We often hear children say, "Except for when dad gives me money, I don't see dad, and dad is always busy."
I don't know when the father has become synonymous with the material in family life, which is very undesirable in the process of raising children, children can not only let the mother take, must receive both father and mother dual education to develop a complete personality.
Do you know what problems children who are not close to their fathers will have when they grow up?
What happens to children who are not close to their fathers?
1, there is no decisiveness
As a father, in the family, it should be more decision-making than the mother of the child, so the father will generally give people the image of Wei An.
The child's decisiveness and the ability to choose his own position and make his own decisions after encountering things depends largely on the father.
Therefore, it is difficult for children who are not close to their fathers to receive this type of education, of course, if the child's mother is a very decisive strong woman in the workplace, it is another matter, but as far as the current situation is concerned, most of the children who are rarely close to their fathers grow up to act less decisively.
As parents, we must try our best to meet this need of our children, so that the baby can have a sound personality when he grows up, especially the baby boy Oh ~ determination is very important!
2, the desire to control is too strong
In contrast to the first case, children who are rarely close to their fathers do not feel paternal love in their early years, so they often cannot distinguish between care and control, especially in relationships as they grow up.
Sometimes the control of the other party will be regarded as a manifestation of loving the other party, but it is not known that too strong control will make the other party feel uncomfortable, and it will also cause the other party's misunderstanding, and the relationship will be shaken after a long time.
3. It may have an impact on the sexual orientation of girls
Our society has been highly developed, so homosexuality often occurs around us, but there are still some people who do not accept or understand this group.
Some people's tendency is innate, but there is no lack of some people who are affected by the day after tomorrow, especially baby girls, girls who are rarely close to their fathers may have a sense of alienation from boys, although not absolutely, but it will also cause a certain impact.
In fact, no matter how busy our lives are and how ambitious our goals are, they should be implemented back into the small unit of the family.
Because the family is our strongest backing and dependence, the child's education should start from an early age, and the cultivation of the child's feelings should also start from an early age, after all, the child grows up day by day, and the distance between us and our parents is far away.
So while we still have time and children still have time, encourage children to be close to their parents.