During this period, every attraction was still a person, so that there was a long queue at the entrance of each public toilet at the attraction. A mother and daughter walked to the toilet and found that there were so many people in line.
The 8-year-old daughter looked anxious and said to her mother: "Mom, I can't hold back when I urinate."
The mother saw that there was still a long line ahead, and simply let the girl squat on the manhole cover of the sewer in front of all the tourists, and when the child stood up, the mother threw the toilet paper there.
Just a cleaner came over and said, "Next to the bathroom, can't you wait?" The ground that has just been cleaned has soiled you again. This mother had a disdainful expression and quarreled with the cleaning.
The passengers queuing up next to the toilet can't look at it anymore, and you accuse this mother one by one, "How old are your girls, and I don't know how shy, taking off her pants in front of so many people", "Aren't we all waiting, who is not in a hurry!" ”“
The little girl in front of you is only 5 years old, waiting longer than you, everyone knows to queue up to go to the toilet, see how you educate your children! The people around this mother said this, and their faces turned red with shame, and they quickly took the girl away.
Girls are already eight or nine years old and are big girls, and there should be gender distinction and privacy protection, which is really not possible. To tell the truth, girls worry their parents more than boys, and in society, news incidents of girls being persecuted occur repeatedly, such as underage girls being sexually assaulted by neighbors.
Every girl's misfortune makes us feel heartache, as parents, we must protect girls and educate girls well.
It is not only necessary to teach the daughter to be kind, helpful, and friendly, but more importantly, to teach the girl how to protect herself and how to be a smart and kind person.
Educating children, especially girls, can not only educate and learn to score 100 points, but also pay attention to these 3 points:
First, let the girl dare to express herself
Many parents hope that girls can be obedient and well-behaved, but it is the nature of children to love to play, whether boys or girls, they are full of fantasies about the future and full of curiosity about the world.
If parents have been asking girls to be well-behaved and quiet, and let children obey themselves, it may wear down their children's creativity.
When the child grows up, he will not dare to express himself, he is not independent, he has no opinion, and he is not willing to show it easily, even if he is bullied, he does not dare to resist.
Second, self-reliance, self-esteem and self-love
Girls must have their own ideas and abilities, in life to cultivate children's self-reliance, give children some time to be alone, can not let girls think that they are girls should be worse than boys.
At the same time, girls should learn self-respect and self-love and shame, behave in a civilized manner, and parents should give girls more common sense and sexual knowledge on how to protect themselves.
Third, enhance the intrinsic value
It is natural for girls to love beauty, but parents are best not to give their children a love of beauty is right, so it is easy to give children an illusion that as long as they look good, everything else is not important.
Parents should develop their children's strengths and give full play to the potential of girls. When cultivating girls' interests, parents should not fix their thinking, and girls can also learn taekwondo, play Go, football, etc.
Girls are the little cotton jackets of parents, parents must cherish and protect them!