Friends who have used glasses should know that if you pour boiling hot water into a cup in an extremely cold state, the cup is likely to break in an instant, in fact, people's hearts are almost the same. If a person's heart encounters extreme cold and extreme heat, then its endurance will plummet, this sense of gap is not something that anyone can bear, many people's glass hearts are similar to this state, but some people are not like this, today we will talk about these three constellations that are not brittle, and the speed of heartbreak is actually very slow!
Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
Objectively speaking, in fact, in terms of the concept of whether the feelings are stable, the water sign belongs to the category of stability, and the fire sign and the earth sign belong to the category of instability, because the feelings of the water sign are a gradual development line, and the feelings of the fire sign and the earth sign are often a stage or a moment, of course, the fire sign has some hindsight, and the earth sign is a person who is determined to live and die at a glance, so I often say not to expect the earth sign to live for a long time, which is really a luxury. However, because the earth signs are too rational and many things can be clearly distinguished, their true feelings are difficult to discern.
To put it simply, the feelings of the earth sign are roughly divided into two categories, the feelings behind the family and the personal feelings, which are not on the same line. And the feelings of the water sign are a concept of a line, or to put it bluntly, if the water sign has no feelings for you, then you also expect them to have any contact with you, especially in terms of body and life, the water sign will resist. So I always say that the life benchmark of the water sign is feelings. To start a joke, if the water sign feels that you love her enough, care about her enough, and you are willing to do anything for her, then the water sign is satisfied with your chaff dish, and the material life has become a soft standard.
And if the water sign feels that you don't love her and don't care about her enough, then even if you satisfy her in life, her heart will always be empty, to put it bluntly, such a water sign will not have a normal state at all. As for why the feelings of the water sign have such magic, the reason is actually very simple, because the feelings of the water sign are thin and long-flowing, and the water sign cannot fall in love with you at once, unless you are too in line with her standards, so it is love at first sight, and in addition, the feelings of the water sign want to be stable and firm, which generally requires a lot of running-in.
In the same way, the water sign can not forget a person at once, their heart can not be broken at once, and the pattern of water sign heartbreak is often the kind of start from a little crack, and then slowly broken, so the water sign will be so strong and uncontrollable to hate a person after the end of the relationship, in fact, the fire sign is the fastest person with a broken heart, because their love consciousness comes quickly and violently. Therefore, friends of fire signs can easily bring a huge sense of gap when they are in love.
And there is no such problem here in the water sign, to put it more thoroughly, the water sign has feelings for you is indeed a good thing, but not exactly a good thing, because when the water sign has feelings for you, it is only feelings, not love, and as you get along, when you get better and better about the water sign, the water sign will produce a real sense of love, they will fantasize about the future life, and once the water sign begins to fantasize, then they need more and more security, so the water sign will grind people , will be clingy.
But because this baggage is too big, the pessimistic water sign can not bear it, or it is because this burden is too large, which leads to the water sign is easy to be sensitive, easy to pessimistic, they are afraid of not getting it or you will leave her one day, so to be precise, the sensitivity of the water sign does not equal the heart brittle, their heart is not brittle, so if you want to make the water sign really firm to you, the premise is that you are firm enough, and if you can't do it firmly, then their hearts are not only sensitive, And it will float, drifting without direction, or rather, their hearts will drift in the direction of full of security.
Cancer Pisces Scorpio is almost like this, but it is just that their external state is different when they feel this inner mood, so the attitude and determination of giving are not the same. So in the same way, the heartbreak of the water sign also has a prerequisite, to put it bluntly, if the water sign has always regarded you as the most important person in life, giving you high expectations and hopes, and you can not give them a sense of security and direction, then in this case, the water sign begins to be pessimistic, if they find some points that you don't care about, then the emotional rift will appear, this kind of thing happens in the feelings of the water sign is the most normal thing.
But this is actually nothing, because a little rift will not directly harm the water sign, and if you can notice this problem and correct it, then the rift can not be healed, but it can not affect your feelings, and if you do not pay attention to this problem, then the rift may slowly spread, until one day the water sign can not convince themselves with the consciousness of love, the rift is getting bigger, their hearts will be broken little by little, After being completely disappointed in you, they will lose the consciousness and direction of love, and the speed of heartbreak in water signs is actually very slow, so friends who are in love with water signs must not be afraid of contradictions, and as long as you can deal with these problems, then these contradictions will not only not affect your feelings, but even add points to your feelings.