Until the end, no one dares to say that the children they have raised must be filial piety, and making the best preparations for this is the best strategy.
A clear mind and a healthy body
You need confidence on your own, you need hard power even more, a sober mind is bottom, and a healthy body is hard power. If you have a clear mind and a healthy body, you can be self-sufficient even if your children are not filial. The last thing the elderly want to see is to lose their consciousness, or lose their basic self-care ability, children filial piety is better to say, if children are not filial piety, it is simply worse. In short, with a clear mind and a healthy body, even if the filial piety of the children is the icing on the cake, if the children are not filial piety, it is still more filial piety of the children, and there is not much filial piety of the children, and there is not much filial piety of the children. I am perfect and take good care of myself, but I am happy and relaxed.
Second, enough pension money
The money of the children is the money of the children, it has little to do with you, who has money is not as rich as their own money, so it is far more important to have money than their children. Imagine that if you have money, you don't have to reach out to your children for money; you spend money yourself, you don't have to consider your children's feelings, you don't have to look at your children's faces; you can save money yourself, you can be prepared, but you will also increase your children's attention and respect, and the more unfilial your children are, the more they will have a pair of snobbish eyes. In the second half of life, there is enough pension money as a backing, whether it is the right to choose or the right to speak, it will not be left behind, the life you want can not be separated from the material foundation, and the life you want is the superstructure.
Third, own your own house
Living in anyone's home is not as free and comfortable as living in your own home. If a child is filial, whether or not to go to the children's house to live can not only see their own mood, but also need to see the needs of the children or need to see whether they are convenient; if the children are not filial piety, it is not because the living habits are not compatible, or they are not used to living in the children's homes, but the children who are not filial piety will reveal disgust or disgust and lead to the inability to live, in view of this, there is no need to go to the unfilial children's homes to be bored, anyway, they have their own houses, and they are free to retreat in terms of the right of residence. Having your own house has room for maneuver, you can retreat into the future, and without your own house, it is called heaven and earth, but anyone who is driven out of the house by filial piety will either be displaced or will have no fixed place. His own house is the big rear, and he would rather not return to the base area for a while than lose the base area.
Conclusion: Filial piety or filial piety of children is a matter for children, whether they are ready to deal with themselves is their own business, and preparation is not to guard against children, not to distrust children, but to keep a hand for themselves.
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