run the life of two people.
I also began the sentence that Rene Liu said that I dare to be alone in your arms.
The third stage of loneliness is that you don't understand yourself. In the past, I started a business to make consumer goods, and the more successful I was in the world, the more lonely I became, and I felt that what I made was not worth enough, even if I was drowned in the applause of the crowd, I still felt very confused.
Now I belong to the fourth stage of my life and enjoy loneliness
I began to understand that I liked powerful things and enjoyed the solitude of reading and creating.
Now I feel that it is better to be my own confidant, and I don't have to seek it from others.
Loneliness is preceded by confusion, and loneliness is followed by growth.
When you taste all the loneliness, you may be able to truly summon your own heart and choose to live with better loneliness.
