After more than 30 years, I looked at Wu Yuhua again, only to find that divorce from Wang Jun was the right choice

Wu Yuhua, as a famous actress in China in the 1980s and 1990s,

With the role of the third daughter-in-law "Jujube Flower" in the TV series "Fence, Woman and Dog", the fire spread all over the country,

After that, Wu Yuhua also starred in many classic works such as "Backlight", "Prosecution", "Ancient Ship and Woman and Net", "Desire", "Reel and Woman and Well" and so on.

Wu Yuhua mostly starred in rural dramas, in which they were poor, suffering women.

In real life, her emotional road is also very bumpy.

Wu Yuhua once had a failed marriage,

The ex-husband is a national first-class director Wang Jun, and the two are classmates and colleagues.

Maybe everyone doesn't know Wang Jun much, but the film and television works he directed must have been seen by everyone.

Like the early years of "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind", "Behind the Glitz", "Four Generations Together",

As well as the "Little Parting", "Little Joy", "Ruyi Chuan", "Xiao MinJia" and so on that have been popular in recent years, they are all from his hands.

The two have been married for many years, and finally disagreed on the issue of children, and finally ended in divorce.

After the divorce, Wu Yuhua formed a new family and gave birth to a son and a daughter, Wang Jun is still alone.

Looking back at the lives of the two now, you will find that the divorce between the two was the best choice.

Wu Yuhua was wang jun he met when he was studying in the performance department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts.

Wu Yuhua is 4 years older than Wang Jun,

The reason why the two can be in the same class is because Wu Yuhua's college path is more difficult.

Wu Yuhua was born in 1959 in Shandong Province, due to the transfer of his parents' work, when he was very young, his family moved to Zhejiang Province.

His father, Wu Shaodian, was a soldier in the army in his early years, and his mother was a doctor in the hospital.

There are also two older brothers and an older sister, and Wu Yuhua is the youngest child in the family.

Wu Yuhua grew up in Hangzhou, with both the freedom and boldness of Shandong women, and the gentleness and agility of southern women.

When he first learned to walk and talk, Wu Yuhua was very interested in acting.

Often follow the TV set to imitate the actions and lines of the characters in the play, and learn a look,

Every time the neighbors and adults at home see Wu Yuhua, they will say: "We Yuhua look so good, and when you grow up, you will definitely become a big star."

But when the birth is not timely, Wu Yuhua High School will catch up with the special era of China.

After graduating from high school, Wu Yuhua was sent to the countryside in Fuyang County, Zhejiang Province, where she and the farmers went out early and returned home every day to do farm work.

But Wu Yuhua, who has a literary and artistic dream in his heart, will go to the mountains to play the violin every day after doing farm work.

2 years later, the college entrance examination was resumed, and Wu Yuhua applied for the Beijing Film Academy and the Central Academy of Drama in order to pursue the dream in his heart.

Both schools took the re-examination, but the results were not satisfactory, and they were not admitted in the end.

The first battle failed, Wu Yuhua did not give up, she carefully prepared for a year,

In 1979, he was admitted to the performance department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts and met Wang Jun from Jiangsu.

Wu Yuhua is beautiful and gentle, Wang Jun is handsome and stable,

Two talented women, and in the same class, they are often assigned to the same group for rehearsals.

After a period of time together, the two established a romantic relationship.

Although the two are in the same door, there is a big gap in performance,

In terms of acting, Wu Yuhua is obviously better than Wang Jun,

In her freshman year, Wu Yuhua was invited by director Hu Shanliu to play the role of "Tian Cuicui" in the movie "Nostalgia".

However, at that time, the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts had clear regulations that freshmen were not allowed to go out to shoot dramas, and Wu Yuhua lost contact with this role.

After that, the director found Ren Yexiang to star in "Nostalgia", and Ren Yexiang immediately became popular with this work.

Missed this opportunity to become famous, Wu Yuhua cherished the opportunity to act after that,

She carefully polished her acting skills in school, and won the praise of teachers in professional classes with her good appearance and acting ability.

After that, Wu Yuhua starred in the role of the heroine "Xia Yinyin" in the movie "Backlight" during college.

With a pure appearance and solid acting skills, it has won everyone's attention and recognition,

The first work he starred in was the heroine, which shows how powerful Wu Yuhua was at that time.

And Wang Jun is the opposite of Wu Yuhua,

In school, Wang Jun's acting class grades can only be regarded as barely passing,

There are no highlights in the acting, the performance is decent, and the teacher does not pay too much attention to him.

Wang Jun also handed over his resume to the crew and auditioned, but he was rejected by the director.

This also led to Wang Jun's not filming a single play during college, even if it was a small supporting role.

The current situation of "strong women and weak men" not only does not make the feelings of the two people tense, but cherishes each other more.

After graduating from university, Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun were assigned to the Nanjing Military Region Frontline Drama Troupe as actors.

Not long after working, the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.

After marriage, the two spent a sweet time, and it was not long before Wu Yuhua discovered the difference between drama and movie.

Compared with the movie, the attention of the drama is not very high,

In the drama troupe, Wu Yuhua's acting skills cannot be well displayed, not to mention Wang Jun, sometimes he may not be able to perform once a month.

The lack of drama to shoot made Wu Yuhua feel a sense of crisis, and Wang Jun also realized that he might not be suitable for acting.

After discussing, the husband and wife decided to go to Beijing to develop.

In 1984, not long after going to Beijing, Wu Yuhua received an invitation from the crew and starred in the movie "No. 5 Confidential" with Lin Qiang to get everyone's attention.

After that, she starred in the film "Babel Tower" directed by Cai Jiwei, and played the role of Bai Huiru, a prosecutor who had just graduated from college, in the movie "Prosecution".

Wu Yuhua's career has started, and Wang Jun has also found a new direction after repeatedly running into a wall.

In 1987, Wang Jun participated in an audition for a TV series.

A week after the audition ended, Wang Jun did not receive an invitation to let him go to filming, which made Wang Jun have great doubts about his acting skills.

At that time, he thought to himself: "Since no one uses me to act, the road of an actor is not easy, why not change it?"

In 1987, Wang Jun was admitted to the directing department of the Central Academy of Drama, thinking of entering the entertainment circle as a director after graduation.

I have to say that Wang Jun is indeed very talented in being a director.

After graduating from graduate school, Wang Jun was assigned to the Zongzheng Opera Troupe as a director in the troupe.

As soon as he joined the troupe, he directed the opera "Daughter of the Party", and won the National Wenhua Award, the first prize of the Sixth All-Army Literary and Art Conference and the first prize of the director.

After winning the award, Wang Jun became more and more motivated as a director.

After that, he directed the opera evenings "Children of the Barracks", "Crimean Joining the Army", "Shahai Mid-Autumn Festival" and won the Wenhua Excellent New Repertoire and Award, the first prize of the Baiyou Sketch TV Competition and the Outstanding Director Award.

Wang Jun's career is booming, and Wu Yuhua's side is not idle.

In 1989, she and Tian Chengren starred in the rural drama "Fence, Woman and Dog", in which Wu Yuhua played the third daughter-in-law of the Ge family in a remote mountain village.

With this drama, Wu Yuhua's career has reached a new height,

She became popular in the streets and alleys of the country with the role of "jujube flower" in the play, and during that time, "jujube flower" became synonymous with her, and people would think of "jujube flower" as long as they saw her.

Taking advantage of the heat, Wu Yuhua has successively starred in many classic works such as "Longing", "Reel and Woman and Well", "Ancient Ship And Net", "Don't Say Goodbye", etc.

The couple focused on the development of their careers during that time.

Wu Yuhua brought home the trophies of China's top ten film and television actors, and Wang Jun took home the trophies of excellent directors.

The two do not see each other often, but because they have common goals, their lives are harmonious.

However, the long-term gathering of less and more, resulting in many problems of the two people can not be solved in time,

Before long, the marriage of the two turned on a red light, and finally could only end in "divorce".

With the passage of time, Wu Yuhua is no longer young, and gradually she is no longer looking for actresses, but some supporting roles.

The peak of Wu Yuhua's career has passed, she wants to return to the family, wants a stable family life,

But at that time, Wang Jun's career was in an upward period, and he only thought about his career.

For the sake of her husband Wu Yuhua, she is willing to reduce the opportunity to go out to shoot and spend more time on the family.

That day Wu Yuhua said to Wang Jun: "We are not young anymore, I want a child".

After hearing this, Wang Jun was not only not happy, but said: "No, I am not ready to be a father, I do not plan to have children."

The two quarreled many times over the "child" problem,

Wu Yuhua is still relatively traditional thinking, and always feels that there is a child whose life will be complete.

But Wang Jun is a "Dink" family, one is that he is not ready to be a father, and the other is that he is not willing to reduce the quality of life for his children.

If there is a contradiction between the husband and wife in the marriage, and both parties are unwilling to compromise, the marriage will come to an end.

Wu Yuhua is also aware of this, the two want a family, one wants a career, destined to be separated.

After the divorce, Wu Yuhua was sad and silent for a while, but the days still have to go on.

Wu Yuhua, who adjusted his mood, met Mo Dafeng through the introduction of friends,

Born in Shanghai, Mo Dafeng studied at the Pratt Institute of Art in New York City, USA, and is a well-known painter.

In his early years, he worked as a professor at the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, and then concentrated on painting after resigning.

Mo Dafeng's fame in the painting industry is not small, and he has held many painting exhibitions abroad.

Most of his works are mainly realistic landscape paintings, such as the paintings "Sea Breeze", "Evening Colors in Taihuai", "Evening at Vézelay" and other works.

Both of them have worked at the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, one teaches art, the other learns to perform,

Both belong to art, do the two have many common languages, and it didn't take long for the two to establish a romantic relationship.

After the two got married, Wu Yuhua gave birth to a son and a daughter, and the birth of the child made Wu Yuhua feel that her life was complete.

After the birth of the child, Wu Yuhua put more energy into the family and taking care of the child.

Of course, she is not a "full-time wife" at home, she reduces the opportunity to go out to shoot and devote herself to the behind-the-scenes work of film and television works.

On the other hand, after the divorce, Wang Jun put all his energy into his work and only wanted to develop his career.

In 2000, Wang Jun and director Zhao Baogang co-directed the love drama "Like Fog Like Rain and Like Wind", officially becoming a commercial TV series director.

Since then, Wang Jun's career has been like a hanging.

He has successively directed many classic works such as the family emotional drama "Four Worlds Together", the spy drama "The Last 99 Days", the Qing Palace drama "The Heavens of the Firmament", the light comedy "My Beautiful Life", the emotional drama "Man Gang" and so on.

Wang Jun has the courage to challenge different themes and different types of film and television works, and his fame in the industry is getting bigger and bigger.

In 2015, the TV series "Little Parting" turned out to be a hit at the time,

While people lament the acting skills of Huang Lei, Haiqing, Zhang Zifeng and others, Wang Jun, as a director, is also well known to more people.

In the following years, Wang Jun directed many excellent TV series such as "Little Joy", "Ruyi Chuan", "Xiao Minjia" and won the Best Director Award of Magnolia and Feitian many times.

Career is soaring, Wang Jun's love life is a blank,

Divorced for many years, he has been developing his career, there is no red face confidant around to accompany him, and he is still alone.

Even on his birthday, there was no one around to help him celebrate.

According to Huang Lei, once Wang Jun called him in advance on his birthday and asked if he was at home.

After learning that Huang Lei was at home, he was ready to go to his house to rub rice,

After hearing this, Huang Lei's wife, Sun Li, said on the side: "He is also too pitiful, and no one will accompany him on his birthday."

In fact, such things are not in the minority, when there is no work, living alone in a big empty house,

Eat alone, watch TV alone, sleep alone,

There is no one around who can chat and talk, and the days are monotonous, boring, and very lonely.

In contrast, Wu Yuhua's life is full of more fireworks,

Now she mainly shares her daily life, sends selfies without any problems, practices yoga, and sunbathes her son and daughter.

Seeing that his son and daughter have grown up, they don't need Wu Yuhua to be with them all the time.

She has more time to do what she wants to do.

Wu Yuhua, who is over the age of flower armor, sometimes encounters favorite roles and will also participate in them, like the web drama "Double World Pet Princess" of the young man a few years ago, Wu Yuhua starred in the role of the empress dowager,

Of course, it is mainly based on investment in the filming of TV series and dramas.

Seeing that the business is getting bigger and bigger, there are rumors that Wu Yuhua has made more than 100 million yuan in these years by investing in filming.

Regardless of whether the rumors are true or not, today's Wu Yuhua's family career has a double harvest, which can be described as a winner in life.

Usually, Wu Yuhua does yoga to exercise and maintain his figure, participate in activities with his children, and take a trip with her husband.

Because of proper maintenance, Wu Yuhua, who is now 63 years old, does not look old at all.

With her former high school classmates, Wu Yuhua looks very young.

Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun have been divorced for more than thirty years.

Nowadays, it seems that Wu Yuhua's family who wants a family is happy and happy, the husband and wife are harmonious, the children are filial and sensible, and the life is very comfortable and warm.

And Wang Jun, who wants to have a career, has directed a number of excellent works and is recognized as a good director in the industry.

Two people one wants a family, the other wants a career, pursues differences, and separation is inevitable.

Looking back, you will find that Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun's divorce may have been the right choice.

After the divorce, they all found their own lifelong pursuits and lived the life they wanted.