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Uncle Liu, 63, has been raising two children alone since his wife died of illness at the age of 30 and has not remarried.
Uncle Liu has a 5-story self-built house in the city, he lives on the first floor, and the others are used for rent.
He does not go to work and has a stable high income, so there are many women who take the initiative to find him good, but he does not want any.
One is the fear of marrying back a "bad harem" who has wronged the child, and the other is that the woman is afraid of coveting his property.
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If the woman marries him, does not spend his money, takes care of his two daughters like a biological mother, and will not regenerate, then he is willing to deal with it.
However, where in the world is there such a stupid woman who sticks money upside down and cannot have her own child?
To put it mildly, a woman has spent her whole life, and she does not even have an heir to the family property.
As a result, even if the conditions are good, he has not found a suitable object.
When others heard his request, they were scared away.
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Now, the two daughters have long been married, and he is no longer needed, so he thinks of finding a wife for himself.
He doesn't ask much of his partner: gentle and generous, willing to do housework.
Uncle Liu's economic conditions are good, and the red lady of the marriage agency quickly introduced him to the 60-year-old Aunt Li.
Although Aunt Li is no longer young, she has fair skin, speaks softly, and looks gentle and virtuous.
Without waiting to understand each other, Uncle Liu fell in love with her at first sight and identified it as her.
But who knows, this is just his wishful thinking!
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After Aunt Li retired, she lived alone, with a monthly pension of 2500 yuan, enough for her expenses.
She looks Sven, but she is actually a cheerful person with a passion for life.
On weekdays, she likes to travel, to dance, and her life is colorful.
Her son became a family in the province and did not trust her alone.
He arranged a blind date for her, hoping that she could find a companion who would take care of her and accompany her.
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After introducing himself, Uncle Liu began to talk and try to show his advantages and let Aunt Li like it.
But Aunt Lee didn't look at him.
I think he is generally tall, his speech is exaggerated, his eyes are still very light, and he keeps looking up and down at her.
This made Aunt Li very disgusted and uncomfortable.
Uncle Liu told Aunt Li all about his young widowed wife, who was both a father and a mother.
He thought Aunt Lee would be touched by this, or praise him as a responsible and good father.
However, Aunt Li listened indifferently.
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Aunt Li: "We won't mention the past, I also came alone." ”
She now wants to find a man who shares her three views and has common hobbies.
For the "charter public" life that Uncle Liu has been hanging on to his mouth, there is no slightest interest.
She's not the same thing that most middle-aged and elderly women pursue.
She felt that the satisfaction of the spiritual world was far more important than the material.
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"I heard you mention the past, you won't raise a woman, is that still the same idea?" Aunt Lee asked.
Whether a man has money or not is one thing, whether he is willing to raise a woman or not is another matter.
Uncle Liu adheres to the principle, saying that after marriage, the AA system, "Marriage without money linkage is the most sincere." ”
Hearing him say this, Aunt Li frowned slightly and stopped making a sound.
Uncle Liu said that although he is not short of money, he does not like women to talk to him about money, which will hurt feelings.
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Whether or not to raise a wife after marriage is a matter of course and natural progress.
If the relationship is not good after marriage, it will certainly not be raised.
If the feelings are good, they will naturally have a good birth and raise her.
If a woman talks to him about money and conditions at the beginning, then she must not be sincere, but just covets his money.
Such a woman, don't stop it!
Otherwise, it will increase the trouble.
Uncle Liu was very satisfied with his point of view, and kept nodding his head in recognition while speaking.
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Aunt Li: "Since the living expenses are half of one person, is the housework also half of one person, and after marriage, is it worth sleeping in the room?"
Each one is in charge of each other, that is, purely living together.
Just to have a talking companion in life, not to be so lonely.
Such a blind date in old age, organized family, is completely devoid of emotions.
After Uncle Liu listened, he was instantly excited to refute it.
"I gave you a house to live in, so naturally you have to do housework in return!" If you don't want to serve me and sleep in separate rooms, then what do I want you to go back to? ”
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Uncle Liu did not expect that Aunt Li, who looked so gentle, spoke with a heart and lungs.
It was not a character he could control, and he did not dare to ask for it.
Aunt Li saw that his thoughts were pedantic and could not be lit like a cowhide lantern, so she did not bother to compete with him, picked up the bag and left without looking back.
This blind date was not happy and dispersed.
Do you think: middle-aged and elderly couples who are halfway together, is it necessary for the man to raise a woman?